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Umxholo
- 1. Ukulunga akusekho
- 2.Awuhlonitshwa
- 3. Ayizukwenza ngawe nangazo zonke
- 4. Uzama kakhulu
- 5. Ukuyeka naluphi na ulwalamano akukho lula
Ubudlelwane yinto efanayo nemali, ixesha kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, amandla emvakalelo.
Okukhona ubeka kubudlelwane bakho, kokukhona kubenza ubomi bakho kunye nokhetho lwakho. Ngexesha elininzi, uthando, kunye namandla atyalwe kubudlelwane, kunokuba nzima ukuyiyeka ihambe ngenxa yezizathu ezinje ngabantwana bakho, impilo yakho, kunye nokungabikho kokuxhomekeka kuwe.
Nangona kunjalo, xa umonakalo sele wenziwe, akukho mali yonyango kunye nokuhlangula kunokukukhusela. Nje ukuba ubudlelwane buhambele kwintshabalalo, kuya kufuneka ujonge ekuzisikeni kwaye ujonge impilo yakho kunye nempilo yengqondo.
Ngale ndlela, unokuqhubela phambili kubudlelwane obukufaneleyo. Oku kulandelayo yimiqondiso yokuba lixesha lokuba uyeke ubudlelwane bakho.
1. Ukulunga akusekho
Ngoku nangona amaxabiso ekwabelwana ngawo kunye nekhemistri eyomeleleyo kubalulekile ekusindeni kubo nabuphi na ubudlelwane, ekupheleni kosuku, ubudlelwane obomeleleyo nobomeleleyo bakhelwe kubuhle obukhoyo phakathi kwabantu ababini.
Ububele kunye nokulunga komnye nomnye, ukuxhasa enye ebalulekileyo nokuba sele ingalunganga, kunye nokuzimisela ukuxolela iimpazamo kunye neziphene abanazo zizinto ezibambe ubudlelwane obuhle.
Inkxaso, ukunconywa, imbeko, ukuzinikela, nokunyamezelana zezona zinto zimalunga nobudlelwane, kwaye ukulunga kwesi sibophelelo akupheli ngephanyazo; iyakhukuliseka ngokuhamba kwexesha. Eminye imiqondiso ebonisa ukuphulukana nokulunga ngumsindo, ubungqongqo, umgama, ukucaphuka, kunye nokungahloniphi.
2.Awuhlonitshwa
Intlonipho yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kulo naluphi na ulwalamano.
Ishiya intembelo ngasemva kuba awunakumthemba umntu ongakuhloniphiyo. Nokuba izinto ezincinci zibalulekile kuba ekugqibeleni zityhila iimvakalelo zabo zokwenyani kunye nomlinganiswa.
Ukungabi nantlonelo kubonakala ngeendlela ezininzi, kwaye usenokungakwazi ukukuqonda kwangoko, kodwa uya kuziva. Kuvakala ngathi ukhaba emathunjini, kwaye xa uqala ukuziva ukuba kwenzeka rhoqo, kuya kufuneka uhambe.
Iimpawu ezifana nokuxoka, ukuthuka, ukukopela zonke iindlela zokungabi nantlonelo.
3. Ayizukwenza ngawe nangazo zonke
Ngelixa konke ukuzibophelela kwahlukile, kubudlelwane, bobabini abantu kufuneka babenendawo eyaneleyo yokuphuhlisa nokukhula. Kuya kufuneka babe namaphupha abo kunye neminqweno yabo ebomini. Bamele babe nendawo yokuvumela umdla wabo ukuba ubandakanywe kwaye banelise iimfuno zabo.
Xa ubudlelwane bungalingani, bahlala bejikeleza umntu omnye.
Umntu ojikeleze ulwalamano uziva onelisekile ngelixa omnye umntu eziva esetyenzisiwe kwaye enomsindo. Baziva bediniwe kukuphila ubomi bomnye umntu. Ukuba ungomnye umntu ongazange wamkelwa kubudlelwane, ke zama ukuzenzela indawo kwaye uthethe ngento oyifunayo kunye nento oyifunayo.
Ukuba iqabane lakho liyakhathazeka yile nto okanye lingaphenduli, kuya kufuneka uhambe uzikhangele ngokwakho.
4. Uzama kakhulu
Ukuhamba kwamandla kwabo bobabini abantu ababeka kubudlelwane kulingana ngokulinganayo ixesha elininzi.
Isiqubulo sokunika-kwaye sithathe sivumela omabini amaqabane ukuba afumane iimfuno kunye neemfuno zabo. Nangona kunjalo, ubudlelwane buqala ukonakala xa umntu omnye esenza wonke umsebenzi ukuze kugcinwe ubudlelwane buqhubeka.
Olu hlobo lobudlelwane lwenza imeko engalinganiyo kwaye umntu osebenza nzima kakhulu unokuba nengqumbo. Yiyo loo nto banokukufumanisa kunzima ukugcina ubudlelwane. Kwelinye icala, umntu oyamkelayo unokufumana ukonwaba ngakumbi ngokuhamba kweentsuku.
Ngalo lonke ixesha khumbula, xa uzama nzima ukufumana umntu, baqala ukuphuma. Ke, zama ukuthatha umphefumlo onzulu kunye nokubuyela umva.
Jonga ukuba kwenzeka ntoni xa ungasebenzi nzima kakhulu. Ukuba iqabane lakho liqala ukufumana uxanduva kwaye lisebenza kubudlelwane, ukubuyisa amandla alahlekileyo kunokuba lula.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba iqabane lakho liyabuya umva kwaye lihambela kude, lixesha lokuba uyeke.
5. Ukuyeka naluphi na ulwalamano akukho lula
Ingcinga yokuphulukana nomntu owakha wathetha umhlaba kuwe inokuba nefuthe elibi kwimpilo yakho yasemzimbeni nasengqondweni.
Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha ubudlelwane oncamathele kubo ngokweemvakalelo bunokuba yityhefu enkulu kuwe. Ngamanye amaxesha, olu lwalamano lunokuba ngumthwalo ekufuneka ubambelele kuwo, kwaye nje ukuba uyeke, inokuba sisigqibo esimangalisayo kuwe.
Ke zama ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ubudlelwane, qiniseka ukuba kufakwa umzamo olinganayo, kwaye uqinisekise ukuba unothando, ukunyaniseka, kunye nentlonipho kuba, ngaphandle kwezi zinto, ubudlelwane abunantsingiselo.