Umxholo
Kukho intsomi eqhelekileyo ethi amadoda acinga ngesondo rhoqo kwimizuzwana esixhenxe, kodwa ikude kangakanani nenyaniso yile?
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje kuye kwakho izifundo ezongezelelekileyo malunga nokuhamba rhoqo kweengcinga zesondo ezenziwa ngamadoda nabasetyhini ebomini babo bemihla ngemihla. Ngaphandle kokucinga ngesondo, uphando lubonise ukuba amadoda nawo acinga ngokulinganayo malunga nokutya nokulala.
Kubonakala ngathi kukho uluhlu olubanzi lwezinto ezichaphazela ukuqhuba kwesondo kwendoda. I-physiology yamadoda kunye ne-neurochemistry ifakwe ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunaleyo yowasetyhini. Olunye ulangazelelo ngokwesondo luxhomekeke kwi-DNA yomntu, amanqanaba e testosterone, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ukumiselwa kwangaphandle kwezentlalo kunye nenkcubeko.
UTerri Fisher, umphandi osuka kwiYunivesithi yaseOhio, wenza uphando kubafundi abangama-283 beekholeji, ngelinge lokufumanisa ukuba mangaphi amadoda acinga ngesondo mihla le.
Ufumene ekupheleni kophando ukuba amadoda acinga ngomndilili malunga nokwabelana ngesondo amaxesha alishumi elinethoba ngemini, ngelixa abasetyhini becinga ngalo kuphela ezilishumi. Umphenduli ophezulu kolu phando wacinga ngesondo amatyeli amathathu namashumi asibhozo anesibhozo nje ngosuku olunye.
Umzimba uyakunqwenela
Ngokungafaniyo nabasetyhini, abanolwazelelelo ngakumbi ngokwasemphefumlweni nangokweemvakalelo kunye nesimo sengqondo xa besondela kwisini, umnqweno wendoda uqhutywa ngokuzenzekelayo ngumzimba wayo ngenxa yemali enkulu ye testosterone eveliswa yiyo kwaye ihamba ngemithambo yegazi.
Amadoda aselula anokulungiswa kwangoko kwaye ngokubanzi acinga ngakumbi ngesondo ngenxa yexabiso eliphezulu le testosterone eveliswa yimizimba yabo.
Inqanaba eliphantsi le testosterone ngokuzenzekelayo lithetha i-libido ephantsi.
I-libido yamadoda iqulethwe kwiindawo ezimbini ezithile zobuchopho, ezibizwa ngokuba yi-cerebral cortex kunye ne-limbic system. Iimpembelelo ze-neural ezibangela ukwakheka emzimbeni womntu zikho kwi-cortex yecebral, ngelixa inkuthazo kunye nokuqhutywa kwesondo kufunyanwa kwi-limbic.
I-testosterone yihomoni inoxanduva lokukhula kwamalungu esini endoda ngelixa umntwana sele ekwinqanaba lokukhula, ukukhula kweenwele zomzimba, ukukhula kwemisipha kunye nemveliso yesidoda.
Amadoda ahlala ecinga ngeenjongo zawo ebomini, kodwa indalo ibeka ukulingisa njengophawu oluphambili kuluhlu.
Impompo ye-ego
Umzimba womntu ngumatshini ofuna ukusoloko uqengqeleka ngokugqibeleleyo. Oko kuyaphendula ukuba kutheni abantu besoloko becinga ngesondo.
Ukucinga ngengesondo kuqhuba iimpembelelo zehomoni kunye nobundlongondlongo, ukutyhala amadoda ukuya kwiinjongo zabo kunye neminqweno.
Oku kunokuba yinto yokuzivelela kwezinto kuba ukucinga rhoqo ngesondo kukhupha i-testosterone ngakumbi, ethi yona ithi amandla angakumbi okufezekisa imisebenzi.
Xa indoda ihlangana nomntu obhinqileyo kwaye imfumana njengeqabane elinokubakho, iingcinga ezahlukeneyo ziyaqala ukuvela engqondweni yakhe kumzamo womzimba wokuhambisa i-testosterone ngakumbi ukuze kugcinwe umntu ebukhali, emzimbeni nasengqondweni.
Umbutho
Nangona sele sikhankanyile ukuba ukuphakama kwe testosterone okubangelwa yiminqweno yesini kwi-psyche kunokuthathwa njengendaleko, kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo iimeko zentlalo apho umntu atyhutyhwa ngexesha lobomi bakhe.
Ukufumana inqanaba lentlalontle ngokwakha usapho, ukuba nabantwana, kwaye ngaloo ndlela uzalisekise omnye wemigaqo elubeke kuye uluntu ngaphezulu okanye kancinci nayo iyinxalenye yokuqhutywa kwesondo. Kuba sihlala kuluntu olunabantu abathandana bodwa, ukukhetha iqabane lobomi kufuneka kube kanye kukhetho lobomi.
Kwindoda, ukukhetha iqabane elihambelana naye ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo kuyakhohlisa, kwaye oku kushiya igumbi leemfuno ezingonelisekanga, ethi yona ibuyekezwe ngokuyila amaphupha.
Ukwabelana ngesondo kuyo yonke indawo
Izinto ezibonakalayo ezinxulumene nesondo zikho kuyo yonke indawo kuluntu lwanamhlanje.
Izibhengezo zentengiso zingeniswe kakhulu kwimifanekiso yezesondo kunye nemixholo yokunyuka kwezabelo zentengiso. Intengiso yanamhlanje isonganyelwe zizokwabelana ngesondo, kwaye oku kudlala indima enkulu kwiminqweno engamanyala ebhabha ezingqondweni zamadoda. Ukuba semngciphekweni wentengiso ngokuzenzekelayo kuthetha inzuzo ngakumbi kwiinkampani ezithengisa iimveliso zazo ngemifanekiso yesondo.
Nangona kubonakala ngathi amadoda awasoloko ecinga ngesondo rhoqo njengoko kusenziwa njalo, bacinga ngako kakhulu kunabafazi. Ayisiyiyo rhoqo njengoko unokucinga, kodwa konke kuxhomekeke kumntu nakwimeko.