Umxholo
- Imbali yokukhohlisa
- Kule mihla, ukukopa ngeendlela ezininzi kulula kakhulu
- Iindidi zokukopa
- Kwaye baphi na abo bakhohlisi?
- Leliphi ilizwe elinepesenti ephezulu yabafazi abatshatileyo abavuma ukukopela?
- Lilonke xa iyonke, oku kuthetha ntoni?
Ukukopa. Nokuba igama livakala kakubi. Wazi ntoni ngokukopa? Yintoni ofuna ukuyazi malunga nokukopa? Ulwazi ngamandla, ke masikhe sihlolisise isifundo ukuze uxhobise xa kunokwenzeka ukuba oku kwenzeke kuwe.
Imbali yokukhohlisa
Logama nje bekukho izakhiwo zentlalo, bekukho abantu abakhohlisayo. Abantu abafuna ukusebenza malunga nolwakhiwo kunye nemithetho yezentlalo kwaye bafumanisa okanye benza iindlela zokukopela ukufikelela kwiinjongo zabo.
Kwaye akukho nto itshintshileyo kule minyaka idlulileyo.
Ukukopela kuye kwaba yinto ephucukileyo njengokukopela.
Ycinge. Ngamaxesha adlulileyo, ukuba indoda ifuna ukukopela kumfazi wayo, ibinzima kakhulu ekwenzeni njalo: akukho zimoto zingena ngaphakathi, akukho myalezo ubhaliweyo, i-imeyile okanye ezinye iindlela zokunxibelelana ngombane, akukho zindiza ekufuneka zithathiwe ukubuyela kude iidolophu.
Kule mihla, ukukopa ngeendlela ezininzi kulula kakhulu
Iindlela zokukopa sele zihambele phambili, kwaye ukuhamba kwexesha akutshintshanga imeko yomntu kunye nesilingo sokuba abanye abantu bakope.
Ixesha lethu lobuchwephesha liphucule iindlela zokukopa njengoko abakhohlisi besanda ngakumbi nangakumbi kubuchwephesha.
Ngubani igama? Oko sikubiza ngokuba yirosi / ngalo naliphi na elinye igama kuya kunuka kamnandi. ”
Qaphela ukuba isicatshulwa kwisikolo sakho esiphakamileyo seShakespeare? Khumbula ukuba kuthetha ntoni?
Asithethi nge-botany apha. Kuthetha ukuba xa kusiza ekukopeni, ukuba nantoni na oyibiza ngokuba ngumkhohlisi, usengumkhohlisi.
Jonga onke amagama esinayo okopela: ukukrexeza, inkosikazi, isithandwa, ixesha-ezimbini, ipharamitha, umlandeli, umfazi, iqabane elingathembekanga (okanye isoka okanye intombi), umyeni okanye umfazi oxhwithekileyo, kancinci ecaleni kwaye uluhlu luya kuhamba kuqhubeka kuqhubeka.
Eyona nto ifikelela kuyo yile: elinye ilungu lobudlelwane alithembekanga kwelinye ilungu. Ngokwesiqhelo, elinye iqabane alazi ngokungathembeki kwelinye iqabane. Esi inokuba sisiganeko sexesha elinye okanye elinye iqabane linokuba ngumkhohlisi oqhelekileyo.
Iindidi zokukopa
Ngaba ucinga ukuba kukho uhlobo lomntu oluthambekele ekukopeleni?
Uninzi lweengcali zikholelwa ukuba kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobuntu ezihlala zikhohlisa. UGqr. Kenneth Paul Rosenberg ucinga ukuba ikhona. Incwadi yakhe, Ukungathembeki: Kutheni Amadoda nabafazi bekhohlisa, iinkcukacha ezisixhenxe zobuntu ezonyusa amathuba okuba umntu akope.
Ezisixhenxe zezi:
- I-narcissism -ukuziva uzimele kwaye ubeka wena kuqala.
- Ukungabi novelwano-ukungakwazi ukuqonda okanye ukwabelana ngeemvakalelo zomnye umntu.
- Ubungangamsha -ukungabinangqondo kokuziphakamisa kunye nembono eqhubekayo yokuba ungcono kunabanye, ngakumbi xa kufikwa kubuchule bezesondo.
- Ukwenza izigqibo ezingxamisekileyo kunye nemiphumo emikhulu ngesiquphe.
- Umntu othanda umdlalo
- Ukoyika ukuzibophelela -Ukuba unendlela yokuphepha yokuncamathisela.
Ukuzitshabalalisa ngokwakho-Ukuzilimaza okanye ukujonga ngamehlo.
Ewe umntu kufuneka abuze, kutheni umntu efuna ukubandakanyeka nakwezinye iintlobo zobuntu kwasekuqaleni kuba zonke zinempawu ezingathandekiyo?
Kwaye baphi na abo bakhohlisi?
Leliphi ilizwe ocinga ukuba lineyona pesenti ephezulu yabakhohlisi? I-Thailand ithatha loo nto (dis) imbeko nge-51% yabantu evuma ukuba babekhohlisile kubudlelwane. La mazwe alithoba alandelayo aseYurophu.
Nalu uluhlu lwabakhohlisi abamkelweyo ngokulandelelana:
- IDenmark 46%
- I-Italiya iipesenti ezingama-45
- EJamani iipesenti ezingama-45
- IFransi iipesenti ezingama-43
- ENorway iipesenti ezingama-41
- EBelgium 40%
- I-Spain 39%
- Eunited Kingdom 36%
- EFinland 31%
Umxhasi kolu phononongo yayinguDurex, umenzi wekhondom!
Unokufunda ngakumbi ngayo Apha. Ke ukuba unomdla wokuthandana, yiya eThailand okanye eYurophu. Abantu baseMelika bayavuma ukukopela i-17% yexesha.
Ewe zonke ezi nkcukacha-manani kufuneka zifundwe kunye nengqolowa yetyuwa kuba ziziipesenti zabakhohlisi abamkelweyo kwaye akukho ndlela yakugqiba ukuba abathathi-nxaxheba kolu phando bathetha inyani okanye hayi. Kananjalo nesifundo asichazi ukuba babesithini na abathathi-nxaxheba.
Leliphi ilizwe elinepesenti ephezulu yabafazi abatshatileyo abavuma ukukopela?
Ngokungafaniyo nophando lwangaphambili, olu phononongo lwalunabafazi abatshatileyo kuphela abanika ingxelo ukuba babebaqhathile abayeni babo. Kwaye ilizwe elinepesenti ephezulu yabafazi abangathembekanga yiNigeria, kunye ne-61% yabasetyhini abatshatileyo abathi abangathembekanga emtshatweni wabo. Nanga amanye amanqanaba asuka kwelona nani liphezulu labafazi abatshatileyo ababandakanyeka kwimicimbi:
- I-Thailand iipesenti ezingama-59
- I-United Kingdom i-42% (Thelekisa amanani-36% kwilizwe liphela, ngasentla.)
- IMalaysia iipesenti ezingama-39
- IRussia iipesenti ezingama-33
- I-Singapore iipesenti ezingama-19
- IFransi nge-16.3%. Inani lamadoda atshatileyo abelana ngesondo ngaphandle komtshato liphezulu nge-22%.
- I-USA iipesenti ezili-14
- I-Italiya eyi-12%
- EFinland yi10%
Kwakhona, kungcono ukuba ungathandabuzi malunga nesifundo, kodwa kuyathakazelisa ukujonga uluhlu.
Lilonke xa iyonke, oku kuthetha ntoni?
Uhlobo lweenkcukacha-manani kunye neempawu zobuntu azinantsingiselo xa zisiza emntwini. Kuyanceda ukufunda kwaye ufunde ngeentlobo zokukopela, kodwa kwakhona sisigqibo somntu ukuba uza kuthatha inxaxheba kwezithandani.
Kungenxa yokuba ungatshata nendoda yaseThai okanye umfazi waseThai oko akuthethi ukuba bayakukhohlisa (okanye uyakhohlisa umyeni okanye umfazi wakho.)
Njengokuba owayesakuba ngumongameli waseUnited States uRonald Reagan wakha wathi, “Thembani kodwa qinisekani.”