Umxholo
- Uthetha ngantoni umzali malunga noku
- Yintoni umqeqeshi wabazali
- Uqeqesho lwabazali lwahluke njani kunyango
- Ngubani onokuxhamla kuqeqesho lwabazali
- Wazi njani ukuba ufuna uqeqesho lwabazali
- Yeyiphi imiba ekuthethwa ngayo kuqeqesho lwabazali
- Zeziphi iziphumo onokuzilindela kuqeqesho lwabazali
Yonke imbaleki yeOlimpiki inomqeqeshi. Awungekhe uphuphe ngokuzama ukuthatha inxaxheba kwi-Olimpiki ngaphandle kokwenza uqeqesho olunzima.
Ngoncedo lomqeqeshi ozinikeleyo nonamava ecaleni kwakho ukukonwabisa, uya kuba nakho ukwenza kwelona nqanaba liphezulu.
Yimeko efanayo noko ukuba ngumzali. Nangona ukuba ngumzali akufani neeOlimpiki, ngamanye amaxesha kunokuziva ngathi yitrathlon enzima okanye umdyarho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngoncedo lwabaqeqeshi babazali abafanelekileyo, amava akho obuzali anokunyuka aye kwinqanaba elitsha kwaye unokufumana umbono omtsha wokuba ngumzali.
Kodwa mhlawumbi eli lixesha lokuqala ukuva malunga nale nto ibizwa ngokuba 'ngumqeqeshi wabazali' ke makhe sihlolisise isihloko sokubonisana nabazali kancinci.
Jonga kwakhona:
Uthetha ngantoni umzali malunga noku
Masingene nzulu kwimodeli yoqeqesho lwabazali.
Njengoko igama libonisa, uqeqesho lwabazali ngokusisiseko yinkqubo enceda abazali ukuba bahambe kwimiceli mngeni yokuba ngumzali.
Oku kufezekiswa ngenkxaso kunye nenkuthazo yomntu oqeqeshelwe ukubanakho ukuthatha umzali ngokuqhubekekayo ukuya phambili ukufikelela kwiinjongo zabo zobuzali ezinqwenelekayo.
Ukuqeqeshwa kwabazali kubandakanya ubudlelwane obunenkathalo, uvelwano kunye nokuzimisela phakathi komzali nomqeqeshi. Ngale nkqubo, abazali baya kuba nakho ukuchonga okubalulekileyo kubo xa kuziwa ekukhuliseni abantwana babo.
Baza kuphuhlisa umbono wokuba ngabazali kwaye bafumane ingcaciso malunga neziphumo abanqwenela ukuzibona kusapho lwabo. Emva koko amanyathelo amanyathelo aya kucaca, abenze bakwazi ukufezekisa iinjongo zabo ngengqondo yokuphumelela kunye nokwoneliseka.
Yintoni umqeqeshi wabazali
Umqeqeshi ongumzali ngumqeqeshi oqeqeshiweyo (oqinisekisiweyo) onceda umzali ukuba afunde izakhono ezingcono zokuba ngumzali kwaye aphucule ubudlelwane babo nabantwana babo.
Umqeqeshi uya kubonelela ngenkxaso eyenzelwe wena kunye neyenzelwe wena kubazali ngaphakathi-ngaphakathi nangomnxeba okanye nge-Skype njengoko kufuneka.
Kuxhomekeke kwiimfuno zosapho kunye nemiceli mngeni, umqeqeshi uya kufuna ukunceda abazali ekwenzeni isicwangciso sokuba ngumzali.
Njengoko kuvela iingxaki kunye nobunzima, Umqeqeshi uya kubakho ukukhokela umzali, ebanceda ukuba baphumeze izakhono zokusombulula iingxaki njengoko besenza isicwangciso sabo sobuzali.
Umqeqeshi uya kubuza imibuzo ngendlela eya kuvusa impendulo efanelekileyo kumzali, andise ukuzazi kwabo kwaye abancede bakhe kumandla abo.
Umzali uya kufunda izakhono ezitsha kwaye athathe uxanduva lokufikelela kumbono nakwiinjongo zabo. Umqeqeshi ongumzali akayingcali yezonyango.
Uqeqesho lwabazali lwahluke njani kunyango
Umgqirha kunye nomqeqeshi bahlukile kuba ukugxila ekuqeqesheni okwangoku nakwixesha elizayo, ngelixa unyango luthanda ukugxila kakhulu kwixesha elidlulileyo.
Unyango luya kujongana nemvelaphi yangaphambili yomthengi kwaye ifune ukusebenza ngale micimbi, enokuthi ithathe ixesha elandisiweyo, nkqu neminyaka.
Uqeqesho, kwelinye icala, luzinze ngoku kwaye lufuna ukuqhubela phambili kwikamva ngeyona ndlela ilungileyo.
Ngelixa unyango lusebenzisa ukuxilonga ukufumanisa iingxaki, Abaqeqeshi babaqeqeshi basebenzisa imfundo kunye nolona phando lwangoku ukunceda abazali bafumane izakhono abazidingayo kwindima yabo yokuba ngumzali.
Unyango, ixesha linokuchithwa kuvavanywa iimvakalelo, ngelixa uqeqesho lwabazali lubalulekile ekuchongeni okunokusetyenziselwa ukumisa nokucwangcisa ikamva lakho.
Ngubani onokuxhamla kuqeqesho lwabazali
Nabani na okhathalela abantwana unokuxhamla kuqeqesho lwabazali. Kukwacetyiswa nokuba kubazali bexesha elizayo abanqwenela ukuqala ngentloko kunye nokuseta ikhampasi yabo yokuba ngumzali kwicala elifanelekileyo.
Uqeqesho lwabazali kukuba umzali okanye umntu okhathalelayo afumane (okanye afumanise kwakhona) uyolo lokuba ngumzali kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obunzulu nabantwana babo.
Njengoko umzali eqala ukuziva izibonelelo zokuba ngumqeqeshi, esi siphumo siqinisekileyo siya kuba sisibonelelo kunye nentsikelelo nakubantwana.
Wazi njani ukuba ufuna uqeqesho lwabazali
Uqeqesho lwabazali lunokuba luncedo kakhulu kwaye lube luncedo kuye nakowuphi na umzali, kodwa ngakumbi abo baziva bexinekile kwaye bedidekile kwindima yabo yobuzali.
Mhlawumbi ufumanisa ukuba ukhwaza kakhulu abantwana bakho kwaye uzive ungaqinisekanga malunga nokuba wenza into elungileyo na njengomzali.
Ukuba unokusebenzisa inkxaso ethile kwimeko ethile ohamba kuyo nabantwana bakho, uqeqesho lwabazali lunokuba sisisombululo kuwe. Okanye mhlawumbi ungathanda ukuhlala unolwazi malunga nemiba yobuzali kwaye unexesha elininzi kunye namandla akho.
Ukuba uzimisele ukutyala imali kubudlelwane bakho nabantwana bakho, funa uncedo kwaye uvuleleke kwizimvo malunga nokwenza ukuba abantwana bakho baziphathe.
Uqeqesho lwabazali kunokuba yile nto uyikhangelayo.
Yeyiphi imiba ekuthethwa ngayo kuqeqesho lwabazali
Uqeqesho lwabazali lunokujongana nayo nayiphi na imiba okanye iimeko ojamelene nazo kusapho lwakho ngoku. Mhlawumbi unengxaki yokunxibisa abantwana bakho kwaye balungele ukuya esikolweni kusasa.
Okanye mhlawumbi sisiqhelo sokulala yingxaki leyo.
Emva koko kubakho ukuncokola ngasemva kunye nokungabi nantlonelo, okanye usukuzwano lwabantakwenu njengoko abantwana bakho behlala bexabana kwaye besilwa. Ngaba uzifumanisa uthetha izinto ngokuphindaphindiweyo njengoko abantwana bakho bengabonakali nje ukuba baneendlebe kwiintloko zabo? Kwaye kuthiwani ngokukhwina, kunye nomsindo kunye nomzabalazo wamandla?
Zonke ezi kunye nezinye zezinye zeengxaki eziqwalaselweyo ekuqeqesheni abazali.
Zeziphi iziphumo onokuzilindela kuqeqesho lwabazali
Umqeqeshi wobomi bomzali ujonge ukukunceda njengomzali ukuba ufikelele kwindawo yokuzithemba kwizigqibo ozenzayo.
Ngokuzifumanela isiqinisekiso sokuqeqesha njengomzali, uya kufunda izixhobo kunye neendlela zokujongana nemiceli mngeni yokuba ngumzali eza kuwe, ikunike uxolo lwengqondo kunye nemvakalelo yokuzola njengoko usakha ubudlelwane obunempilo nobusondeleyo nabantwana bakho.
Kwiziko lokuqeqesha abazali, uya kufunda indlela yokukhokela kunye nokuqeqesha abantwana bakho ngaphandle kokubangxolisa okanye ukubanyoba.
Kwaye uya kuba nolwaneliseko lokuseta kunye nokusebenzela ukufikelela kwiinjongo zobuzali owawusoloko ufuna ukufikelela kuzo. Lilonke, uqeqesho lwabazali lunokunika umbono omtsha kunye nolutsha kwihlabathi lakho lokuba ngumzali.
Khumbula, ukuba ngumzali ngaphandle kokufumana ixhala, okanye ukuya kuhambo lokuziva unetyala kwenza ukuba abazali bonwabe.