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Umxholo
- Yintoni iNgxelo ka "Mna"? Yintoni injongo yesitetimenti esithi "Ndi"?
- Ungaziqeqesha njani ukwenza ingxelo ka "Ndi"?
- Uyenza njani ingxelo yokuba "mna" isebenze ngakumbi?
Nabani na ovela kumakhulu wakho ukuya kugqirha wakho uya kukuxelela ukuba enye ye izitshixo zomtshato owonwabisayo, kukunxibelelana kakuhle. Ukuziqhelanisa nezakhono njengokumamela ngokukuko, ukucacisa, kunye nentlonipho kunokuphucula ukusebenzisana kwesibini.
Esinye isixhobo esiluncedo kakhulu ekuphuculeni unxibelelwano kukusetyenziswa kweengxelo "Ndi".
Yintoni iNgxelo ka "Mna"? Yintoni injongo yesitetimenti esithi "Ndi"?
Isiteyitimenti esithi “Ndi” yindlela yokubonisa iimvakalelo egxila kuxanduva kwisithethi kunakwimamkeli. Kukuchasene nengxelo ethi "Wena", ebonisa ityala. Kulungile ke, ngaba "mna" iingxelo zingcono kunezithi "Wena"!
UThomas Gordon uqale wajonga olu hlobo lonxibelelwano njengeyona ndlela yobunkokeli obusebenzayo kwiminyaka yoo-1960. U-Bernard Guerney kamva wazisa indlela emtshatweni kunye neengcebiso ngezibini.
Imizekelo:
“Wena” ingxelo: Awusoze ufowne kuba awundikhathalelanga.
Ingxelo ka "Mna": Xa ndingeva kuwe, ndiziva ndixhalabile kwaye ndingathandeki.
Ngokujolisa kwingxelo kwindlela isithethi esivakalelwa ngayo endaweni yezenzo zommkeli, ummkeli akunakufane azive enetyala kwaye ekhusela. "I-Iingxelo" zezibini zinokwenza imimangaliso kulwalamano lwazo.
Rhoqo ukuzikhusela kungagcina izibini zisombulule ukungavisisani. Ukusebenzisa “Mna” kwiingxelo kubudlelwane kunganceda isithethi sithathe iimvakalelo zazo, ezinokuthi zikhokelele ekuqondeni ukuba ezo mvakalelo asizizo iimpazamo zeqabane labo.
Ungaziqeqesha njani ukwenza ingxelo ka "Ndi"?
Esona sitatimende silula "mna" senza unxibelelwano phakathi kweengcinga, iimvakalelo, kunye nokuziphatha okanye iziganeko. Xa uzama ukuzibonakalisa kwisiteyitimenti esithi “Ndi”, sebenzisa le fomathi ilandelayo: Ndiva (imvakalelo) xa (isimilo) kuba (ucinga ngomsitho okanye isimilo).
Khumbula ukubamba nje "Mna" okanye "ndiziva" ngaphambili kwengxelo akuyi kuguqula ugxininiso.
Xa usebenzisa ingxelo ethi "Ndi", uchaza iimvakalelo zakho kwiqabane lakho ukuba ungohlwayi ngokuziphatha okuthile.
Umlingane wakho usenokungayazi indlela ekuchaphazela ngayo indlela abaziphethe ngayo. Awusoze ucinge ukuba bazimisele ukuba nokuziphatha kunokubangela iimvakalelo ezimbi. S, ayisiyiyo nje malunga nokuba sizisebenzisa nini iingxelo zika “Ndi” kodwa nendlela yokuzisebenzisa.
Uyenza njani ingxelo yokuba "mna" isebenze ngakumbi?
Iingxelo "Wena" zihlala zibonisa iimvakalelo njengezinto eziyinyani, kwaye intsingiselo yeyokuba ezo nyaniso azinakuguqulwa. Ngengxelo ethi "Ndi", isithethi siyavuma ukuba iimvakalelo zabo ziyathandeka. Oku kuvumela ithuba lokutshintsha.
Ukufumana okuninzi kwiingxelo zakho zika "Mna" jolisa ekubhekiseni kwindlela yokuziphatha kunakwimeko yomntu. Musa ukuvelisa imvakalelo kwinkcazo yokuziphatha kweqabane lakho. Yenza ingxelo yakho ibe lula kwaye icace.
Iingxelo "mna" aziyizigqibo kubo. Endaweni yoko, ziyindlela esebenzayo yokuqalisa incoko eyakhayo.
Nje ukuba ukhululeke kwisiteyitimenti esithi "Ndi", zama ukulandela ngokuchaza utshintsho oluya kuphucula iimvakalelo zakho. Musa ukulibala ukumamela Nje ukuba wenze ingxelo.
Ngamanye amaxesha ingxelo ethi "Ndi" isenokubangela ukuba iqabane lakho lizive likhusela. Ukuba bayaphindezela, phulaphula, kwaye uzame ukubabonisa iimvakalelo zabo.
Phinda into oyivayo xa kuthethwa liqabane lakho. Kungangcono ukuba ungayiyeki kwaye ubuyele kwingxoxo kamva.
Ukusetyenziswa kwe Iingxelo "mna" zibonisa ukuzimisela kwakho kunye nomnqweno wokuphucula unxibelelwano kunye neqabane lakho. Ziluphawu lwentlonipho novelwano.
Lo mnqweno wokusombulula ukungavisisani ngothando linyathelo lokuqala elibalulekileyo kumtshato ongcono.