Umxholo
- 1) Abadluli kwisicwangciso
- 2) Banikezela
- 3) Bamkela iimpazamo zabo
- 4) Banyanisekile kwiimpawu zabo
- 5) Balindele intlonipho
- 6) Abaxolisi ngokuba neemvakalelo, okanye uvelwano
- 7) Balawula naziphi na iingcinga ezimbi
- 8) Abazithobeli ngokwabo
- 9) Bahlala kwindlela yabo
- 10) Banobubele kubo
Kukho idinomineyitha eqhelekileyo xa kufikwa ekuqondeni ukuba yintoni eyenza ukuba umfazi akwishishini aphumelele, kwaye yintoni eyenza ukuba umtshato uphumelele. Uqwalaselo oluhlawulwa ngumfazi kwindlela abulawula ngayo ubomi bakhe kunye neshishini lifana kakhulu kuzo zombini iimeko.
Kwaye konke kujikeleze ukuzihlonela, ukuzixhobisa, uthando kunye nokulawulwa kwexesha konke oku kulingane nokuzilolonga.
Uninzi lwabasetyhini abakrelekrele kwishishini bayaqonda ukuba kufuneka bazikhathalele. Kuba ukuba abenzi njalo, ngekhe babenakho ukukhathalela wonke umntu nayo yonke enye into efuna ingqalelo yabo ngalo naliphi na ixesha lexesha kubandakanya nomtshato wabo!
Kodwa nokuba awunguye umfazi kwishishini, ungazithatha ezi ngcebiso, kunye nezicwangciso ezivela kubafazi kwishishini ukwakha kumtshato wakho nakubomi basekhaya, ukuze wena, umyeni wakho kunye nomtshato wakho uhlale wonwabile kwaye uzinze iminyaka emininzi emininzi .
Ukuzinakekela kungaphezu kohambo loogqirha okanye olungisa iinwele. Kuthatha ixesha lokucwangcisela impumelelo kwishishini nakumtshato wabo ngaxeshanye. Yenza izicwangciso zokulawula ukusilela kunye neengxaki. Kukuzenzela ixesha, usapho, umsebenzi kunye nezinto abanomdla kuzo. Imalunga nokuba nayo yonke into, ngendlela eqinisekisa ukuba akukho mntu ungakhathalelwanga kwaye wonke umntu unikwe amandla kubandakanya nawe.
Ke, yintoni eyenziwa ngabasetyhini kwishishini ngokwahlukileyo? Baziqhelisa njani ukuzikhathalela ngezo zihlandlo xa izinto zihamba kancinci? Bayikhusela njani intlalontle yabo xa iichips ziphantsi?
Nazi izinto ezili-10 ezenziwa ngabafazi kwishishini ukuzikhusela, umtshato wabo kunye neshishini labo, ngokuzikhathalela.
1) Abadluli kwisicwangciso
Zininzi kakhulu iiyure emini, kwaye zininzi kuphela izinto onokuzenza. Akukho nto idala inkohliso yokusilela ngaphezu kokungakhethiweyo 'ukwenza uluhlu' ekupheleni kosuku. Abasetyhini kwishishini bayakuqonda kakuhle oku kwaye baqiniseke ukuba bayinyani malunga nendlela abacwangcisa ngayo.
Ingcebiso! Lawula imveliso yakho ngokucwangcisa izinto ezintathu ezincinci ukugqibezela usuku ngalunye kunye nokwaphula iiprojekthi ezinkulu zibe ngamanyathelo amancinci 'okuluma'. Xa uyigqibile imisebenzi yakho yeshishini, yeka kwaye ujonge kubomi bakho basekhaya ukuze ufumane ulungelelwaniso olululo phakathi komsebenzi kunye nekhaya.
2) Banikezela
Ishishini lakho liyakudinga, usapho lwakho luyakudinga kwaye ukuba awuthumeli abanye abantu izinto abanokuzenzela zona-uyaliphika ishishini lakho kunye nosapho. Naphi na apho kunokwenzeka khona ukuba abafazi abakhaliphileyo kubathunywa beshishini kwaye asisoloko sithetha kumyeni!
Ingcebiso! Soloko ugcina uluhlu lwemisebenzi abanokukhutshelwa ngaphandle xa ixesha kunye nezixhobo zivuma.
3) Bamkela iimpazamo zabo
Ngaba ukhe wawajonga amandla akho amdaka xa uhlawula iziphene okanye ubuthathaka bakho? Yimali enkulu. Abafazi abalumkileyo kwishishini bayayazi le nto! Ukuba uyeka ukunaka iziphene zakho, unokuchitha loo mandla kwimisebenzi enomvuzo ngakumbi.
Ingcebiso! Ukuhlambalaza kukungafezeki kugqibelele! Iziphene zakho, uya kuthandwa ngenxa yazo!
4) Banyanisekile kwiimpawu zabo
Ulibale ngayo yonke into oyifundiswe kwixa elidlulileyo, ulibale yonke into ebekeke kuwe. Kulungile ukuba wamkele kwaye wamkele iimpawu zakho. Kuya kufuneka uzingce ngabo, kufuneka ubabonise usapho lwakho, uMyeni, abathengi kunye noontanga. Akunakulungile ukufihla iimpawu zakho (okanye ukukhanya kwakho) kwihlabathi, abasetyhini kwishishini, bahlala bekuqonda kakuhle oku.
Ingcebiso! Thatha ixesha uqaphele xa ufihla 'ukhanye kude nehlabathi kwaye ujonge iindlela onokuthi uyeke ukuzenza.
5) Balindele intlonipho
Kuya kufuneka uhlonitshwe, kwaye ewe, kufuneka ubonise intlonipho yokufumana imbeko kukho isizathu sokuba eli binzana licatshulwe rhoqo. Ke, ukuba umntu akakuhloneli, okanye akunjalo uya kuba neengxaki ngaphakathi nangaphandle kweshishini lakho.
Ingcebiso! Sukuvumela lo mda wophulwe!
6) Abaxolisi ngokuba neemvakalelo, okanye uvelwano
Hayi, abaxolisi, abafazi abakwishishini banayo! Kwaye uyacetyiswa ukuba wenze njalo nawe. Intobeko yakho nokunyaniseka kwakho kuyakukhanya, abantu abakungqongileyo abanakuba nenye indlela ngaphandle kokukuhlonipha.
Ingcebiso! Yenza umkhwa wokucwangcisa kwangaphambili, kangangoko kunokwenzeka-ukuze ufumane ikhefu ngala maxesha xa iimvakalelo zibamba kwimeko enzima enjengeyentlanganiso.
7) Balawula naziphi na iingcinga ezimbi
Abafazi abalumkileyo kwishishini bayazi ukuba kuyingozi kakhulu kwaye kuyonakalisa ukuvumela iingcinga ezimbi ukuba zibekho kwinyani yabo. Bayazisusa.
Uyazi uhlobo lweengcinga 'Andilunganga ngokwaneleyo', 'Andazi ukuba ndenze njani le nto' njl.njl.
Ingcebiso! Faka endaweni yazo zonke iingcinga ezingalunganga ngengxelo eyakhayo okanye ngombuzo olungileyo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba 'andazi ukuba ndenze njani le nto', tshintsha loo ngcinga 'Ndingazi njani ukuba ndingayenza njani le nto?'.
8) Abazithobeli ngokwabo
Abasetyhini kwishishini bayazi ukuba kokukhona bexabisa iinkonzo zabo, kokukhona bayahlonitshwa. Abaze bazithethelele ngemirhumo yabo, kwaye ngenxa yokuba basebenza ngentembeko babiza ixabiso elichanekileyo ngeenkonzo zabo.
Ingcebiso! Vavanya amaxabiso akho, jonga abo ukhuphisana nabo, ngaba unakho ukuhambisa umgangatho ofanayo wenkonzo, okanye ngcono - ukuba ungalungisa amaxabiso akho ngokufanelekileyo.
9) Bahlala kwindlela yabo
Abasetyhini kwishishini bahlala bengavumeli iimvakalelo zengqondo, zengqondo okanye zomzimba ukuba zibasuse kwiinjongo zabo. Kwaye abayibukeli impumelelo yomnye umntu kwaye bayayivumela ukuba ibonise ukusilela kwabo.
Abathandani nendlela yokuphila yomnye umntu. Bayazi ukuba akukho mntu ufika ‘ngokulula’ kubomi obugqibeleleyo, kwaye abazivumeli izidenge ngovuyo. Ngokuhlala kwindlela yabo, bakhathalela ishishini labo kunye neemfuno zabo ukuze bazise inqanaba labo lomdlalo we-10 apho lifuneka kakhulu khona.
Ingcebiso! Yeka ukuzithelekisa nabanye !!
10) Banobubele kubo
Abasetyhini abaphumeleleyo kwishishini zange bazibethe ngokwengqondo okanye ngokwasemphefumlweni, abaze bazilahle, banika ingqalelo kwiimfuno zabo kwaye bathethe nabo. Bayazi ukuba yindlela abanokuzisa ngayo iziphumo ze-epic