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Umxholo
Ngaba kungcono ukuba ungatshatanga kwishishini lakho?
Izifundo zangaphambili zibonise ukuba umfanekiso ongacacanga wosomashishini omnye, onamavili simahla asiqhelekanga. Phantse iipesenti ezingama-70 zabo bonke abanini-shishini babetshatile ngelixa babeqala ishishini labo. Ngaphezulu kwe-50% bade baba nomntwana wabo wokuqala!
Oku kubuza umbuzo: yeyiphi eyona nto ilungele usomashishini, ukuba ungatshatanga okanye utshatile?
Makhe siqwalasele iinkalo ezintathu oya kuba nazo kubomi bakho beshishini. Siza kuthetha ngokuhlala ungatshatanga okanye utshatile kulungele le miba.
Bhetyebhetye
Kucacile ukuba oosomashishini abangatshatanga banethuba apha.
Ukungatshati njengosomashishini kukunika isibonelelo sokungabinalo uxinzelelo malunga nokufika ekhaya ngexesha ukuze ubekhona kwiqabane lakho. Njengosomashishini omnye ungaya kwiminyhadala yokunxibelelana kunye nezinye iigig zorhwebo ngokuhlwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe uyenze ngokulula okanye rhoqo xa utshatile kwaye umntu ekulindile ekhaya.
Ukuba ishishini lakho lifuna ukuba uhambe kakhulu emva koko usomashishini omnye unethuba- kwakhona. Inika umda obalulekileyo ukuba ungangena ngokulula kwinqwelomoya xa ufuna ukuze ukhule kwishishini lakho.
Umsebenzi wobomi bokulingana
Ngu-1-0 womrhwebi ongatshatanga, kodwa xa sidibanisa ibhalansi yomsebenzi-wobomi kwi-equation amanqaku aphume.
Abaphumeleleyo apha ngoosomashishini abatshatileyo.
Koosomashishini abangatshatanga kunokuba nzima "ukucima" emva kosuku lomsebenzi onzima. Usomashishini otshatileyo unokuxhomekeka kusapho lwakhe ukunceda kutshintsho. Ukuthetha neqabane lakho okanye ukudlala nabantwana bakho yindlela entle yokuvala indlela yakho yokusebenza.
Oosomashishini abatshatileyo banokuxakeka ngakumbi ngemibuzo efana nale:
- Kutheni ndisenza oku?
- Oku kuya kundivelisa ntoni kwixesha elide?
Le mibuzo iluncedo ngokwenyani njengoko inokunceda nawuphi na usomashishini ukugcina ujoliso olunjenge-laser kunye nokwenza izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka.
Enye yezona zinto ziphantsi koosomashishini abatshatileyo inokuba yeyokuba banokuxhalaba ukuba ixesha abalichitha nosapho lwabo alunakakha kwishishini labo. Ngamanye amagama, banokwenza ukuba baphambane ngokubuza umbuzo: "Ndingathini ukuba ndingachitha eli xesha kwishishini lam, endaweni yokuchitha nosapho lwam?"
Oosomashishini abangatshatanga banokuba yinto ethe kratya ngokuzenzekelayo njengoko kungekho mfuneko yokuba bacwangcise usuku lwabo. Banokungena ngaphakathi, baye emsebenzini, kwaye bathathe ikhefu xa bethanda. Ekugqibeleni oku kunokudala uxinzelelo njengoko kungekho zikho rhoqo okanye amathuba. Iqabane linokunceda ukubeka izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo ukuze uthathe isigqibo sokuba lixesha lokuphumla kancinci ngaphambi kokuqhubeka nomsebenzi.
Ukuqukumbela, kufuna ukuzimisela ngakumbi kusomashishini omnye ukuze abe nokulingana emsebenzini kunye nobomi.
Amandla
Okokugqibela, kodwa kungaphelelanga apho: amandla.
Kwakhona usomashishini omnye unethuba apha. Oosomashishini abangatshatanga banexesha kunye namandla ngaphezu koogxa babo abatshatileyo.
Ukukwazi ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye namandla kwishishini lakho ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba nefuthe kwimpumelelo yalo. Kodwa ngexabiso elingakanani?
Ukuba kubudlelwane obunothando kunokukunika amandla azinzileyo anokuthi asebenze njengombane kunye nenkuthazo yeminyaka. Xa uziva unethemba kwaye ulungile, amathuba okuba uya kwenza izigqibo ezingcono zeshishini. Ubudlelwane obunothando bunokuba yindawo yokubalekela engenakuthelekiswa nanto xa usakha ishishini lakho.
Ke oosomashishini abangatshatanga nabatshatileyo banezibonelelo zabo ngokubhekisele kumandla.
Isiphelo
Ke usomashishini ongatshatanga ofumana ubuthongo obuncinci ayisiye ngusomashishini ongcono kunogxa wakhe otshatileyo. Kodwa inyani iya kuhlala ikwimo yokuguquguquka kunye namandla banethuba elincinci ngaphezulu koosomashishini abatshatileyo. Aba basomashishini kwelinye icala banokufumana amandla amakhulu kunye nenkxaso kumaqabane abo. Ke, yeyiphi engcono kunokuba: ungatshatanga okanye utshatile?
Ukunyaniseka, asinakukuxelela. Kuxhomekeke kakhulu kuhlobo losomashishini onjani kwaye loluphi uhlobo lweemfuno onazo. Mhlawumbi uyathanda ukuba nomntu okhoyo ukuze akuxhase xa izinto ziba nzima. Kwelinye icala unokufuna ukuhlala ubhetyebhetye kwaye usebenze iiyure ezinde, ngaphandle kokukuphazamisa.
Buqu buxhomekeke kakhulu kwiimpawu zakho.
Ukwenza izinto eziphezulu masigqibe ngesicatshulwa esivela kuLady Gaga:
“Abanye abantu basetyhini bakhetha ukulandela amadoda, kwaye abanye abantu basetyhini bakhetha ukulandela amaphupha abo. Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba yeyiphi indlela, khumbula ukuba umsebenzi wakho awusoze uvuke kwaye ukuxelele ukuba awusakuthandi. ”