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- Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya lingalikhusela ixhoba
- Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya linokufaka isimangalo egameni lexhoba
- Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya linokunceda ixhoba ekufakweni koqhawulo mtshato
- Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya linokunceda ixhoba ukuba lifumane ilungelo lokugcina abantwana
- Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya linokunceda ixhoba lifumane inkxaso yomlingane
- Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya limela ixhoba enkundleni
Ubundlobongela basekhaya yenye yezona zinto zimbi kuluntu. Ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo, abanye abantu baya kubaxhaphaza ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwasengqondweni amaqabane abo, amaqabane asondeleyo, abantwana, kunye nabazali babo. Ngethamsanqa, uninzi lwabantu alubandakanyeki kule ndlela yokuziphatha, kodwa kukho abanye abangayiboni njengengalunganga okanye abakwazi kulawula umsindo wabo.
Ukucaca, ubundlobongela basekhaya abufani nokuhlukumeza abantu. Eyokuqala ibandakanya ukusebenzisana phakathi kwamalungu osapho okanye amaqabane asondeleyo, ngelixa eli lokugqibela libandakanya amanyathelo afanayo, kodwa phakathi kwabantu abanolunye ubudlelwane njengabamelwane, abantu osebenza nabo, okanye amaqabane oshishino.
Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya lingaluncedo olukhulu kwixhoba. Ngelixa kungekho mfuneko yokuqesha igqwetha ukuba lifune uncedo kwinkqubo yenkundla yombuso, igqwetha elinamava ebaleni liyayazi into ekufuneka liyenzile kwaye liyabuqonda ubunyani beemeko zobundlobongela basekhaya.
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Buyintoni ubundlobongela basekhaya
Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya lingalikhusela ixhoba
Xa ubundlobongela basekhaya busenzeka, esona sidingo sikhawulezileyo kukuba ixhoba likhuselwe kumenzi wobubi. Amaxhoba amaninzi awazi ukuba angayenza njani loo nto. Bahlala baziva bevaleleke kukusilela kwezixhobo okanye uthungelwano lokuxhasa amalungu osapho okanye abahlobo. Ngenxa yoko, la maxhoba ahlala ehlupheka kubundlobongela ixesha elithile ngaphambi kokufumana uncedo.
Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya lingabonisa amaxhoba indlela yokuphuma kwiingxaki zabo. Oku kuhlala kubandakanya izinto ezimbini:
1) Ukufumana indawo yokuhlala ekhuselekileyo
2) Ukufumana umyalelo osemthethweni wokuthintela ukunxibelelana phakathi komenzi wobubi kunye nexhoba
Amagqwetha agxila kugonyamelo lwasekhaya kunye nobundlobongela ajikwa aba zizibonelelo ezisekwe eluntwini ezinceda amaxhoba. Oku kuhlala kubandakanya amakhaya abantwana kunye neendawo zokuhlala apho amaxhoba anokuza kuhlala ngelixa iingxaki zabo zisalungiswa. Ukongeza, la magqwetha angaya enkundleni akuncede ufumane umyalelo othintela umxhaphazi lowo wakho ekunxibelelaneni okanye ekusondele kuwe.
Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya linokufaka isimangalo egameni lexhoba
Kwiimeko ezinzima, amaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya anokufumana iindleko zonyango kwaye banokulahlekelwa ngumvuzo ngokungakwazi ukusebenza. Igqwetha linokukunceda ukuba ufake isimangalo ukuze uphinde ufumane loo monakalo, kunye nokufumana intlawulo yeentlungu kunye nokubandezeleka.
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Iindlela ezisebenzayo zokuThintela ubuNdlobongela baseKhaya
Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya linokunceda ixhoba ekufakweni koqhawulo mtshato
Njengoko unokulindela, ubundlobongela basekhaya liqabane lihlala lisisisandulela sokuqhawula umtshato. Kutheni le nto iqabane elihlukumezekileyo kufuneka lihlale litshatile nomntu owenza umonakalo ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo? Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya linokunceda amaxhoba ukuba ahambe ngendlela eyonakeleyo yoqhawulo-mtshato. Amanye amaxhoba asenokulubona uqhawulo-mtshato njengolungathandabuzekiyo ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Igqwetha linokubanceda babone ngokucacileyo ukhetho ezikhoyo kwaye babakhombe kwizixhobo ezinokubanceda baphume emtshatweni ophethe gadalala.
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Indlela yokujongana nobuNdlobongela baseKhaya
Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya linokunceda ixhoba ukuba lifumane ilungelo lokugcina abantwana
Esinye sezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo amaqabane aphethwe gadalala ahlala kwimitshato yawo kungenxa yabantwana babo. Iqabane elihlukumezayo ngamanye amaxesha lisongela ngokuqinisekisa ukuba elinye iqabane liza kuphulukana nelungelo lokugcina okanye ukufikelela ebantwaneni ukuba liyahamba. Amanye amaxhoba oyika nje iziphumo ngaphandle kwesoyikiso esichaziweyo. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya lingavavanya iimeko kwaye licebise ixhoba malunga nendlela ilungelo lokugcina umntwana elinokuthi lidlale ngalo kwimeko yoqhawulo-mtshato.
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Isikhokelo samalungelo oMama kwiNkxaso yoMntwana
Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya linokunceda ixhoba lifumane inkxaso yomlingane
Esinye isizathu esiqhelekileyo sokuhlala kubudlelwane obuhlukumezayo yimali. Amaxhoba anokoyika ukuba aza kusala engenazo izixhobo zokunceda bona okanye abantwana babo. Amagqwetha obundlobongela basekhaya anceda amaxhoba ukuba afumane inkxaso yomlingane (isondlo) kwabo babetshate nabo, kunye neentlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana. Amaxhoba ahlala esoyika okona kubi kule micimbi xa, enyanisweni, umthetho ukwicala labo. Amagqwetha adlala indima enkulu ekuqinisekiseni ukuba amaxhoba afumana impatho enobulungisa.
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Iingcebiso malunga nobuNdlobongela baseKhaya
Igqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya limela ixhoba enkundleni
Indawo engundoqo apho amagqwetha obundlobongela basekhaya adlala indima enkulu kukumela amaxhoba enkundleni nokujongana nabaxhaphazi bawo. Oku kususa umthwalo omkhulu kumaxhoba kwaye kuvumela ukuba baphefumle ngokulula ngexesha lokufumana isiqabu kubundlobongela basekhaya.
Ubundlobongela basekhaya ngumba oxhalabisayo, kwaye iimvakalelo zihlala ziphazamisa ukucinga okucacileyo. Ukuqhagamshelana negqwetha lobundlobongela basekhaya lelona nyathelo lokuqala ekujonganeni ngempumelelo nobudlelwane obuxhaphazayo.
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