Umxholo
- YENZA: Izenzo ezingalindelekanga zobubele
- MUSA: Yeka ukuncoma
- YENZA: Nip inzondo kwi-bud
- MUSA: Qalisa okanye ugqibe usuku lwakho ngaphandle kokuncamisa
- Izibini ezonwabileyo azifezekanga
Wonke umntu uyazi ubuncinci isibini esitshatileyo ngokwenene wonwabile. Abazange balishiye iqonga lasemva komtshato, bayagqibezelana izivakalisi, kwaye bacule iingoma zabucala ngasese nasesidlangalaleni.
Banokukwenza ube nomona. Banokukwenza uzive unetyala ngokungabelani ngobuhlobo obufanayo neqabane lakho. Zinokukwenza ufune ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho. Nokuba uziva njani ngabo, kunzima ukuba ungaziqapheli.
Kunzima ukungaluqapheli uthando ababelana ngalo.
Kunzima ukuba ungaqapheli ukuba basaphambene ngomnye nomnye.
Kunzima ukuba ungaqapheli ukuba babonisa intlonipho kunye noxabiso omnye komnye ngaphandle kokuthetha.
Ke, benza njani ehlabathini? Kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lungathanda ukulugxeka kwithamsanqa elimsulwa, kuya kubakho enye into kuyo. Kufuneka kubekho imikhwa kunye neendlela abazifakele kuzo ezinceda ukugcina uthando luphila.
Ngale nto, senze uluhlu lwazo zonke ii-DO kunye nee-DON'Ts zezibini ezonwabileyo kwihlabathi liphela. Landela ezi ngcebiso, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba wazi, wena neqabane lakho niza kuba sisibini esithandelwa ngumntu wonke.
YENZA: Izenzo ezingalindelekanga zobubele
Umtshato unokuba sisidima xa ungalumkanga. Olunye usuku ludibanisa kolandelayo, emva koko ngequbuliso, yiminyaka engama-50 ezantsi emgceni kwaye unethamsanqa ukuba usenokuva okanye ubonane.
Ukophula i-monotony, izibini ezonwabileyo ziyothusa umntu wabo ngesipho esingalindelekanga okanye isenzo sobubele amaxesha ngamaxesha. Bayazi ukuba ukuba bayahamba nje, intshukumo yabo yakudala "iya" iya kuphulukana nencasa ngokukhawuleza.
I-Fellas, iintyatyambo ngolwe-Sihlanu olungahleliwe ziya kunamathela kwingqondo yakhe ngokufanelekileyo ngakumbi kunaleyo uyifumana minyaka le kwisikhumbuzo sakho. Amanenekazi, ukumothusa ngegalufa awayejonge kulo kuya kukhunjulwa iminyaka.
Ayikuko ukuba izipho zesikhumbuzo okanye izipho zokuzalwa azinantsingiselo ingako; Kuphela nje ukuba baninzi kulindeleke. Awothusi mntu xa lo mhla wokukhumbula ujikeleza. Isipho silindelwe, ke ngoko asilibaleki.
Thatha amanqaku kwizibini ezonwabileyo kwaye wenze into entle kwiqabane lakho xa kungalindelekanga. Uya kundibulela kamva.
MUSA: Yeka ukuncoma
Kuba umtshato kukuthandana ixesha elide, ukuncoma kusenokuwela ecaleni kwexesha. Ungacinga ukuba ukusukela usithi "ndiyakuthanda" amaxesha ali-1 000 kwaye uxelele iqabane lakho ukuba lijongeka lihle ixesha nexesha ukuba wenze ngokwaneleyo.
Uyaphazama.
Abantu abatshatileyo abonwabileyo abayeki ukuncoma omnye nomnye. Njengoko ixesha liqhubeka, kunyanzelekile ukuba ugcine iqabane lakho lisijikelezileyo ngendlela oziva ngayo kunye noko ucinga ngako. Ukuba baziva ngathi awusekho kubo, ezinye izinto ezimbi zinokwenzeka. Banokuqala ukukhangela izincomo kwenye indawo, ezinokuthi zibeke uxinzelelo ekuthembekeni nasekunyanisekeni kubudlelwane bakho. Inokuqala ngokudodobalisa ukuzixabisa kwabo kwaye ibenze babe ligobolondo lomntu wabo wangaphambili. Unokuba utshatile umfazi oqaqambileyo okanye udlalisa umfana, kodwa ukuba uyeka ukubaxelela ezi nyaniso, bayakulibala ngokukhawuleza kunawe.
Gcina izincomo zisiza.
YENZA: Nip inzondo kwi-bud
Inzondo yityhefu efihlakeleyo kulo naluphi na ulwalamano, kwaye emtshatweni, inokukhokelela ekwahlukaneni okanye kuqhawulo mtshato ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ucinga.
Abatshatileyo abonwabileyo bayeke ingqumbo kwiingcambu zayo ngokunxibelelana ngokucacileyo kunye nokuzama ukusombulula ngokwenyani imiba njengoko bevela kubudlelwane. Akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo, kwaye ukungavisisani ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba nzima ngexesha lokudibana, kodwa izibini ezonwabileyo zenza umsebenzi omkhulu wokuvumela iingxabano zazo zingabi yimicimbi ehleli ngaphantsi komhlaba iminyaka. Bayikhathalela kwangoko nangoko ukuze ingabi yingxaki ephindaphindayo yeminyaka kunye neminyaka kunye neminyaka.
Susa ubudlelwane bakho nenzondo ngokusombulula umba okokuqala. Ukuxubusha ingxabano rhoqo emva kwexesha kuya kusenza buthathaka isiseko somtshato wakho.
MUSA: Qalisa okanye ugqibe usuku lwakho ngaphandle kokuncamisa
Ngamaxesha amnandi namaxesha amabi, ukuba nale nkqubo kugcina abantu abonwabileyo bonwabile. Yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuqala kunye nokuphelisa usuku lwakho, kodwa ikwayinto entle yokukhumbuza ngothando owabelana ngalo xa izinto zimile okanye zixinene.
Ukwazi ukuba ukwanga kulindile ngaphandle kokugcina ezo milo okanye ukungavisisani ngendlela efanelekileyo. Sisikhumbuzo esiqatha esithi, "Ndiyazi ukuba izinto zinokuba nzima ngoku, kodwa ndithembe ukuba ndisakuthanda."
Izibini ezingonwabanga zithatha imikhwa emincinci enje ngezi. Bavumela ubusuku obunye ukuba bahambe okanye bavumele iintsasa ezimbalwa zidlule ngaphandle kokubonisa uthando oluncinci kumaqabane abo, emva koko, ngaphambi kokuba wazi, intlantsi ababenayo ngomhla wabo womtshato baphelile.
Gcina uthando luphilile kwaye unike umfazi okanye indoda yakho iswekile xa uvuka nanjengoko usiya kulala. Zizinto ezincinci ezinje ezigcina uthando luphila.
Izibini ezonwabileyo azifezekanga
Izibini ezonwabileyo azinathamsanqa, zidlala umdlalo ngendlela efanelekileyo. Abangafezekanga, kodwa bayakwamkela ukungafezeki kwaye abanabhongo lokukusebenzela. Ukuba unqwenela ukuba sisibini esonwabileyo esifana nesi osaziyo, emva koko landela ezi ZENZIWA NEZO UNGAZENZI nanini na xa ufumana ithuba.
Qala ngokwanga uthando lwakho goodnight ngokuhlwanje.
Umnqweno omhle!