Umxholo
- Yintambo ebophayo
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokulungileyo kufuna ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo nangokwesondo
- Ulwalamano lobushushu
- Ukuphuculwa komgangatho wobomi
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni isondo kubalulekile emtshatweni. Izibonelelo zesini esilungileyo kunye nezisempilweni emtshatweni zinzulu kokubini kwabatshatileyo nakumtshato abelana ngawo.
Nokuba uxakekile ekhaya, kufuneka qaphela i ukubaluleka kwezesondo kubomi bomtshato. Ukwaneliseka okuhle ngokwesondo emtshatweni akufuneki kubekwe ezantsi kuluhlu lwezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka.
Ke ukuphendula eminye yemibuzo yesini kubantu abatshatileyo ngokubaluleka kwesini kubantu abatshatileyo, Nazi izizathu ezimbalwa eziqhelekileyo zokuba kutheni kubalulekile ukuba neentlobano zesini emtshatweni kwaye kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba neentlobano zesini emtshatweni:
Yintambo ebophayo
Ukuba isibini esitshatileyo sinokufikelela kwiimvakalelo ezinzulu nakwezesondo, ngokuqinisekileyo umtshato wabo unokuqhubeka kwiminyaka emininzi ezayo.
Makhe sahlule ezi zinto zimbini.
Ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo luhlobo lokusondelelana olunokwabelana ngabahlobo abanyanisekileyo. Inokwenzeka ukuba izinzile ubukhulu becala kwaye ingahlala ubomi bonke.
Ukuze sikwazi ukufikelela kwinqanaba elisempilweni lokusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo, kufuneka sikwazi wabelane ngonxibelelwano oluthembekileyo, oluvulekileyo nolunyanisekileyo.
Kolu lwalamano apho sifumana khona amandla kwaye sikhulisa ukuzithemba kubudlelwane bethu kuba sinokwabelana ngeyona ngcinga yethu ibalulekileyo kunye neyona nto ibalulekileyo kunye neqabane lethu.
Ukwabelana ngesondo, kwelinye icala, luhlobo olusondeleyo apho imizimba yethu inxibelelana khona.
Xa sicinga ngesondo, sihlala sicinga ngezenzo zesondo ezibandakanya ukuchukumisa kunye nokungena ngokwesondo. Kodwa iya ngaphaya koko.
Jonga kwakhona:
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokulungileyo kufuna ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo nangokwesondo
Xa umtshato umtsha, ubomi besini esitshatileyo busebenza kakhulu, kwaye inkululeko yokuba nesondo rhoqo emtshatweni iyafumaneka. Le yinto esiyibiza ngokuba 'sisigaba sasemva komtshato.'
Xa esi sigaba siphelile, ezinye izibini zinokuwela kumgibe. Bayayeka ukugxila kubudlelwane kunye nonxibelelwano ababekhe banabo; banokujamelana ngesondo. Iingxaki zesini zinokuvela.
Ukulwa malunga nokuma okwenzekayo ngoku kubomi besini esitshatileyo kunokubangela ukuba izibini zichasane, emva koko kuqale umdlalo osolwayo.
Ngala maxesha abalulekileyo, ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo kuyangena.
Ukuba uphumelele kwinqanaba lokusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokuthembana neqabane lakho, kwaye uyazi ukuba uya kuviwa, unokuxoxa nangeyona micimbi ibuthathaka, enje ngobomi bakho bezesondo.
Ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo kukuxhobisa ukuba ukwazi ukuthetha ngeemfuno zakho ngaphandle kokuba neentloni zokuba nazo, ezikhokelela kwisini esikhulu emtshatweni.
Oku kuyafana nokukwazi ukwabelana ngeengxaki zakho zempilo nogqirha wakho kwaye ubathembe ukuba nantoni na owabelana nayo nabo iya kugcinwa iyimfihlo kwaye uyakufumana olona nyango lulungileyo emva koxilongo lwabo.
Ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo kufuneka kukuvumele ukuba wenze okufanayo.
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokulungileyo akunakufezekiswa ngaphandle kobuhlobo obabelwe phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho.
Kuphantse kujikeleze ukuba kokukhona uvulekileyo kwiqabane lakho, kokukhona uya kube usabelana ngesondo ngokulungileyo, kokukhona ubudlelwane bakho bunokomelela ngokubanzi.
Ulwalamano lobushushu
Ukuba usisibini esitshatileyo kwaye awunaso isini esifanelekileyo njengoko usilindeleyo, kusenokubakho imicimbi ekuya kufuneka ukuba uyilungise.
Ukuze abantu abatshatileyo bakwazi ukuba neentlobano zesini ezilungileyo, nokwazi ukuba babelana ngesondo akwanelanga, ikwabelana ngokwabelana ngokusondeleyo phakathi kwabo kunye nokuba nakho Nxibelelana kakuhle neqabane lakho.
Ngokukodwa xa kuziwa ekuxoxeni ngeemfuno zakho, le nkqubo ikuvumela ukuba wabelane ngesondo kunye.
Ngokuvavanya indlela osondelene ngayo nokuba uyonwabele unxibelelwano oluhle kunye nokwabelana ngesondo okuhle ungabuqonda ubushushu bobudlelwane bakho.
Oku kuthetha ukuba unokwaziswa malunga nemicimbi kubudlelwane bakho, onokuyisombulula ngokukhawuleza njengoko iqondo lobushushu liphola.
Enye yezinto onokuzijonga ngokukhawuleza kubudlelwane bakho lunxibelelwano lwakho.
Ngaba uyaliyeka iqabane lakho lithethe ngeemfuno zabo okanye iminqweno yabo kunye neminqweno yabo ngaphandle kokugwetywa? Ukuba kunjalo, ndiyavuyisana nani! Uvula itafile yengxoxo esempilweni ngesini.
Ukuba unokwabelana ngezi ntlobo zeencoko, usendleleni eya ebomini obunamanqanaba okusondelelana.
Ukuthetha ngesihloko esinovakalelo njengokwabelana ngesondo kungangqineka kuyintaba ukunyuka, kodwa ukuba wena neqabane lakho ninxibelelana ngokukhululekileyo nangaphandle kokugweba, eyona nto yayiyintaba ngoku inokuba yindawo ephantsi yokuwela.
Ukuphuculwa komgangatho wobomi
Kutheni imiba yesondo kubomi bomtshato? Ukuba neentlobano zesini ezilungileyo kuphucula umgangatho wobomi bakho. Ngokwanda kwesondo, uyalandisa ixesha lakho lokwabelana nolwalamano neqabane lakho.
Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, ukuba neentlobano zesini rhoqo kuyonyusa imveliso yemizimba yakho yokuziva ulungile, ngokwenza ukuba uzive unamandla kwaye uzithemba ngakumbi. Kwakhona kunceda ekwenzeni ulonwabo!
Ngaphandle kwamahomoni aziva mnandi anikwa ngulo msebenzi usondeleyo, isini singqinwa siyiphucula impilo yomzimba uphela. Ngokubanzi, ukwabelana ngesondo rhoqo kuphucula ukusebenza komzimba wakho.
Inceda ukuba ulwe neentsholongwane ngcono. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa ikwanceda ukuphucula umgangatho wokulala kwakho! Kwaye ngubani ongafuni ukulala ngcono?
Ukwabelana ngesondo kunezibonelelo ezithile kumadoda nabasetyhini.
Kumadoda, abo bathatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yesondo rhoqo babenomngcipheko ophantsi wokuba nomhlaza webala.
Kwabafazi, kwaqatshelwa ukuba ii-orgasms eziqhelekileyo zinceda ekomelezeni umgangatho we-pelvic, kwaye kwaxelwa ukuba bafumana iintlungu ezincinci xa besesixesheni. Hambani, manenekazi!
Ngaphaya koko, isifundo sibonise ukuba kukho unxibelelwano olubalulekileyo phakathi kokwoneliseka emtshatweni, ukuzithemba, kunye noxinzelelo.
Ngokubanzi, akukho nto imbi inokuthethwa malunga nokwabelana ngesondo. Okukhona usondelelene kakhulu neqabane lakho, isini esingcono oza kuba naso, kokukhona uya kube usabelana ngesondo ngakumbi, ubuhlobo bakho buya kuba ngcono!
Sithanda ukugxila kwinto yokuba akusoloko kubungakanani kodwa kumgangatho.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uzifumene uxakekile, kuya kukunceda ubeneincoko evulekileyo malunga nemeko yakho yokusondelana neqabane lakho.
Ukuba ukuthetha ngale meko kuyakoyikisa, kungangcono ukuba ubone uncedo lwezesondo kwizibini ezitshatileyo kwaye udibane nomtshato kunye nonyango losapho ukulungiselela incoko.