Umxholo
- 1. Ngaba kufuneka sichithe amawaka ukufumana umtshato ogqibeleleyo?
- 2. Yintoni imithetho malunga neendwendwe 'zokudibanisa enye'?
- 3. Ngubani ohlawulela amolokazana / amadoda abalaseleyo?
- 4. Ngaba abafoti kunye nabafoti?
- 5. Ngaba kufuneka simisele ibar evulekileyo?
- 6. Ngaba ufuna ukuqhelisela?
- 7. Zeziphi izibonelelo zokucwangcisa umtshato?
- 8. Ingaba kusekude kangakanani ekufuneka ndicwangcise?
- 9. Bangaphi abantu esibamemayo?
- 10. Abantwana okanye abanabantwana?
Ukuba ucwangcisa umtshato, mininzi imibuzo yomtshato ekufuneka uphendulwe, ukuze ukwazi ukucwangcisa inkqubo kakuhle kwaye uphephe naziphi na izithintelo kusuku lwakho olukhulu. Nayi imibuzo ephezulu eyi-10 ephenduliweyo ekunceda ukuba ucwangcise umtshato wakho kwaye ikukhokele ukuba wenze usuku lwakho lomtshato lube lolulibaleke kakhulu kwaye lumangalisa!
1. Ngaba kufuneka sichithe amawaka ukufumana umtshato ogqibeleleyo?
Ezinye iinkcubeko zinokuqiniseka ukuba ukugqibelela kufuna iimfumba zemali. Asivumelani kwaphela noku, ungachitha inkcitho oyisebenzisileyo. Ukufezekiswa kuhlala kuyahluka, khumbula nje ukuba awudingi ukuzama ukukholisa nabani na kuba lusuku lwakho.
2. Yintoni imithetho malunga neendwendwe 'zokudibanisa enye'?
Siyavuma, ukuhamba le ayisiyonto elula! Sithi nabani na kuluhlu lwakho lwesimemo onomnye umntu obalulekileyo (otshatileyo / obandakanyekileyo / ubudlelwane obuqinileyo) abagqatswa abaphezulu ukuba babe nolunye undwendwe.
Kodwa iphinde ibe yile nto niyifunayo nobabini! Khumbula ukuba awudingi kumema mntu! Kodwa ukuba uvulelekile ukudibanisa, jonga amanani endawo, iindleko zokutya kunye nokuba uyayazi into oyicelileyo yokudibanisa.
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3. Ngubani ohlawulela amolokazana / amadoda abalaseleyo?
Inguqulelo emfutshane kukuba, njengesibini, akukho mfuneko yokuba uhlawule nantoni na. Musa ukunyanzelwa ukuba ucinge ngenye indlela!
Unokuziva ngathi yinto elungileyo ukuyenza, nangona kunjalo, konke kuqhutywa luhlahlo-lwabiwo mali. Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo sithetha ukufumana umbulelo wakho ngenxa yeentombi zabo kunye nabesilisa abalungileyo kodwa abanakho ukuhlawula enye into.
4. Ngaba abafoti kunye nabafoti?
Enye indlela yokufaka iinkumbulo zakho kunye nolonwabo losuku kubalulekile. I-cliche enkulu, eyi-100% iyinyani, kukuba usuku ludlula ngokudlula njengeblur. Abafoti abanetalente kunye nabafoti bevidiyo bathimba zombini iindawo eziphambili zomhla kunye namaxesha amancinci owaphosileyo. Ukuba uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali luyingxaki, jonga ukuba ungazibandakanya njani iindwendwe zakho ngeekhamera ezilahlayo okanye ubuze abo banee-smartphones ezintsha ukuba bafake iifilimu eziphambili.
5. Ngaba kufuneka simisele ibar evulekileyo?
Isiko linyanzelisa ukuba ubonelele ngesiselo sokuqala sethosi esenzeka rhoqo ngaphakathi okanye malunga neentetho. Ibha evulekileyo, nangona kunjalo, iza nezinto ezininzi zokuqwalaselwa. Akubalulekanga ukuba unayo kwaye kuxhomekeke kumanani, ngamanye amaxesha sinokucebisa ngokuphepha kwibar evulekileyo. Ukuba ukhetha ukuya koku, gcina isixa esifanelekileyo sohlahlo-lwabiwo mali ukuze iindwendwe zakho zisebenzise ithuba!
6. Ngaba ufuna ukuqhelisela?
Ukuba uziva unovalo ngokukodwa, ukuziqhelanisa nako kunokuba sisiqinisekiso esikhulu kuwe nakwiqabane lakho. Kwakhona, ukuziqhelanisa kunokunceda oyena mntu ulungileyo / omolokazana bazinze ngakumbi kwindima yabo, ngakumbi ukuba lo ngumtshato wabo wokuqala.
Nokuba umsitho wakho uyinkolo okanye awukho, ukuziqhelanisa kunokulungisa nayiphi na imithambo-luvo kwaye kukuvumele ithuba elinye lokuhamba ngemini kwaye usebenze ixesha elifanelekileyo lolo suku.
7. Zeziphi izibonelelo zokucwangcisa umtshato?
Abacwangcisi bomtshato bathatha uxinzelelo xa kuziwa kumbutho wosuku lwakho lomtshato. Abacwangcisi, ngokufutshane, kufuneka babe ziingcali ekudaleni olona suku lubalaseleyo. Banokufumana kwaye basebenze nabo bonke ababoneleli bakho ukwenza usuku lwakho olugqibeleleyo ngelixa unciphisa uxinzelelo lwakho. Iindleko zinokwahluka kakhulu kuxhomekeka ekubeni usebenzisa bani njengoko uninzi lwabacwangcisi bongeza iindleko zohambo lwabo kwiiphakheji zabo.
8. Ingaba kusekude kangakanani ekufuneka ndicwangcise?
Inqaku eliphambili kukuba akukho mda! Unokuzibandakanya ngokulula kwaye ungaqali ukucwangcisa de kube ziinyanga ezimbalwa emva koko. Iinyanga ezili-12 lixesha elaneleyo lokuba isibini sicwangcise umtshato opheleleyo ngaphandle koncedo. Naliphi na ixesha elincinci kwaye ungaqala ukusokola xa ubhukisha indawo, ngakumbi ukuba ufuna ukutshata ngempelaveki yehlobo.
Ukuba ixesha alunabutofotofo onalo, uncedo olongezelelekileyo lunokunceda kwinkqubo yokucwangcisa kakhulu ngohlobo lwabazali, izihlobo okanye umcwangcisi womtshato.
9. Bangaphi abantu esibamemayo?
Akukho mithetho apha ngaphandle kwesidingo samangqina amabini. Ungamema amakhulu abantu ukuba unendawo kunye nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali.
10. Abantwana okanye abanabantwana?
Sigcine eyona mibuzo iphikisanayo okokugqibela. Ekugqibeleni, sisigqibo sakho. Awuzukukhathalela nabaphi na abantwana ngemini kodwa iyongeza ezinye izinto zokucwangciswa ukuze uqiniseke ukuba kukho iindlela zokhetho ezilungele abantwana esandleni sokutya nokusela.
Jonga ukuba bangaphi abantwana abanokubakho emtshatweni ngokusekwe kuluhlu lwakho lwendwendwe lwangoku. Ngaba iyakukhathaza okanye awukhawulwa? Impendulo yalo mbuzo iya kukunceda wenze isigqibo.
Ukusonga phezulu
Khawukhumbule nje, nangona uhamba ngayo, lusuku malunga nokubhiyozela uthando phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho. Ndiyathemba ukuba le mibuzo yomtshato iphendulwe iyakukunceda ucwangcise umtshato wakho ngokulula.