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Umxholo

• Yintoni engatshintshanga
• 1. Kusafuneka uhlale unyanisekile komnye nomnye
• 2.Ufanele ukondle kwaye ulungiselele umntwana wakho, ungamkhuseli
• 3. Umsebenzi wakho kukubafundisa ngokulungileyo nokungalunganga
• Imisebenzi yomtshato yosapho lwangoku
• 1. Uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali olwahlukileyo kuye, yena kunye nosapho
• 2. Fumana ixesha lodwa kunye
• 3. Zalisekiseni iminqweno yesini omnye komnye
• 4. Yenzani imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye
• Umtshato konke malunga nokwabelana ngobomi bakho kunye noxanduva ngalunye

Kwakukho ixesha apho kwakukho umgca ocacileyo phakathi koxanduva lomtshato lwezibini. Umyeni uzisa ibacon ekhaya, umfazi uyayipaza, ayipheke, asete itafile, acoce itafile, ahlambe izitya, njl njl.

Kulungile, ngumzekelo nje lowo, kodwa ufumana umbono.

Namhlanje, ulindelo luphezulu kuwo omabini amaqela. Imele ukukhuthaza imeko yokusondela kunye nentsebenziswano kusapho. Silindele ukuba isuse umthwalo wendabuko obekwe kwiintsapho.

Kodwa ngaba yile nto yenzekayo?

Mhlawumbi okanye mhlawumbi akunjalo. Kodwa ukuba uhlala (okanye ufuna ukuhlala) kwimeko yosapho yanamhlanje, nazi ezinye iingcebiso zomsebenzi womtshato ukuze usebenze.

Yintoni engatshintshanga

Zininzi izinto eziye zaguqula amandla osapho kwihlabathi langoku elisedolophini. Kodwa kukho izinto ezingekhoyo. Siza kuxoxa ngazo kuqala.

1. Kusafuneka uhlale unyanisekile komnye nomnye

Kungenxa yokuba wena neqabane lakho nixakeke kakhulu ukuchitha ixesha kunye ngenxa yemisebenzi enzima, ayisosizathu sokubakhohlisa.

2.Ufanele ukondle kwaye ulungiselele umntwana wakho, ungamkhuseli

Awubakhuseli, kuba awukwazi.

Ngokuqinisekileyo akunakwenzeka ukuba wazi ukuba wenzani umntwana wakho, bakuphi, bakunye nabo, kwisithuba esingama-24/7/365 ubomi babo bonke.

Kuthekani ukuba ufile? Ukuba awukwazi ukubakhusela i-100% yexesha onabo, kuya kubakho into embi xa ungekho. Ekuphela kwendlela yokwenza oko kukubafundisa ukuba bazikhusele.

3. Umsebenzi wakho kukubafundisa ngokulungileyo nokungalunganga

Baqeqeshe ukuba bacoce emva kwabo, okanye bakuphephe ukubhuqa kwindawo yokuqala. Yiyo kuphela indlela onokubakho ngayo (ubuncinci emoyeni) ukuze ubakhusele ngonaphakade.

Imisebenzi yomtshato yosapho lwangoku

Kucingelwa ukuba abazali abangenamaqabane, nkqu nabo batshatileyo kodwa bohlukene akufuneki bafeze uxanduva lwabo lomtshato.

Kodwa kubo bonke abanye abantu abatshatileyo kwaye baqonda "Yintoni engatshintshanga." Icandelo, nali ingcebiso zokufumana inguqulelo yakho yala maxesha yomtshato obaleka njengomatshini oneoli.

1. Uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali olwahlukileyo kuye, yena kunye nosapho

NjengeNkongolo, uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali kunye nokubala ukuba ingakanani imali esifuna ukuyihlawula, sishishini elikhohlisayo.

Okokuqala, kwenze rhoqo ngenyanga okanye ngeveki kuxhomekeke ekubeni ujonga kangaphi imali yakho. Umzekelo, oosomashishini bayayenza inyanga nenyanga kwaye uninzi lwabantu abaqeshiweyo bahlawulwa ngeveki. Izinto ziyatshintsha, ke kufuneka kuxoxwe ngalo lonke ixesha.

Ukuba yonke into izinzile, ingxoxo yebhajethi kufuneka ithathe kuphela imizuzu elishumi. Nabani na onokugcina imizuzu elishumi ngeveki ukuze athethe neqabane lakhe, akunjalo?

Nanku umyalelo wento efuna ukwenzeka-

1. Dibanisa umvuzo wakho onokulahlwa (Uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho)
2. Ukuhlawula isibonelelo somsebenzi (Iindleko zoThutho, ukutya, njl.
3. Thabatha iindleko zekhaya (Izixhobo, i-inshurensi, ukutya, njl.
4. Shiya isixa esibalulekileyo (ubuncinci i-50%) njengokonga
5. Ukwahlula okuseleyo kubunewunewu buqu (ibhiya, uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lweSalon njl.njl.)

Ngale ndlela akukho sibini sinokukhalaza ukuba umntu uthenga iGalufa elibizayo okanye ibhegi yaseLouis Vuitton. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ngubani ofumana umvuzo ongaphezulu, okoko ubunewunewu bobuntu buhlulelwe ngemvume ngaphambi kokuba uchithe.

Isibonelelo somsebenzi sibaluleke ngakumbi kunesixhobo kuba unokuhlala ngaphandle kombane ekhaya, kodwa ukuba awukwazi ukufikelela kumgaqo ongaphantsi ukuze uye emsebenzini uyahluthwa.

2. Fumana ixesha lodwa kunye

Kungenxa yokuba abantu kufanele ukuba bazinze xa betshata, oko akuthethi ukuba mabayeke ukuthandana. Ungaze uvumele kudlule inyanga yonke ngaphandle kokubukela imuvi kunye (nokuba kusekhaya) kunye nawe neqabane lakho.

Fumana umntu ogcina umntwana okanye ushiye abantwana nezalamane ukuba ufuna ukushiya indlu. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuchitha nokuba ziiyure ezimbalwa kude nayo yonke into kuya kwenza imimangaliso kwimpilo yakho yengqondo kunye nokuphucula ubudlelwane bakho.

3. Zalisekiseni iminqweno yesini omnye komnye

Abantu abathandanayo ixesha elide bakwenzile oku, kodwa akufuneki uyeke ukukwenza emva komtshato wakho. Gcina umzimba wakho ukwimo efanelekileyo ngokwenza umthambo nokutya ngendlela eyiyo.

Ngethuba nje ukuba iingcinga zesondo zingabandakanyi nabani na ongomnye, ezinje ngamashumi amathathu kunye nemigulukudu, emva koko yenze. Ukudlala kunye nesinxibo ukuba kunyanzelekile, kodwa ungalibali ukulungiselela igama elikhuselekileyo.

Ukuba neentlobano zesini nomntu omnye kangangeminyaka kunokubadina kwaye kuyadika.

Ekugqibeleni, iya kuziva ngathi "ngumsebenzi wasemsebenzini" kunento emnandi. Idala iintanda kubudlelwane kwaye inokukhokelela kukungathembeki. Kuba sele uzibophelele emntwini omnye, yenza konke okusemandleni ukukwenza oku. Ngaphandle koko, ukhetho lwakho kukuzonwabisa ngobomi bakho bobulili okanye ekugqibeleni uqhekeze.

4. Yenzani imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye

Iintsapho zale mihla zinemijelo emininzi yengeniso evela kuwo omabini amaqabane.

Oku kulandela ukuba imisebenzi yasekhaya kwabelwana ngayo ngokufanayo. Kungcono ukuzenza zonke kunye, kumnandi ngakumbi kwaye nzulu ubudlelwane. Ukucoca kunye, ukupheka kunye, nokuhlamba izitya kunye. Bandakanya abantwana ngokukhawuleza ukuba banako ukuyenza ngokwasemzimbeni.

Kuyaqondakala ukuba uninzi lwabantwana luza kukhala luze lukhalaze ngokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Bacacisele ukuba baya kuyenza ubomi babo bonke njengokuba kufuneka uyenze ngoku. Ukufunda indlela yokwenza kwangoko nangokufanelekileyo kuya kubanika ixesha elininzi xa bephuma.

Ngale ndlela abayi kuchitha iiveki zabo zekholeji bezama ukufumana indlela yoku-ayina iimpahla zabo.

Umtshato konke malunga nokwabelana ngobomi bakho kunye noxanduva ngalunye

Yiyo leyo. Ayisiyonto ininzi, kwaye ayilohlu olunzima. Umtshato ungokwabelana ngobomi bakho, kwaye ayisiyongxelo yokuzekelisa. Awunokwabelana ngentliziyo yakho, umzimba, (ngaphandle kwezintso zakho) kunye nomphefumlo komnye umntu.

Kodwa unokwabelana ngemali yakho oyisebenzele nzima kunye nexesha elinomda kunye nabo ekwakheni ikamva elithembisayo ngekamva elidlulileyo.

Umsebenzi womtshato uthetha ukuba udibene nomntu ozimisele ukukunceda ngayo yonke into yobomi bakho. Baza kuyenza kuba bekuthanda kwaye bekhathalele wena. Kodwa elona candelo libalulekileyo alilindelanga ukuba yenzeke, kodwa kukwenzela umntu okhethe ukumthanda nokukhathalela imbuyekezo.