Umxholo
- Uthando ngumsebenzi wangaphakathi
- Ubugcisa kunye nomlingo wokudala uthando
- “Ukwenza umdlalo wothando-khulisa umdlalo”
- Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezili-10 ozixabisayo ngalo mntu okanye kule meko
- Ngaba ungaziva ngathi uziva "uxabiso" okanye mhlawumbi uthando?
- Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezili-10 ozithandayo ngawe
- Oko sigxile kuko kuyanda
Uninzi lwethu lunqwenela ukuba nothando ngakumbi ebomini bethu, nokuba sinamaqabane okanye abanye abantu esibathandayo abasondeleyo kuthi, okanye akunjalo.
Ngamanye amaxesha sinokuba nabantu abasondeleyo kuthi, kodwa singaziva ukuba Uthando luhamba phakathi kwethu.
Kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha singakholelwa kuMandla aPhakamileyo ohlobo oluthile kwaye ke ngoko siyazi ukuba silufanelekile uthando, kodwa sisenengxaki yokuziva sinxibelelene kwaye sithandwa ngokunzulu ngolu hlobo lusikhulisayo.
Nokuba siyayazi, okanye akunjalo, uninzi lokubandezeleka kwethu kunye nokuziva ukuba into ayilunganga kubomi bethu inento yokwenza nothando-nokuba sizithanda kangakanani kwaye sizamkela njani kwaye siziva sinxibelelene kangakanani, sithandwa kwaye sithanda abanye abantu.
Ukuba asinalo uthando sinokuziva ngathi "asikho", ngokungathi asiyiyo, okanye, sinokubandezeleka ngakumbi kwiingxaki zengqondo, zengqondo kunye nezomzimba ezifana nokudakumba, ukuxhalaba, izilingo kunye nezinye izifo. Ke, isisombululo singaba yintoni?
Uthando ngumsebenzi wangaphakathi
Sivame ukucinga ukuba uthando yinto evela ngaphandle kwethu, kuba xa sasingabantwana abancinci, sachola kuzo zonke iintlobo zamandla afihlakeleyo, ngakumbi amandla othando-okanye, sithathe ukungabikho kwawo.
Xa sasisemncinci kakhulu kwaye singenakuzinceda, nokuba uthando aluzange lubonakaliswe kuthi ngabantu abadala abasingqongileyo lwenze umohluko omkhulu kwindlela esiziva ngayo ngathi, nangokuba seBomini ngokubanzi.
Besingenalo ulawulo oluninzi ngalo, kwaye ke sihlala sikholelwa ekubeni asinakulawula ukuba sinothando kangakanani kubomi bethu, nasebudaleni. Sivame ukucinga ukuba inani lothando esinalo ebomini bethu luxhomekeke ekubeni sinenhlanhla ngokwaneleyo na ukuba "siyifumane", njengemiboniso bhanyabhanya yothando, okanye kwinto abanye abantu abayenzayo okanye abangayenziyo.
Kodwa oku akunjalo. Singafunda ukuthanda kunye nokwandisa amandla othando ebomini bethu, ukuqala nangale mzuzu. Endaweni yokuba yinto esiyifumanayo "siyifumana" kwabanye abantu, sinamandla okuzenzela uthando, kwaye ngenxa yoko sandisa ubukho balo ebomini bethu.
Kwaye-ubungakanani bothando esinokulufumana kwabanye abantu buxhomekeke kakhulu kwindlela esinokuziva ngayo kwaye sizenzele thina; Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka siziqhelanise zombini ezi ntlobo zothando- zabanye kunye neemeko zobomi bethu, kodwa, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ziziqu zethu.
Ubugcisa kunye nomlingo wokudala uthando
Cinga ngokwakho njengeGcisa kunye noMlingo, ofunda ubuGcisa obutsha kunye noMlingo omtsha-ubuGcisa noMlingo wokuDala uthando!
Kuyathatha kancinci ukuziqhelanisa, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba xa unikezela nangemizuzu nje embalwa yexesha lakho kwaye ujolise kuyo yonke imihla, uza kubona iziphumo ngokukhawuleza.
Kuyinyani ukuba sihlala sidinga iindlela ezininzi ezinamacandelo okusinceda ukuba sinyange xa sinengxaki enzulu malunga nokuswela uthando, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukufikelela kwaye ucele uncedo, xa sisentlungwini enkulu .
Singaphilisa ngokudibanisa ukutshintsha indlela esivakalelwa ngayo ngaphakathi, kwaye sithathe inyathelo "ngaphandle", umzekelo ngokufumana uncedo lobuchwephesha kunye nokuthetha nabanye abanokusinceda ukuba sicace malunga nokuqhubekayo, ngokufunda iindlela ezintsha zokukhathalela ngokwethu ngokwenza umthambo nokutya, njl.
Kwaye sinokwenza izinto ezithile ezilula ngokwethu ezinokusinceda ukuba siqale ukuziva singcono kwaye sixhotyiswe ngakumbi ekukhangekeni kobomi obonwabisayo, obanelisa ngakumbi, nobuzaliswe luthando.
Ndibiza le "midlalo" mincinci kwaye ndisebenzise "Uthando Lomlingo", kwaye ndonwabile ukuba nethuba lokwabelana nawe apha emtshatweni.com!
Eyokuqala ndiza kukubonisa inokubonakala ilula kakhulu, kwaye ungazibuza ukuba inganceda njani, kodwa ndiyakunyanzelisa ukuba uzame, kwaye ubone okwenzekayo!
Iyafuna "umsebenzi" omncinci, kwaye ukuba unentlungu eninzi ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba ufumane lonke uncedo lobuchwephesha onokulufuna ukunceda umnqweno wakho wokuphilisa kwaye uzive ungcono.
Kodwa "imidlalo" elula endizokwabelana ngayo apha inokunceda kakhulu, kwaye, kuba ayifuni nto ngaphandle kwexesha lakho elincinci kunye noxinzelelo, ungazenza naphina, nangaliphi na ixesha, kwaye bakhululekile ngokupheleleyo!
Ke-masiqhubeke nale yokuqala, ndiyazi ukuba uya kuyithanda!
“Ukwenza umdlalo wothando-khulisa umdlalo”
Fumana usiba kunye nephetshana lephepha (okanye ngcono okwangoku, fumana incwadana yokubhala ekhethekileyo onokuyinikezela kwimithambo yakho ye "Love Magic").
Yenza uluhlu lobudlelwane okanye iimeko ezikubangela eyona ntlungu kunye nokudana, apho uziva kukho ukusilela kothando, kwaye apho unqwenela ukuba kungabakho okungaphezulu.
Emva kokuba unoluhlu lwakho, yenza isigqibo sokuba ngubani okanye yintoni ofuna ukugxila kuyo kuqala.
Khetha umntu omnye okanye ababini okanye iimeko ngalo lonke ixesha uhlala phantsi ukuze "udlale" lo mdlalo.
Xa sele ukulungele kwaye ukhethe umntu okanye imeko ongathanda ukuzisa uthando ngakumbi kuyo.
Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezili-10 ozixabisayo ngalo mntu okanye kule meko
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba babe zizinto "ezinkulu".
Ukuba ucinga ngomntu, unokucinga nangezinto ezincinci ezinje:
Ndiyayithanda indlela ancuma ngayo uJoe xa onwabile.
okanye
Ndiyayithanda imibala yeenwele zikaLouise.
Ukuba ubhala malunga nemeko efana nalapho uhlala khona, okanye umsebenzi wakho oxinezelayo, ungabhala:
Ndiyayithanda indlela ilanga elihamba ngayo efestileni.
okanye
Ndiyayixabisa into yokuba umsebenzi wam wangoku undivumela ukuba ndikwazi ukuzixhasa.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ubhale izinto OTHANDE NGOKWENENE okanye ozithandayo ngomntu okanye imeko okhethe ukugxila kuyo.
Awunakho ukukhohlisa lo "mdlalo" .... kwaye, inxalenye yexabiso ngokwenza oko kukuba iya kukunceda ukuba ucace malunga nento oyithandayo, kunye nento ongayithandiyo!
Uninzi lwethu alwazi nokuba sinandipha ntoni ebomini bethu, zithini ixabiso lethu, sizimisele ntoni ....
Lo mdlalo mncinci yindlela enamandla yokuqala ukucaca kuthi malunga nezinto esivakalelwa kukuba zibalulekile kuthi, elinyathelo lokuqala elibalulekileyo.
Njengoko ubhala izinto ozixabisayo phantsi, mfanekiso ngamehlo engqondo yakho umntu okanye imeko kwaye uyixabisile.
Zama ukuziva iimvakalelo emzimbeni wakho xa ujonge kule nto uyithandayo noyithandayo.
Ngaba ungaziva ngathi uziva "uxabiso" okanye mhlawumbi uthando?
Uziva phi emzimbeni wakho? Ngaba kuyabanda, okanye kushushu? Ngaba ikwenza uzive ungenanto, okanye uzele? Mhlawumbi awuva nto kwaphela, kodwa ngaba uneengcinga ezithile okanye imifanekiso ebaleka engqondweni yakho?
Zama ukungagwebi indlela oziva ngayo okanye "oyibonayo", qaphela nje kubo. Ndikucebisa ukuba ubhale phantsi ukuba zeziphi iintlobo zovakalelo onazo, okanye ubuncinci uthathe inowuthi yengqondo ukuze uqale ukuzama "ukudala" ezi mvakalelo imini yonke yakho.
Njengoko uziva uluvo oluhle, jonga ukuba ungade ubenako nokuzandisa kancinci. Beka amandla kancinci kubo, kwaye ubone ukuba bayanda. Qaphela ukuba uziva njani, naye!
Usenokuziva ungaqhelekanga ekuqaleni ukwenza oku, kwaye usenokuzibuza uzibuza ukuba “WONA uza kwenza ntoni umahluko?!?!” kodwa ndifuna uthathe ilizwi lam koku, kwaye uzame ukukwenza.
Xa ugqibile ukuyenzela omnye umntu okanye imeko, ndifuna ukuba wenze into efanayo malunga nezinto ezili-10 zakho.
Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezili-10 ozithandayo ngawe
Kwaye "uzive" indlela yakho ungene kuzo kwaye uzikhulise.
Unokufumanisa ukuba kunzima ngakumbi ukufumana izinto ngawe ozithandayo nozixabisayo, kwaye kulungile. Qaphela nje oku, kwaye wenze konke onako ukukwenza.
Emva kokuba ugqibile, beka incwadana yakho ecaleni, kwaye uhambe malunga nosuku lwakho.
Buyela kuyo ngosuku olulandelayo, kwaye uyenze yonke imihla kwiiveki ezimbini ukuya kwezine ezilandelayo. Ukuba weqa usuku okanye ezimbini okanye ezintathu, ungakhathazeki ngayo. Yithathe kwaye uyenze kwakhona.
Ngokufanelekileyo, oku kuya kuba sisiqhelo oqala ukusisebenzisa kuzo zonke iintlobo zezinto ebomini bakho, ngakumbi xa uziva uphazanyiswa yinto ethile, kubandakanya nawe.
Ngexesha lakho, xa uzibona uhlala kwizinto ezimbi wena, omnye umntu, okanye enye imeko, zama ukukhumbula izinto ozixabisayo, kwaye ubuyisele uvakalelo lothando emzimbeni wakho kwaye wandise.
Njengoko uziqhelanisa "nokudlala" lo mdlalo ulula, qaphela okwenzekayo ngaphakathi kuwe nakujikeleze.
Ungaqala ukubona utshintsho olufihlakeleyo, kwindlela oziva ngayo ngawe, ngoBomi ngokubanzi, nangabantu abakungqongileyo! Uya kuqala ukubona ukuba unawo amandla okutshintsha indlela ocinga ngayo kunye nendlela oziva ngayo, kwaye ke ngenxa yoko unamava obomi bakho kwinqanaba losuku nosuku.
Bhala izinto ezincinci / ezinkulu ezinokubonisa wena- kuba njengoko ukhula kwisakhono sakho sokuziva uzithanda kwaye uxabisa isiqu sakho kunye nabanye, uyakubona ukuba utsalela ngakumbi nangakumbi iimeko ezikulethela le mvakalelo ilungileyo!
Oko sigxile kuko kuyanda
Ndijonge phambili ukuva kuwe malunga namava akho, kwaye jonga apha kwakhona kungekudala amanyathelo athile alandelayo ekudaleni uthando loMlingo ngokwakho nakwabanye!