Umxholo
- Ixesha elide nelifutshane Iziphumo zokuxhatshazwa okusondeleyo
- Yintoni onokuyenza ukuze uqonde kwaye ulwe nefuthe lokuxhatshazwa?
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuqonda into enzima njengokuhlukumeza kunzima. Iimpawu ezilumkisayo zihlala zikhona kubudlelwane ngaphandle konxibelelwano lokwenyani nokuziphatha gwenxa, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi ukuxhatshazwa kufihliwe, kunzima ukufumanisa nokunyanga. Kwinkcazo elula, ukuphathwa gadalala kukuphathwa gadalala kunye nobundlobongela komnye umntu.
Ngelixa inkcazo ibonakala icace gca, eli gama linokubhekisa kwinani elikhulu lokuziphatha kunye nezenzo, uninzi lwazo lubakho ngexesha elinye okanye kolunye kubudlelwane.
Olunye uphawu, nangona kunjalo, luhlala lunye: injongo yesenzo kukonzakalisa omnye umntu.
Yintoni le inobungozi ezinokubakho ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ifuthe lihlala likhulu kwaye lichaphazela amandla okusebenza kwexhoba.
Ukuphathwa gadalala ngokweemvakalelo, ngokwasengqondweni, ngamazwi, nangokwasemzimbeni ngawona maqela aphambili apho indlela yokuziphatha gadalala yahlulwe ngokwezigaba. Inkcazo esisiseko okanye izinto ezifanelekileyo zinokwahluka ngokuxhomekeke kugqirha ogqibezela uvavanyo. Oku kubangelwe ngokuyinxenye kuba iimpawu zohlobo ngalunye zihlala zifana okanye ziqhubela kwezinye iindidi.
Umzekelo, umntu ohlangabezana nokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwesondo kwiqabane okanye iqabane lakhe naye unokufumana ukuphathwa gadalala. Ezinye iintlobo zempatho gadalala zibandakanya ukungakhathalelwa kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo; nganye yezi ihlala ithathwa njengesiqendwana se ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni ngokusekwe kufana abelana ngako kudidi olubanzi.
Ixesha elide nelifutshane Iziphumo zokuxhatshazwa okusondeleyo
Ulwazi lobuchule kunye noluntu lobuqu lokuhlukumeza akufuneki luphele ngemiqondiso yesilumkiso kunye neeflegi ezibomvu. Ukwazi iimpembelelo zexesha elifutshane kunye nexesha elide lokuxhatshazwa kubalulekile ekuqondeni indlela efanelekileyo yokusondela kunyango.
Ukulimala ngokwasemzimbeni okunje ngemivumbo, ukukrwela, ukusika, ukwaphuka kwamathambo, kunye neempazamo zezinye zeempembelelo zokuphazamiseka kwexesha elifutshane. Ezinye iziphumo zibandakanya nantoni na ephazamisa ukubanakho komntu ukusebenza ngesiqhelo (kokubini ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo), ukungabikho komelelo okanye amandla okubuyisa umva emva komothuko, ukurhoxa kwabo babangqongileyo, kunye nokonyuka kokuchasana nonyango olusemthethweni.
Ezi ziphumo ngamanye amaxesha zinokuba zezethutyana kwaye zisonjululwe ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ziye zibe lixesha elide kwindalo zichaphazela umntu ngokuthe rhoqo. Umngcipheko wale miphumo uphezulu kakhulu xa umntu esiba nokuxhatshazwa okuphindaphindiweyo nokuphindaphindiweyo.
Iziphumo ezinefuthe kwixesha elide zihlala zifana neempawu kodwa zibukhali kwinqanaba lokuchaphazeleka. Uxinzelelo olwenzeka rhoqo kubudlelwane obuxhaphazayo lunokukhokelela kwiziphumo zexesha elide ezinje ngokungakwazi ukuthemba abanye, ukukhathazeka ngempilo yomzimba nengqondo, utshintsho olukhulu kwindlela otya ngayo okanye ekulaleni, kunye nokusilela kweendlela zonxibelelwano ezisempilweni.
Ngokwesiqhelo, amandla omntu okuseka kunye nokugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo ayancipha. Ezinye iziphumo zexesha elide zinokubandakanya uhlaselo loxinzelelo, iimvakalelo zokulahlwa, umsindo, ubuntununtunu bokungamkelwa, impilo ebuthathaka (engqondweni nasemzimbeni), ukungakwazi ukusebenza okanye ukusebenza, ubudlelwane obubi nabantwana okanye nabanye abantu obathandayo, kunye nomngcipheko okhulayo wokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi .
Iziphumo zokuxhatshazwa aziphelelanga kwixhoba lokuqala.
Ukuba abantwana bayabandakanyeka, banokuchaphazeleka kanobom nakubeni bebengengabo abona bundlobongela.
Abantwana abaye bavezwa kukuxhatshazwa komzali kunokwenzeka ukuba:
- Sebenzisa ubundlobongela esikolweni okanye ekuhlaleni njengempendulo kwizisongelo ezibonakalayo
- Zama ukuzibulala
- Sebenzisa iziyobisi okanye utywala
- Yenza ulwaphulo-mthetho
- Sebenzisa ubundlobongela njengendlela yokumelana nokuzithemba okuphantsi, kwaye
- Yiba ngumxhaphazi kubudlelwane babo.
Yintoni onokuyenza ukuze uqonde kwaye ulwe nefuthe lokuxhatshazwa?
Xa wena okanye umntu omthandayo ehlangabezana nokuziphatha gwenxa, kuhlala kunzima ukukhumbula ukuba ngamanye amaxesha olona ncedo luncedo luvela kulowo uzimisele ukumamela ngaphandle kokugweba; ngulowo uxhasa ngaphandle kokukhetha okanye uluvo. Ukuba umntu omthandayo ukhe wanamaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala, linda ukuba akulungele ukuthetha ngalo. Xa besenza, kholelwa kwinto abayithethayo.
Qiniseka ukuba uphinde uyimfihlo - kulula ukufumana ukuthembana kwaye kulula nje ukuphulukana nayo ukuba wabelana ngento ekuxelele yona ngokuzithemba. Qinisekisa ukuba uyayiqonda kwaye uyayiqonda into yokuba zeziphi izibonelelo ezinokubakho kwisixeko sakho; zilungiselele xa umntu esiza kuwe ezokunceda! Gcina ukhumbula, nangona kunjalo, ukuba uhlala usenza izinto onokukhetha kuzo kwaye ungamenzi zigqibo umntu lowo.
Sukugxeka, ugwebe, okanye ugxeke ixhoba njengoko ezinokuvela ngathi zinoburharha kwaye zihlala zibekwa endaweni engeyiyo. Ngaphezu kwako konke, nangona kunjalo, njengommeli kubalulekile ukuba ungoyiki ukubandakanyeka.Ngaphandle kokubeka ukhuseleko lwakho emngciphekweni, sebenzisa naziphi na izixhobo onokubanazo ukunceda ixhoba elisweleyo.