Umxholo
- "Ndikuthatha ukuba ube ngumyeni wam otshatileyo ngokusemthethweni"
- "Ukubamba nokubamba"
- “Ukususela namhlanje”
- “De sahlulwe kukufa”
Sibevile amaxesha amaninzi, kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya, kumabonwakude, nakwimitshato, ukuze sikwazi ukuyicengceleza ngentloko: izifungo zomtshato ezisisiseko.
"Ndi, ____, ndikuthathe, ____, ukuba nditshate ngokusemthethweni (umyeni / umfazi), ukuba ndibambe, ukusukela namhlanje ukuya phambili, kubengcono, kubi, kubutyebi, kubampofu, kugula nasempilweni, kude kuse isahlulo sokufa. ”
Uninzi lwethu aluqondi ukuba akukho sizathu sasemthethweni sokubandakanya la magama angcwele kwimisitho yomtshato. Kodwa babe yinxalenye yomtshato "wentsebenzo" kwaye sisikripthi esilindelekileyo kweli nqanaba. Kukho into echukumisayo malunga nezizukulwana nezizukulwana zabantu abathi benza izifungo zomtshato wesintu.
Ezi zibhambathiso zomtshato ziqulathe iseti yamagama efanayo, amagama adibanisa kubo bonke abantu abatshatileyo, ukusukela kumaxesha aphakathi, abafunda ezi zithembiso benethemba elifanayo emehlweni abo ukuba baya kuba kunye neqabane labo kude kuse ukufa,
Ezi zibhambathiso zisisiseko zomtshato, ezaziwa ngokwenyani njenge "mvume" kumsitho wobuKristu, zikhangeleka zilula, akunjalo?
Kodwa, ezi zifungo zomtshato zilula zinentsingiselo. Ke, zithini izifungo zomtshato? Kwaye, iyintoni intsingiselo yokwenene yezifungo zomtshato?
Ukuqonda intsingiselo yezibhambathiso emtshatweni ngcono, masikhuphe izithembiso ezisisiseko zomtshato kwaye sibone ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwemiyalezo abayidlulisela ngokunyanisekileyo.
"Ndikuthatha ukuba ube ngumyeni wam otshatileyo ngokusemthethweni"
Esi sesinye sezibhambathiso ezisisiseko somtshato ekumele ukuba uve amaxesha ngamaxesha kwimisitho eyahlukeneyo yomtshato nkqu nakwiimuvi.
Kulwimi lwanamhlanje, "thatha" kusetyenziswa ngakumbi ngengqondo "khetha," ukusukela wenze ukhetho lwangabom ukuzibophelela kulo mntu kuphela.
Uluvo lokukhetha luxhobisa kwaye umntu abambelele xa ufike kumaxesha anqabileyo angenakuphepheka anokuvela kuwo nawuphi na umtshato.
Zikhumbuze ukuba ukhethe eli qabane, phakathi kwabo bonke abantu okhe wathandana nabo, ukuba uchithe bonke ubomi bakho. Akazange akhethelwe wena, okanye anyanzelwe kuwe.
Kwiminyaka eliqela ezantsi emgceni, xa ujonge iqabane lakho lisenza into omxelele yona ukuba ingayenzi, khumbula zonke izizathu ezimangalisayo zokuba umkhethe njengeqabane lakho lobomi. (Iya kukunceda wehlise umoya!)
"Ukubamba nokubamba"
Enjani yona ukuba ntle imvakalelo! Ubungangamsha bobomi bomtshato buchazwe kula magama mane, enza izifungo zomtshato ezisisiseko.
Ufumana ukuba "nalo" mntu umthanda njengowakho, ukuze ulale kwaye uvuke ecaleni kwakho ezinye iintsuku zakho kunye. Ubamba lo mntu usondele kuwe nanini na xa usiva isidingo kuba ngoku ungowakho.
IiHugs ziqinisekisiwe, ngalo lonke ixesha ufuna enye! Intle kangakanani loo nto?
“Ukususela namhlanje”
Kukho indalo yethemba kulo mgca, kwaye iqhele ukusetyenziswa phantse kuzo zonke izifungo zomtshato eziqhelekileyo.
Ubomi bakho obunxibeleleneyo buqala ngoku, ukusukela kulo mzuzu utshatileyo, kwaye wandise usiya kufikelela kumbono wexesha elizayo.
Ibinzana lokuya phambili kunye liphethe isithembiso esininzi esinokufezekiswa ngabantu ababini xa bedibana ngothando, bejonge kwicala elinye.
“Kuba ngcono, ngokubi, ngokutyeba, ngokuhlwempuzekileyo, ngokugula nangempilo ”
Lo mgca uchaza isiseko esomeleleyo apho kuhlala khona umtshato omkhulu. Yi Isithembiso sokubonelela ngenkxaso yeemvakalelo, yemali, yomzimba kunye nengqondo kwiqabane lakho, nokuba ikamva linokuza nantoni na.
Ngaphandle kwesi siqinisekiso, umtshato awunakuze utyatyambe kwindawo ekhuselekileyo nehlaziyayo, kwaye abantu abatshatileyo bafuna ukuqinisekiswa ukuze banike kwaye bafumane ukusondelelana okunzulu ngokweemvakalelo.
Kuya kuba nzima ukukhula ubudlelwane ukuba awunathemba lokuba iqabane lakho liya kuba lapho nawe, ebunzimeni nasebubini.
Le yenye yeentetho eziyimfuneko ekwabelwana ngazo kumxholo wezibhambathiso zomtshato, njengoko kusisibambiso sokuba lapho ukondla omnye, kungekuphela nje kweentsuku ezilungileyo, xa kulula kodwa nakwizinto ezimbi, xa kunzima.
“De sahlulwe kukufa”
Ayingowona mgca wonwabe, kodwa yindawo ebalulekileyo ukucaphula. Ngokubandakanya oku, utywina umanyano lobomi bonke.
Ubonisa kubo bonke abaze ukungqina umanyano lwakho ukuba ungena kulo mtshato ngenjongo, kwaye loo njongo kukwakha ubomi kunye yonke imihla yakho apha eMhlabeni.
Ukuchaza lo mgca uxelela umhlaba ukuba nokuba ikamva liphethe ntoni, nokuba ngubani okanye yintoni enokuzama ukukuqhekeza, uthembisile ukuhlala nalo mntu, oya kumthanda de uphefumle.
Bukela le vidiyo:
Kungumsebenzi ofanelekileyo ngokwaphula izifungo zomtshato kwaye ujonge ngononophelo kule nto ilapha phantsi kolwimi olulula lwezibhambathiso ezisisiseko zomtshato. Iphantse ibe lihlazo into yokuba intsingiselo etyebileyo ingalahleka kuba siqhelene nokuva imigca.
Ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukusebenzisa ezi zibhambathiso zesiko lomtshato, kunokuba kuhle ukuba uthathele ingqalelo ukongeza ukutolikwa kwakho, ngokusekwe kuhlobo olwandisiweyo apha, lokuba umgca ngamnye uthetha ntoni kuwe.
Ngale ndlela, awugcini nje ngokuba ulwakhiwo lweklasikhi lugcinwe lungahambelani nomsitho wakho, kodwa ukongeza inqaku elithe kratya lomntu kunye neqabane lakho eninokwabelana ngalo nabo beze kubhiyozela umanyano lwakho.
“Eyona njongo yobomi bethu lulonwabo, olomelezwa lithemba. Asinasiqinisekiso ngekamva, kodwa sikho ngethemba lento ebhetele. Ithemba lithetha ukuqhubeka, ucinga, 'Ndingayenza le nto.' Kuzisa ukomelela ngaphakathi, ukuzithemba, ukukwazi ukwenza le uyenzayo ngokunyaniseka, ngenyaniso nangokucacileyo. ” Esi sicatshulwa sivela kwiDalai Lama.
Ayibhekiseli ngqo emtshatweni kodwa inokuqondwa njengophawu lwezifungo zomtshato ezisisiseko. Ngoku, xa ucinga, zithini izifungo zomtshato, ekugqibeleni, ezi zibhambathiso zisisiseko zomtshato zimalunga noko kuchazwa nguDalai Lama.
Ubachaza njengolonwabo, ithemba, ukusukela kwinto ebhetele, isiqinisekiso sokuba wena neqabane lakho "ninokukwenza oku," kunye nokuzithemba ukuba ngokunyaniseka, inyani, kunye nokwenza izinto elubala, uthando lwenu luyakomelela ukusukela namhlanje.