Umxholo
- 1. Mncome kwaye umxelele into oyithandayo ngaye
- 2. Yiyani kunye kwiihambo ezithandekayo
- 3. Sebenzisa amanqaku othando, izicatshulwa kunye nezinto azithandayo
- 4. Mnike indawo yokuphumla kwaye abe ngokwakhe
Wenza njani ulwalamano lwakho ngomlingo?
Ngaba kukho naziphi na izimvo ezilula, ezimnandi nezithandwayo ezingathandekiyo ezibandakanya ukutshisa umngxuma omkhulu epokothweni, ubukhulu, kunye noncedo ekudaleni ubomi obunothando?
Phambi kokungena kwiingcinga zothando ukukunceda ukuba uphucule ubudlelwane bakho kunye nokwenza uthando ebomini bakho bothando, masiziphose kuqala kwindlela amadoda nabafazi abajonga ngayo ukuthandana.
Amadoda ajonga ukuthandana ngelensi eyahlukileyo xa kuthelekiswa nabasetyhini.
Uluvo lwabasetyhini kwezothando kukutyala imali kunye nokuphuhlisa ubudlelwane ngokuba nencoko ende kunye nokuchitha ixesha kunye, kodwa umbono wamadoda wahluke kakhulu.
Amadoda athanda ukuphendula ngcono xa ephatha okanye ezibonela izinto.
Iimuvi kunye neencwadi ezimalunga nomtshato wokuthandana okanye iingcebiso zokufumana ezothando, okanye ziye zayila uluvo lokuba kuhlala kuyindoda ukwenza iinzame zokuthandana nomntu wasetyhini, ukumrhwebesha ngomtsalane wakhe nokwenza izinto eziza kumenza ancume aze awe kuye.
Kodwa inyani yile Amadoda ayathanda kwaye ayonwabele ukuthandana kanye njengabafazi.
Ngelixa zingakhuthazeki ncam kwizimbo zomfazi ezinje, kukho izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza ukumenza athandane.
Ukukhankanywa apha ngezantsi ziingcebiso ezimbalwa zendlela yokwenza ukuba umyeni wakho athandane.
Jonga le vidiyo kwiingcebiso zothando zomyeni nenkosikazi:
Ezi ziindlela ezintle zokuguqula iqabane lakho libe yindoda enothando ngakumbi kwaye ugcine umtshato wakho usempilweni kwaye uphumelele.
Izimvo zothando zokongeza uthando kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla
1. Mncome kwaye umxelele into oyithandayo ngaye
Awudingi zimpawu zomzimba ezijikeleze indlela yokumenza athandane ngakumbi.
Nabani na onokuthi athandane nenye yezi ngcebiso zothando.
Ukwazi ukuba ulunge njani ngamazwi kunokwenza ukuba izinto ziye phezulu kakhulu.
Sonke sifuna ukuthandwa, ukuxabiseka nokwazi ukuba sithetha umhlaba emntwini. Amadoda awahlukanga kwaye ayakonwabela ukunconywa kanye.
Kuya kufuneka ukhumbuze umyeni wakho ngazo zonke izinto ozithandayo ngaye kumenze azive exabisekile kwaye eqinisekisiwe.
Le inokuba yiyo nantoni na enje njengokumxelela ukuba umthanda kangakanani na ukuze akwazi ukuhlekisa ngayo nantoni na okanye uziva ukhuseleke kakhulu xa unaye kwaye ukuba unabantwana, ungamxelela nokuba wenza umsebenzi omkhulu njenge utata.
Kumbuzo odla ngokubuzwa, ungayenza njani indoda ukuba ibe yeyothando, yenza ukuncoma kube yinxalenye yesiqhelo semihla ngemihla.
Mxelele ukuba uyayithanda inkangeleko yakhe entsha ngeenwele zobuso okanye mhlawumbi nokuba isidlo akuphekileyo kwimpelaveki ephelileyo sesinye sezona zibalaseleyo owakha wanazo!
Inokuba yiyo nantoni na, xuba amagama kodwa nantoni na oyithethayo, yitsho ngokunyaniseka.
Ukubeka nje, ngendlela yokwenza ukuba umntu wakho athandane, qiniseka ukuba uyazi ukuba umkhathalele kwaye uyonwabile ukuba naye.
2. Yiyani kunye kwiihambo ezithandekayo
Ngaba ujonge izimvo zothando ngendoda okanye indlela yokuthandana nendoda?
Ke le yenye yeengcinga eziphambili zothando. Nqanaba lokuyila kubuhlobo bakho.
Ukwenza into entsha kunye nokuyila kwenza ubudlelwane bakho baziva butsha.
Ukuchitha ixesha kunye kunye nokonwabela inkampani yenye yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuvuselela ilangatye kubudlelwane bakho.
Ukuba kukho into umyeni wakho ebesoloko efuna ukuyizama njenge-skiing okanye ukuzama indawo yokutyela entsha edolophini, yicwangcise kwaye niyenze kunye.
Shiya abantwana ngasemva nomgcini womntwana kwaye ushiye zonke iintetho zasekhaya ngasemva xa usenza ukubaleka ebusuku okanye ukubaleka kwimpelaveki.
Yiya kwiipiknikhi, uhambo olude, ukuqhuba, ukuhamba intaba okanye ukukhempisha, zama into entsha ixesha ngalinye.
Kwimisitho ekhethekileyo enjengemihla yokuzalwa kunye nesikhumbuzo, cwangcisa kwangaphambili ixesha leeholide zokuya kwiindawo ezingaqhelekanga, kwindawo ethile yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokwenza ukuba umyeni wakho athandane ngakumbi okanye abeke umyeni wakho kwimo yothando.
3. Sebenzisa amanqaku othando, izicatshulwa kunye nezinto azithandayo
Kwindlela yothando, le yinto yegolide kuluhlu lweengcebiso zothando.
Le yenye yezinto zokuqala ezithi gqi engqondweni yakho xa ucinga ngendlela yokwenza ukuba umyeni wakho athandane.
Kumnandi kwaye kubi.
- Ungamthumelela imiyalezo ebabazekayo emsebenzini okanye utyhalele umyalezo wothando epokothweni yangaphakathi yebhatyi yakhe.
- Sondela kuye kwaye uhlebeze amanqaku amnandi xa uphandle
- Bhala into ehlekisayo okanye ekalwe nge-x kwi-napkin ngaphambi kokuba uyidlulisele kuye xa usiya kutya isidlo sangokuhlwa.
Zonke ezi zimvo zothando ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kubeka uncumo ebusweni bakhe. Ukongeza, yenza okungakumbi kwezinto owaziyo ukuba uyazithanda.
- Ukuba iqabane lakho liyakuthanda ukutya, liphekele esona sidlo silithandayo.
- Ukuba uyakuthanda ukuhamba, cwangcisa uhambo olumnandi.
- Nokuba uthanda ilokhwe ethile kuwe, yinxibe kwixesha elizayo xa niphuma.
Uya kuqonda ukuba unolwazelelelo kwaye utyhubele kuyo yonke le ngxaki ukuze umkholise.
Ndiyathemba ukuba, loo nto iyaphendula ukuba ungathandana njani nomyeni wakho kwaye ungaze ubeke uthando kwi-backburner ngenxa ye-humdrum yobomi.
4. Mnike indawo yokuphumla kwaye abe ngokwakhe
Ngamanye amaxesha, sonke sinqwenela ukuba kubekho umntu onokwenza eyethu indima yomsebenzi ukuze sihlale phantsi siphumle.
Asinakunceda kodwa simdumise umntu osincedayo ekwenzeni imisebenzi yasekhaya asixhasa kuyo nayiphi na into esiyenzayo.
Ke, nantsi enye yezona ngcebiso zimnandi zothando.
Nika umyeni wakho ixesha lokuphumla xa ebuya ekhaya emva kosuku olude esemsebenzini okanye uxinezeleke ngokwenene ngenxa yomsebenzi.
Mbuyisele irubs okanye uthambise kwaye wenze ezinye izinto ejikeleze indlu njengokukhupha inkunkuma aqhele ukuyenza.
Ngaphezu koko, Ixesha lamakhwenkwe libaluleke ngokulinganayo kumyeni wakho njengokuba ixesha lamantombazana libalulekile kuwe.
Mkhuthaze ukuba aphume nabahlobo bakhe baye kusela okanye aye kubukela iqela lakhe alithandayo lidlala ngelixa ujonga abantwana kunye nendlu ngelixa engekho.
Uyakuthanda ukuba uxhasa ilungelo lakhe lokubaleka okwethutyana ukuba ube nexesha elimnandi nabahlobo bakhe.
Ngezi zimvo zothando kuye, ungongeza ezothando ubuyele emtshatweni wakho, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu egcina ubudlelwane buqhubela phambili.
Ngokuxabisa umyeni wakho, unokumenza athandane naye.
Yenza enye into ebalulekileyo ukuba uzive uyathandwa ngolu lonwabo lwabelwana ngentla kunye nezimvo ezilula zothando, kwaye ulwalamano lwakho luya kuziva lutsha kwaye lulungile njengolutsha.