Umxholo
- Iyacetyiswa - Gcina Ikhosi Yam Yomtshato
- 1. Bhala into olwa nayo okanye ongayithandiyo ngeqabane lakho
- 2. Bhala phantsi indlela ophendula ngayo kwiziphene okanye iimpawu ezikhathazayo
- 3. Bhala phantsi indlela eninokuphucula ngayo nobabini
Xa uzifumanisa ukuba usecicini lokulungela ukuphelisa umtshato wakho, yimvakalelo embi.
Ngaphezulu kokulindeleka, uziva ngathi uzame konke okusemandleni ukwenza ukuba izinto zisebenze, kodwa azinakulungiswa. Kodwa iingxaki zomtshato azinakuphepheka. Ukuphelisa umtshato ayisosisombululo; Kuya kufuneka ufumane iindlela zokusindisa umtshato wakho endaweni yoko.
Kodwa, kungoku nje abantu abaninzi badla ngokunikezela ngokupheleleyo, kuba baziva ngathi iingxaki zomtshato wabo azinakulungiswa.
Kuthekani ukuba wenze uluhlu? Asithethi ngohlobo oluhle kunye noluluhlu apha, kodwa endaweni yoko uhlobo apho ubeka khona ingcinga malunga nokungahambi kakuhle kunye nendlela ekusingathwa ngayo. Ukuba uyasilela ukufikelela kwisisombululo esifanelekileyo, unokucinga ngokufuna uncedo lomtshato kwingcali.
Kodwa, ukusondela kunyangi akunakuba sesona sisombululo sokujongana neengxaki zomtshato. Kwaye, ixesha yiyo yonke into xa kufikwa kumba wengcebiso ngomtshato.
Endaweni yokuxhomekeka kuphela kumcebisi, ungaqala ngokudwelisa izinto okanye imicimbi, ocinga ukuba, inoxanduva lomtshato wakho ongaphumeleliyo. Ukuzilolonga okunjalo kufuna umgudu omkhulu kuwo omabini amaqabane, kodwa oku kuncinci onokukwenza ukugcina umtshato wakho.
Kananjalo, oku kunokuba ngumsebenzi wokuvula amehlo kubantu abaninzi abanotyekelo lokubeka ityala kumaqabane abo kuphela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho iimeko apho iqabane linokuba sesona sizathu sokuqhawuka komtshato, kodwa uninzi lwexesha elithathayo lokuba izinto zihambe kakubi.
Oku akuthethi ukuba ityala libekwe ngokuthe ngqo kuwe, kuba oku ngumzamo odibeneyo. Thatha uxanduva lwenxalenye yakho. Kuya kufuneka ucinge ngento eyenza ukuba ulungele ukuwushiya umtshato kwaye ujonge okwenzayo ukukhuthaza okanye ukuhambisa indawo ezinengxaki.
Iyacetyiswa - Gcina Ikhosi Yam Yomtshato
Bhala yonke into phantsi kuluhlu olwahlukileyo
Ngaba uyinxalenye yengxaki okanye uyinxalenye yesisombululo?
Ngaba ukulungele ukugqiba izinto kwimicimbi engenamsebenzi onokuyilungisa?
Mininzi imibuzo onokuthi uzibuze yona, kodwa ukuba iyintoni na eyehlela imicimbi yomtshato, inqaku elipheleleyo lempikiswano ligwetywa ngokusekwe kukuziphatha komntu kunye nendlela asabela ngayo omnye umntu kuyo.
Ukuba iqabane lakho lenza into ekukhathazayo, ingaba uyenza njani?
Nangona banokuba nokuziphatha okuyingxaki, ekugqibeleni, isenokuba yindlela osabela ngayo kuyo ebangela iingxaki.
Kuyanceda kakhulu ukubhala phantsi into ekucaphukisayo, ze umbe nzulu malunga nento ozisa ngayo etafileni ukuze ube negalelo kwiingxaki- koku kunokuza nezisombululo kunye nomhlaba ophakathi eningasebenzela kuwo nobabini! Le yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokugcina umtshato wakho.
Apha sijonga kuluhlu olwahluke mpela, olunokukunika ukuqonda ukuba kutheni umtshato wakho uqhekeka, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungawulungisa njani kwaye ubuyele emgceni.
1. Bhala into olwa nayo okanye ongayithandiyo ngeqabane lakho
Ngaphambi kokuba unikezele kwimitshato eneengxaki, kufuneka umntu afunde ukwenza umtshato usebenze kwasekuqaleni.
Le yeyona ndlela yahluke ngokupheleleyo enokukunceda ukuvula amehlo akho kwizinto kwaye ufumane iindlela zokugcina umtshato wakho. Ungaqala ngokubhala phantsi indawo yakho yengxaki, enje-
- Bhala ukuba zeziphi ezona ngxaki unazo neqabane lakho
- Bhala phantsi into olwa ngayo
- Bhala phantsi into ekukhathazayo
- Olona phawu lucelomngeni kubo, okanye
- Yintoni ofumanisa kunzima ukuhlala nayo
Oku kunokuba kukuvula kakhulu ukuba uyasokola nokungakwazi kwabo ukunceda endlini, yinto enye leyo.
Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, uyasokola nento enkulu njengokungabikho kobukho kusapho lwakho, yenye into leyo.
Ngamaxesha amaninzi kunokuba kungenjalo, ezona zinto usokola ngazo okanye ungazithandiyo malunga neqabane lakho ziphela zingabalulekanga kwindalo.
Le ayisiyoyona nxalenye inkulu nangona, kodwa mayiyeke yonke kwaye ubhale phantsi eyona mingeni mikhulu kunye nokudakumba.
2. Bhala phantsi indlela ophendula ngayo kwiziphene okanye iimpawu ezikhathazayo
Nyaniseka apha kwaye ubhale phantsi into oyenzayo ukuphendula kolu lonxunguphalo.
Ukuba unqwenela ukuwusindisa umtshato wakho, ungaqala ngokubamba ukukrokra kwakho, ukulila, ukugqajukelwa ngumsindo, ukukhwaza, okanye nayiphi na enye indlela yokusingatha ezo mpawu zikucaphukisayo. Yiya ngenqaku-ngenqaku kuluhlu kwaye uthembeke kwinto oyenzayo ukuphendula xa iqabane lakho lingakuniki into oyifunayo.
Ungakhe uyicinge nokuyicinga, vele ubhale phantsi iimpendulo zakho okanye indlela oziphethe ngayo kule micimbi kwaye uyiprinte.
Uzibuza ukuba uza kuwulungisa njani umtshato? Kulungile! Ngokuqinisekileyo le yenye yeendlela zokwenza.
3. Bhala phantsi indlela eninokuphucula ngayo nobabini
Ngoku jonga ixesha elide kolu luhlu kwaye ulwahlule. Uya kubona ukuba ukusabela kwakho kwingxaki kusenokwenzeka ukuba kubi kanye njengengxaki. Ngoku bhala isisombululo esifanelekileyo kunye nokuphendula.
Kwaye, ukuba ucela awona macebiso alungileyo omtshato ukuze ugcine umtshato wakho, ungaqala ngokubhala into oyithandayo ngokwenyani malunga nalo mntu uphambi kwakho, kwaye yintoni ekwenza ukonwabele ukutshata nabo.
Bhala phantsi into onqwenela ukuyifeza okanye usebenze ngokudlulileyo njengesibini, kunye nezisombululo kuzo zombini iindlela zokuziphatha ezikukhathazayo.
Oku kunokukunceda ubone ukuba nobabini ninokusebenza njani nedwa nize nibe sisibini ukulungisa into eyaphukileyo-kwaye ukusuka apho ungawubuyisela umtshato wakho kwindawo efanelekileyo!
Ngamanye amaxesha ufuna nje umbono wokuba akuncede ubone ukuba umtshato wakho kufanelekile ukuwusindisa kwaye kuthatha abantu ababini ukwenza izinto zihambe kakuhle okanye zibi.
Yenza ukhetho kwaye uzibophelele kumanyano lokwenyani oluqinisekisa ukuba abantu ababini bonwabile kunye ngokuya phambili!
Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukulwela umtshato wakho ukuze ugcine umtshato wakho kwaye uluhlu olukhankanywe apha ngasentla luya kukukhokelela kwindlela elungileyo.