Umxholo
- Ukuzisa umxholo
- Uyivula njani incoko ngendlela eya kuthi ifumane iqabane lakho ebhodini nalo mbono?
- Mbandakanye ekukhetheni iithoyi zesini
- Ngenye indlela, nobabini ninokuya kunye kwivenkile ethengisa isondo
Sebenzisa iithoyi zokwabelana ngesondo ukonyusa amava ezesondo, nokuba uya kuwo uwedwa okanye neqabane lakho, akusengobungqina. Namhlanje, iithoyi zesini ziyinxalenye yenkcubeko, ubuncinci bezesondo. Ukusuka kwidada entle emthubi nethobayo encinci ongadlala kuyo "ungadlala" ngaphakathi kwindawo yakho yokuhlambela, ukuya kwimisetyenzana yokudlidliza ebonakala ngathi yenzelwe sisazi ngeenkwenkwezi, kukho into kwimakethi yokudlala yabantu abadala yencasa yomntu wonke.
Uzamile ukubandakanya into yokudlala ngesondo kubudlelwane bakho, kodwa ungaqinisekanga ukuba iithoyi zesini ziyichaphazela njani ubudlelwane? Unelungelo lokuthetha ngeSondo ngeToyi kunye neqabane lakho ngaphambi kokumothusa ngokutsala uMvundla wamva nje kwisigqoko somzekeliso.
Ukuzisa umxholo
Abahlobo bakho bakukholisile ngee-orgasms ezimangalisayo abanazo ngoku kuba bezise iithoyi zesini kwigumbi lokulala. Ungathanda ukufumana le nto, kodwa ukhathazekile kancinci malunga nokuhambisa umxholo kunye neqabane lakho.
Ngaba uya kuziva esoyikiswa bubukho bomhlobo ohleliyo ebhedini? Ngaba uya kucinga ukuba ubhenela koku kungashukumisi umntu kuba engawenzi umsebenzi? Ngaba unokuxhomekeka kwinto yokudlala ngesondo kulonwabo lwakho, unikezele ngeqabane lakho lokwenyani?
Ugqirha Kat Van Kirk, ingcali yezesondo kwinkampani yokudlala ngesondo uAdam & Eve.com, usixelela ukuba amanye amadoda yenza kholelwa ukuba “ukusebenzisa into yokudlala ngesondo kuthetha ukuba akayena umthandi olungileyo. Usenokoyika ukuba ukusebenzisa kwakho into yokudlala ngesondo kuya kumthabathel 'indawo, okanye uya kuthembela kakhulu kuyo ukuze wonwabe. ”
Qiniseka ukuba, akukho nanye kwezi meko eya kwenzeka. Kuya kufuneka ujonge into yokudlala ngesondo njengokunyusa ukonwaba, hayi endaweni yeqabane. Njengokongeza isinongo kwisitya esele simnandi, into yokudlala ngesondo ithatha nje isondo iye kwelinye inqanaba kodwa ingonakalisi amava asisiseko. Ngokuchasene noko!
Uyivula njani incoko ngendlela eya kuthi ifumane iqabane lakho ebhodini nalo mbono?
Ukuqala, yazisa iqabane lakho ukuba unomdla omkhulu ekugcineni ubomi bakho bezesondo bushushu kwaye bunongwe. Qiniseka ukuba uyazi ukuba uyathanda ukwenza uthando kunye naye, kodwa ke-ayizukuba yinto entle ukukhaba izinto?
Mkhumbuze ukuba izibini ezihlola iindlela zamano zokuba sisondelelene, kubandakanya ukuzama ithoyisi elinye okanye nangaphezulu, zihlala zilunge ngakumbi ngokugcina inkanuko kunye nomnqweno (ukongeza kulwaneliseko kubudlelwane) ngaphezulu kwexesha elide.
Uya kufumanisa ukuba indoda yakho ivumelana ngokupheleleyo nomnqweno wakho wokuzama into yokudlala ngesondo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iqabane elilungileyo ngumntu otyale imali kulonwabo lwakho. Ukuba indoda yakho ibukele iphonografi, kunokwenzeka ukuba ivuliwe yi-porn ebonisa abantu ababhinqileyo abaphulula amalungu esini ngento yokudlala ngesondo.
Unokumbuza ukuba ngaba yinto afuna ukukubona uyenza, uhlobo lwe "show show" ngasese kwigumbi lakho lokulala. Xa esithi "ewe" ngehlombe, qhubeka uye kwinyathelo elilandelayo.
Mbandakanye ekukhetheni iithoyi zesini
Ukwenza eli liva lokwenyani, yiza neqabane lakho kwisigqibo sokukhetha. Ukuba ukhululekile ukuthenga nge-intanethi, jonga ezinye zewebhusayithi yabantu abadala edumileyo kunye. Thatha ixesha lakho wenze le nxalenye ye-foreplay (kuba uthenga iithoyi zesini rhoqo kunokuba ungapheli ngeseshoni eshushu phakathi kwamashiti!).
Jonga iimodeli ezahlukeneyo-ezomeleleyo, ezelungu lobufazi, ezokuvuselelwa ezimpundu- kwaye uthethe ngento onokuyithanda ukufumana. Mbuze ukuba unokukhetha na, yintoni angathanda ukuyisebenzisa kuwe. Jonga ukusebenza kwayo. Funda uphononongo.
Ngalo lonke eli xesha, qhubeka ujonge kwinqanaba lokuthuthuzela ngolu luvo lutsha. Mkhumbuze ukuba awukhangeli endaweni yakhe, kodwa into emnandi kunye neerotic yokugcina izinto zintsha kunye nezesondo ngamaxesha akho abucala.
Ngenye indlela, nobabini ninokuya kunye kwivenkile ethengisa isondo
Ezi azisekho emthunzini, iindawo ezibuyela umva ezihlazo. Iivenkile zesini zanamhlanje zicocekile, ziivenkile ezibengezelayo kunye nezinto zokudlala zesondo eziboniswe njengezacholo. Uya kuba neengcali ezikwiindawo onazo ezinokukunceda ujonge eli xesha lokuqala kwaye uphendule nayiphi na imibuzo onokuba unayo.
Babuze ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwefuthe kubudlelwane bakho onokulindela ukuba ubandakanye into yokudlala ngesondo kulwalamano lwakho lothando. Impendulo yabo inokukunceda uzive ukhululekile.
Sebenzisa into yokudlala ngesondo kunokuqinisa ubudlelwane kunye nokwoneliseka ngokwesondo kwakhe nabani na ovulekileyo kwaye ahloniphe ulonwabo lwabo kunye namaqabane abo.
Kubalulekile ukuba kubekho imvakalelo yokuvuleka kunye nokungagwebi njengoko unencoko malunga neethoyi zesondo. Ukuba uziva ukuba iqabane lakho alixhathisi kumbono wokuzama, thetha malunga nokuba oku kungachasa kunokuba kuvela phi. Ukuba ukhathazekile, unokukhetha isidlidlizi ngaphezu kwakhe, sebenzela ekupheliseni intsomi. Unokwabelana naye ngeenkcukacha-manani zokuba ngama-25% abasetyhini abafikelela kwi-orgasm ngokwabelana ngesondo kuphela, kodwa phantse i-100% yabasetyhini iya kufikelela kwi-orgasm ukuba into yokudlala ngesondo ifakiwe kumdlalo wakho wothando.
Ukuba indoda yakho isathandabuza, mnike nje "isithembiso sovavanyo". Nje ukuba abone ukuba zishushu kangakanani izinto kunye nokufakwa kwe-vibrator, kunye nendlela ukuvusa kwakho okuza kuchaphazela ngayo kunye nokuchaphazela ukuvuswa kwakhe, uya kuzibuza ukuba kutheni ade abuze nefuthe lokudlala ngesondo kulwalamano lwakho kwasekuqaleni.
Ngaphambi kokuba uyazi, uya kuba efikelela kuloo nto yokudlala ngokwesondo ngokuzenzekelayo ngalo lonke ixesha efuna ukuhla angcolise nawe!