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Umxholo
- Yenza indlela yenkqubo entsha
- Ukwenza uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali
- Unxibelelwano lubalulekile
- Uya kuthandana kwakhona
Xa abantu ababini begqiba ekubeni bachithe ubomi babo kunye, imalunga nokuba nomtshato ogqibeleleyo kunye nelokhwe entle kakhulu, indawo efanelekileyo, umculo omnandi kunye nokutya. Abantu bakholisa ukungahoyi into elandelayo elandelayo itshatileyo unyaka wokuqala. Ubudlelwane obusemthethweni kunye nomtshato ngokwawo uza nemiceli mngeni eyahlukeneyo, kwaye eyona inzima kodwa intle yeyokutshata unyaka wokuqala.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bobabini indoda nomfazi bagqibe kwelokuba banamathelane ngamaxesha amnandi nanzima. Bayaludinga olo thando, uthando kunye nomnqweno wokuhlala kunye ngokulungileyo nanjengoko ingangunobangela womtshato owonwabileyo, ophumelelayo.
Sigqibile ezinye iingcebiso zonyaka wokuqala otshatileyo, eziza kunceda izibini ezitsha ukuba zikwazi okulindelweyo kunye nendlela yokuphendula kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Masizifumanise!
Yenza indlela yenkqubo entsha
Ukuba awungomnye wabo bantu bahlala kunye ngaphambi kokutshata kungakuthatha iiveki ezimbalwa ukuba uqhelane nobukho kunye neeshedyuli zomnye nomnye. Mhlawumbi uthandana nesiqingatha sakho esingcono ixesha elide, kodwa xa abantu ababini beqala ukuhlala kunye, izinto zahluke kancinci.
Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba indlela yakho yesiqhelo iluhlobo oluthile lokuxakaniseka kangangexesha elithile kuba izinto ziya kuthi ekugqibeleni zihlale. Uhlengahlengiso kufuneka lwenziwe kunye nokuhlangabezana ukuze kufunyanwe icala elitsha lomntu otshate naye ngoku.
Ukwenza uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali
Unyaka wokuqala otshatileyo unzima, ngakumbi kule meko. Xa ungatshatanga, uzirhola ngokwakho ukuze uchithe nanini na xa ufuna kuyo nantoni na oyifunayo- kodwa ungasasebenzi. Ngoku, ukuba nencoko kunye nezinye zakho ezibalulekileyo kubalulekile ngaphambi kokuba uthenge nayiphi na itikiti elikhulu.
Ezezimali sisiseko sempikiswano phakathi kwabasandul 'ukutshata. Ukuthintela umdlalo ongeyomfuneko kunye nesiphithiphithi, kungcono ukuhlala kunye nixoxe ngokufanelekileyo ngeendleko zenyanga kubandakanywa iintlawulo zemoto, iimali mboleko, njl. Nokuba nobabini ninokuthatha isabelo senu kwaye nifumane nantoni na eniyifunayo okanye nicwangcise iholide okanye enye into.
Unxibelelwano lubalulekile
Andikwazi ukugxininisa ukubaluleka konxibelelwano kunyaka wokuqala otshatileyo. Nobabini kufuneka nithathe ixesha nokuba imini yenu ibixakeke kangakanani kwaye nithethe ngokwenyani. Unxibelelwano lunokusombulula zonke iingxaki kunye neengxabano kwaye likuvumela ukuba usondele kwiqabane lakho. Akubalulekanga ukuba uthethe nje kuphela kodwa kufuneka umamele. Nobabini kufuneka nivulelane iintliziyo kwaye nithethe.
Ngokwendalo, nobabini niyakuba neentsuku ezinzima nokuba zezobuchwephesha okanye ubomi bobuqu kodwa inyani yokuba iqabane lakho liya kubakhona ukumamela liyakwenza ngcono. Sithembe xa sithetha oku. Ngapha koko, indlela okwazi ngayo ukusombulula iimpikiswano kunye nokungavisisani kunyaka wokuqala emtshatweni kuya kunika ukuqonda ukuba iya kuba njani na yonke iminyaka yakho yomtshato.
Uya kuthandana kwakhona
Musa ukumangaliswa, yinyani. Uya kuthandana kwakhona kwakhona kunyaka wokuqala otshatileyo kodwa kunye nezinye zakho ezibalulekileyo kuphela. Yonke imihla edlulayo, uya kufumanisa into entsha malunga neqabane lakho; Uyakufunda ngakumbi malunga nezinto ozithandayo nangazithandiyo - konke oku kuyakuhlala kukukhumbuza ukuba kutheni uthathe isigqibo sokutshata lo mntu ngoku ungumyeni okanye inkosikazi yakho. Oku kuyakuqinisekisa ukuba niyathandana nobabini ngonaphakade. Hlala uyikhumbula le nto.
Wonke umtshato ukhethekile ngokwawo
Zonke izibini zinohlobo oluthile lomlingo, kukho izinto ezithile ezikwenza wahluke kwabanye kwaye unyaka wokuqala utshatile kuxa ufumanisa ezi zinto. Zama ukunika intliziyo nomphefumlo wakho nokuba isibhakabhaka sibonakala singwevu kancinci kuba ukuba uthe waxhonywa apho, ngokuqinisekileyo ilanga liya kukhanya. Akukho nto inokukunqanda nina nobabini ukuba nibe nobomi obonwabisayo emtshatweni ukuba nobabini ninomnqweno wokuyenza isebenze. Umnqweno omhle!