Umxholo
- Uthando lunokufihlwa, kodwa aluzukuhamba
- Ishishini. Ishishini. Ishishini
- Abantwana
- Umyeni wakho akasaziva eyithanda
- Ucinezela umyeni wakho ezintweni
- Iimbambano ezingasonjululwanga
- Ngaba iingxabano ezingasonjululwanga ziqhubela phambili wena nomyeni wakho?
- Yintoni elandelayo?
- Yandisa ukoneliseka kwakhe kubudlelwane
Uyakhumbula ukuba umyeni wakho wagqibela ukukuchukumisa?
Okanye ukugqibela kwakhe ukuhamba eyokwenza into kuwe?
Ngaba uye abe novakalelo malunga nezinto ebeya kuhlala engazihoyi?
Uyavuya ukukubona ngokuhlwa, okanye umyeni wakho uphelelwe ngumdla emtshatweni wakho?
Uthando lunokufihlwa, kodwa aluzukuhamba
Umtshato wakho uchazwa ngokunxibelelana kwakho. Unxibelelwano, isini, unxibelelwano kunye namaxesha eniwachitha kunye: konke oku kukwandisa ibhondi yakho.
Xa sithetha ngamaqabane omphefumlo, sithetha ngonxibelelwano phakathi kweentliziyo ezimbini.
Yonke into esiyenzayo kubudlelwane ijolise ekwandiseni olo nxibelelwano.
Ke, xa uziva ukuba umyeni wakho ukude, oko akuthethi ukuba umyeni wakho uphulukene nomdla kulwalamano.
Oko kunokuthetha, nangona kunjalo, kukuba izinto ezisebenza njengebhulorho phakathi kwale miphefumlo mibini ziye zenziwa buthathaka. Ukuba uyabomeleza, uyakuqonda ukuba uthando aluzange luye ndawo.
Ubudlelwane obuninzi buhamba ngezigaba xa indoda ingabonakali ngathi ixhunyiwe kubudlelwane njengoko yayinjalo ngaphambili. Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni isantya solwalamano lwakho sinokuthi sitshintshe.
Ishishini. Ishishini. Ishishini
Okukhona uhlala emtshatweni, kokukhona kuya kufuneka uxanduva: Abantwana, imali kunye nekhaya.
Ngexesha, izibini ezininzi zifumanisa ukuba ukuhlangana kwabo kuncitshisiwe kuthotho lweencoko zeshishini. Kwenye indawo kuhambo, uya ukhula kwaye ube njengamaqabane azama ukuqhuba umbutho osapho lwakho.
Uyalibala ukuba ngabahlobo njani omnye nomnye. Lulula kakhulu, inene. Umgangatho wobuhlobo bakho nomyeni wakho umisela umgangatho wolwalamano lwakho.
Khumbula, uthando ayisiyonto nje abantu abawela baphume kuyo ngaphandle kokuba banako ukuyilawula. Uthando lukhetho olwenza yonke imihla: ngokuhlonipha, ukuthembana, ukuzibophelela omnye komnye kwaye ekugqibeleni ube nobuhlobo obunempilo.
Ke, ukuba uyazibuza ukuba kutheni umyeni wakho ebonakala ekude kwaye ephazamisekile, vavanya ubuhlobo bakho. Akukho mntu unokungamhoyi umhlobo olungileyo.
Uphando ibonisa ukuba amadoda atshatileyo aphile ixesha elide kunamadoda angatshatanga. UGqr Oz uthi ayinanto yakwenza nolonwabo. Abantu abatshatileyo baphila ixesha elide kuba abafazi babo bayaqinisekisa ukuba bayabonana nogqirha.
Abantwana
Abantwana bafanelwe ukukhankanywa okhethekileyo. Zinefuthe elibalulekileyo kulwalamano lwesibini. Bobabini indoda nomfazi bayatshintsha emva kokufumana umntwana, kwaye ke ubudlelwane buyatshintsha.
Umyeni uziva uxinzelelo lobaba, ngelixa umfazi ehamba ngaphezulu, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
Umcimbi uza ngenxa yokuba oomama banendawo yokugcina engenasiphelo yokubonelela abantwana babo. Umama uya kuhlala enika umntwana wakhe ngaphaya kokudinwa.
Iingxaki ziqala ukwenzeka xa indoda iqala ukuzibuza ukuba kutheni umfazi engakwazi ukuya ngaphezulu nangaphaya kwiimfuno zakhe ngokunjalo. Kananjalo, ngamanye amaxesha umyeni uyasokola ukufumana indawo yakhe kusapho lwakhe emva kokuba abantwana bezelwe.
Njengomfazi, kuya kufuneka uzimisele ukusebenza nomyeni wakho ukufumana iinkqubo zenkxaso zokukunceda uvale indima kamama wakho rhoqo emva kwethuba ukuze ube nexesha lakho nomyeni wakho, ngaphandle kwabantwana.
Umyeni wakho akasaziva eyithanda
Umtshato ufana nayo yonke into. Emva kovuyo lokuqala, siyatyibilika siye kwiinkqubo ezimalunga neziqu zethu. Kufana nje nomsebenzi omtsha: uqala ukonwaba kwaye uqhubeke kwaye uqhubeke malunga nokuba unethamsanqa kangakanani na lokufumana umsebenzi omnandi kangaka. Kodwa ke ngokuhamba kwexesha, uye ungene kwizimo zengqondo ezingalunganga ezinciphisa ulonwabo owawunalo kuqala, kwaye nomsebenzi wakho uyasokola.
Inoveli ivuselela umdla. Nje ukuba nantoni na iqheleke, kuya kufuneka usebenze nzima ukuyigcina.
Ukuqala kwakho ukutshata, umenze njani umyeni wakho? Ngaba usancuma naye, uyamncoma, uyamxabisa kwaye uyakonwabela ubukho bakhe? Kwenzeka ntoni kumazwi othando? Okanye bathathelwe indawo zizikhalazo kunye neejabs ezincinci?
Abasetyhini baqeqeshelwe ukuba noxanduva lwentlalo-ntle yakhe wonke umntu kusapho. Ngenxa yoko, banokuba ziziphathamandla, bahlala bekhomba apho izinto zingahambi kakuhle. Kwinkqubo, amadoda amaninzi ashiyeka eziva engaxatyiswanga, engahlonitshwanga kwaye engonwabanga. Indoda evakalelwa kukuba ilahlekelwe kukunconywa ngumfazi wayo ayinakuphinda igcine ubudlelwane obufanayo awayenabo nayo.
Ucinezela umyeni wakho ezintweni
Amaxesha ngamaxesha, umfazi kusenokufuneka anike indoda isiqubu phambili. Oku kuhle kuba kunceda abayeni ukuba bahambe ngaphaya kwemimandla yokuthuthuzela. Nangona kunjalo, umyeni wakho akazukuyivuyela loo nto ukuba uhlala usenza oku. Akukho mntu ufuna ukuxhatshazwa ngokwenza izinto abangazifuniyo okanye abazithandayo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Awunakuhlala ungoyena unoluvo, kwaye akufuneki ubethe indoda yakho ukuba ilingane ukungunda kwakho. Ubudlelwane obusempilweni buxhaswa yintlonipho nokuqonda.
Ngaphandle kwempindezelo yakho, umyeni wakho sele ephantsi koxinzelelo olukhulu lokondla usapho, athenge indlu, afundise abantwana, abonelele ngokhuseleko lwezemali ..... Ukuba uqhubeka nolawulo lwakho, uya kuphelisa konke ukusondelelana phakathi kwaba babini yakho.
Iimbambano ezingasonjululwanga
Abantu abaninzi abanazo izakhono ezisisiseko zokulawula iimvakalelo. Xa amaqabane abo edanile okanye enomsindo, abazi ukuba bangfikelela njani kubo. Ngenxa yoko, isibini siya kuhlala sifumana iimpikiswano ezingayi ndawo.
Ngenxa yoko, iingxoxo azikaze zilungiswe kwaye ukuvumelana akunakuze kwakhiwe. Iimvulophu zokungakhathaleli kwaye amaqabane ayadana kwaye anomsindo. Inzondo ekugqibeleni izala indelelo; ezinokukrwitsha ubomi kubudlelwane bakho.
Ngaba iingxabano ezingasonjululwanga ziqhubela phambili wena nomyeni wakho?
Yiba ngowokuqala emtshatweni wakho ukubuyisela ingqumbo novelwano. Kutheni wena? Kuba njengomfazi, 'uyintliziyo' yomtshato wakho.Ngenxa yoko unoxanduva olukhulu kwisebe elisondeleyo lomtshato wakho.
Abasetyhini banxibelelana ngakumbi neentliziyo zabo. Banesakhono sendalo sothando. Abasetyhini, ke, banezixhobo ezifanelekileyo zokwakha ubudlelwane emtshatweni wabo.
Yintoni elandelayo?
Sele sibonisile ukuba umyeni wakho usakuthanda kwaye akalahli mdla kubudlelwane bakho. Nangona kunjalo, kukho izinto ekufuneka uzenzile ukugcina unxibelelwano olusondeleyo nomyeni wakho luhamba, ngalo lonke ixesha.
Yandisa ukoneliseka kwakhe kubudlelwane
Amahla-ndinyuka okuba kubudlelwane kunye nawe kufuneka awongamele ezantsi amacala omyeni wakho.
Logama ibhalansi intle, umyeni wakho uya kuqhubeka nokutyala imali emtshatweni. Olu luhlobo lohlalutyo lomngcipheko.