Umxholo
- 1. Ukuchasana nomtshato wabantu abathandana nesini esinye kuyaphikisana nedemokhrasi yaseMelika
- 2. Kungalinciphisa izinga loqhawulo-mtshato
- 3. Umtshato wezitabane wahlula urhulumente ecaweni
- 4. Uthando
- 5. Umtshato wenziwa ngokutsha
- Amandla amaqela enkxaso
- Ulwazi
- Amaqela enkxaso omeleze uluntu
Kudala, abantu babuza 'kutheni umtshato wesini ungasemthethweni? ' kwaye uninzi lwazo zihlala zinemibono yomtshato echasene nabantu besini esifanayo.
Ukucinga okuzimeleyo kwesi sizathu sokuba kutheni imitshato yabantu besini esinye kungafanelekanga ukuba ibe semthethweni akunyanzelanga ukuba abantu abathandana besisini esinye bagcine ubudlelwane babo bufihlakele kwihlabathi kodwa kunyanzelise uninzi ukuba lufihle ukuthanda kwabo ngokwesondo.
Nangona kunjalo, emva kwesigwebo seNkundla ePhakamileyo sokumisela ngokusemthethweni umtshato wesini, eyona nto iphambili kuluntu lwe-LGBT kunye nabasekeli bomtshato wamafanasini.
Izibini ezitshatileyo ngoku zinesidima esilinganayo emehlweni omthetho! Amaqabane alinde iminyaka okanye amashumi eminyaka ukuba atshate ekugqibeleni ayakwazi ukubopha iqhina ngelixa esazi ukuba umtshato wabo wamkelwe ngokusemthethweni kwilizwe liphela.
Nge-25 kaJuni, ngo-2016, ibilusuku olukhethekileyo kodwa kukho abantu abafuna ukusijika eso sigwebo, kubandakanya nabagqatswa baka-Mongameli.
Akukho mntu kufuneka anikwe ilungelo elisisiseko aze alirhoxise. Ukwenza oko akuhambisani nomgaqo-siseko. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba ayenzeki, kuxhomekeke ebantwini ukuxhasa umtshato wesini.
Ngezantsi zihlanu izizathu zeukuxhasa imitshato yamafanasini okanye izizathu zokuba kutheni umtshato wamafanasini kufuneka ube semthethweni oya kuthi ubonakalise izibonelelo zomtshato wesini.
1. Ukuchasana nomtshato wabantu abathandana nesini esinye kuyaphikisana nedemokhrasi yaseMelika
Impikiswano yomtshato omnye esinokuvumelana ngayo kukubaluleka komtshato wabantu besini esinye kwidemokhrasi eMelika. Ukungawuxhasi umtshato wabantu besini esinye kukuphikisana nale demokhrasi kuba ayihambelani nomgaqo-siseko wase-US.
Injongo yazo zonke izilungiso ngaphandle kwenombolo yeshumi elinesibhozo inenjongo enye kwaye loo njongo kukuxhobisa abantu ngelixa behlonipha isibhengezo senkululeko.
Isibhengezo sichaza ngokucacileyo ukuba onke amadoda adalwe ngokulinganayo ukuba wonke umntu unamalungelo athile. Nokuba bayathandana okanye abesini esahlukileyo ayisiyonto.
Andifuni ukuqonda izizathu zokuxhasa umtshato wesini kunye nokungafuni iqela elinamalungelo athile aphikisana noko iMelika imele.
Ukongeza, ukuya ukuxhasa umtshato wesini iyaphikisana nedemokhrasi yaseMelika kuba loo mbono ayinanjongo yelizwe.
Uxanduva lukarhulumente xa kuziwa emtshatweni alungcwaliswa. Konke oku linoxanduva lokukhupha iilayisensi zomtshato kwizibini ezitshatileyo.
2. Kungalinciphisa izinga loqhawulo-mtshato
Ewe kuyinyani. Nangona izibalo ezaneleyo zingekaqokelelwa okwangoku, ukwehla kwenqanaba loqhawulo-mtshato sesinye sezizathu zokuxhasa umtshato wesini.
Okwangoku, imitshato inethuba lama-50/50 kodwa isibonelelo somtshato wesini gay kukuba inqanaba loqhawulo-mtshato kungenzeka ukuba lehle ngenxa yomtshato wesini esifanayo. Zininzi izibini ezithandanayo eziye zaba kubudlelwane bexesha elide ngelixa zilinde ithuba lokutshata.
Ubomi obude buthetha ukuba bambalwa abantu abaza kutshata ngenxa yokungahambelani (oyena nobangela woqhawulo mtshato). Abaliqela sele besazi ukuba bayadibana kuba kudala besakha ubomi kunye iminyaka.
Ukongeza kuloo nto, enye isitabane umtshato pro Kukuba uluntu lwe-LGBT lubonisa uxabiso oluhle ngomtshato esinokuthi sonke sifunde kuwo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo oku akwenzi ukuba abantu abathandana besisini esinye bangakhuseleki kwimicimbi esijamelana nayo sonke kodwa kunokubenza bathambekele ngakumbi ekusebenzeni ukugcina imitshato esempilweni.
3. Umtshato wezitabane wahlula urhulumente ecaweni
Umbuso kunye neenkolelo zonqulo akufuneki zinxibelelane. Ukwenza njalo yoyisa umbono wenkululeko yenkolo. Imithetho yimithetho kunye nokholo lukholo kodwa umbono wezenkolo wobufanasini sisono esilawule ukugqithisela kwimicimbi yomthetho yomanyano.
I-United States yaseMelika sisizwe esingakholwayo kwaye ukuze kufezekiswe kwaye kugcinwe ukulingana, kufuneka ihlale injalo. Oko kwahlukana kuya kusinceda sonke.
4. Uthando
Uthando luyabuphucula kwaye lubuphucula ubomi. Abo baxhasa umtshato wesini kunye nothando kwaye njengoko kungqinwa ngumthetho, uthando luhlala luphumelela. Thatha umzuzwana ucinge ngokungakwazi ukutshata iqabane lakho?
Iya kuba mbi ke le nto kutheni kufanelekile ukuba abantu ababini banqatshelwe elo lungelo ngenxa yokukhetha kwabo ngokwesondo?
Ukuba ubeka izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo, umtshato wamafanasini awufani nomtshato wesini esahlukileyo nangona usandul 'ukwenziwa ngokusemthethweni. Abantu ababini abathandanayo abafuna ukutshata kwaye banokuqala usapho.
5. Umtshato wenziwa ngokutsha
Umtshato uphinde wachazwa kwakhona kwimbali. Umtshato wesintu ushiywe ngaphambili kwinxalenye enkulu kwaye olo tshintsho lulungile.
Ithetha ukuvela koluntu kunye nokuzivelela kwezinto kusigcina siqhubela phambili ngelixa siphelisa ukungabikho kokusesikweni. Kwakukho ixesha apho izibini ezitshatileyo zazingavumelekanga ukuba zitshate.
Uninzi alusayi kuphinda luyazi loo nto kwaye umtshato wesini esifanayo awufani. Abo bangenayo ukuxhasa umtshato wesini baphikisa ngelithi indawo yomtshato isemngciphekweni xa ixhasa amaxabiso asisiseko.
Umanyano lumalunga nothando nentlonipho emva kwayo yonke loo nto.
Amandla amaqela enkxaso
Ininzi inkqubela esele yenziwe kodwa umba awukhange unyamalale. Amaqela enkxaso umtshato wesini kunye kwaye usanceda abantu ukuba baqonde ngcono isihloko somtshato wesini esifanayo kunye neminye imiba yesini.
Amaqela enkxaso adlale indima enkulu ekumiseni ngokusemthethweni umtshato wesini kwilizwe lonke. Ngaphandle kwale mizamo, ngesele singekho namhlanje.
Ulwazi
Amaqela enkxaso umtshato wesini lenze impembelelo enkulu ngokusasaza ulwazi. Okumangalisayo kukuba, abantu abaninzi abachasayo abasiqondi ngokupheleleyo isihloko kwaye ukuba nelungelo lokutshata kuthetha ntoni kubantu abathandana besini esinye.
Okothusayo nangakumbi kukuba, inxenye ayikhange iqonde ukuba urhulumente ujonge ukungabinanto yakwenza nonqulo nangona inkolo ingena kurhulumente wethu njengebinzana elithi, "In God We Trust" emalini.
Ngokokuvota kwiziko loPhando lwePew, uninzi lwabantu baseMelika, iipesenti ezingama-55 ukuba zichanekile, zixhasa umtshato wesini esifanayo, ngelixa iipesenti ezingama-39 beyichasa (iipesenti ezi-6 ezisele bezingabhaliswanga okanye zingagqitywanga).
La manani ahlukile kulawo abhalwe ngo-2001 ayephikisiwe ama-57% kwaye ama-35% akhetha ukuxhasa umtshato wesini. Ukonyuka okukhulu kwabaxhasi akwenzekanga ngengozi.
Oku kwenziwa ngamaqela enkxaso ahlola ukungabikho kobulungisa, esenza oku kungabikho kokusesikweni kwaziwe, kwaye echaza iingxoxo ezichaseneyo.
Ngaphandle kokuchaza isizathu sokuba ukwala abantu abathandana besisini esinye ilungelo lokutshata akulunganga, uninzi ngebengakuqondanga ukubaluleka. Xa into isengqiqweni, izimvo ziyatshintshwa.
Amaqela enkxaso omeleze uluntu
Kunye nokusasaza ulwazi, loo maqela kunye nemibutho yomeleza uluntu lwe-LGBT. Amaqela enkxaso alincedisile eli qela ukuba liqonde amalungelo abo kwaye benze nenxaxheba yabo ukuze banikwe loo malungelo.
Kungekudala oku kwadala intshukumo ekhokelele ekudalweni kwenkululeko yokutshata neMassachusetts, ilizwe lokuqala.
Intshukumo iyaqhubeka kwaye umtshato wesini esifanayo wagqitywa waxhaswa nguMongameli u-Obama kunye neqela leDemokhrasi. Kungekudala emva koko, umtshato waphumelela kwilizwe lonke!