Umxholo
- 1. '' Unobuzaza kakhulu indlela '
- 2. '' Awazi nto ''
- 3. '' Kutheni ungafani nale ntombazana inxibe i-pink shrug? ''
- 4. '' Akwaba ubukrelekrele njengakuqala ''
- 5. '' Akufanele uthethe nabahlobo bakho rhoqo ''
- 6. '' Nokuba ukhetha mna okanye ... ''
- 7. '' Ungathini ukukhwaza uphendule? ''
Ubudlelwane kukungcakaza.
Kubudlelwane, ngekhe wazi ukuba uza kuphumelela ukubheja okanye hayi. Ukuwa eluthandweni kunokuba ngamava angummangaliso kunye nezibonelelo ezininzi kunye nokusilela.
Ukuba kubudlelwane akunakuze kube lubisi kunye neentyatyambo, ukunyaniseka. Ulwalamano lwakho lulindeleke ukuba lube nemilinganiselo emininzi. Abanye banokugqibelela ngelixa abanye benesiphene. Ubudlelwane bakho kulindeleke ukuba buhambe ngemiceli mngeni emininzi, bambi banzima kwaye abanye banzima nangakumbi.
Apho sikukhuthaza ukuba ube nemfesane eninzi kwiqabane lakho ukuze ulincede liziphucule, ukwacetyiswa ukuba ungazihoyi.
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezingafanele ukuxolelwa. Ukuba umntu wakho uthetha ezi zinto zisixhenxe kuwe, mshiye NGOKU!
1. '' Unobuzaza kakhulu indlela '
Kwilinge lokwenza uqonde umbono wakhe, akayikhathalele indlela oziva ngayo malunga nemeko ethile. Ukuba akenzi uvakalelo xa kufuneka njalo, ayinguye umntu olungileyo ukuba abe liqabane lomntu othandana nalo.
Ufanelwe ngokwenyani umntu ongaxabisi uvakalelo lwakho kuphela kodwa oyithandayo indlela onomdla ngayo kwizinto ezincinci.
2. '' Awazi nto ''
Ukuba yile nto uyivayo kwimpikiswano phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba indoda yakho ayinakho ukuguquguquka ngokwaneleyo ukuba ive uluvo lwabanye. Uvela kwisikolo esiqinileyo seengcinga, esimkhuthaza ukuba acinge, wazi ngcono.
Ukuba ukuxelela ukuba wazi ngaphezu kwakho, kuphela ukuze uvumelane naye kuyo yonke into, akanalo uvelwano kuwe entliziyweni yakhe. Kwaye ungumntu ongalunganga.
3. '' Kutheni ungafani nale ntombazana inxibe i-pink shrug? ''
Ungomnye kwisigidi, kwaye awudingi kungqina ukuba ungcono kunaye nabani na.
Wonke umntu ugqibelele ngendlela yakhe.
Kufuneka uzithembe nje ukuze uphumelele ilizwe. Ngokucacileyo ufuna ukhululeke kulusu lwakho. Kuko oku.
Ukuba indoda yakho iyakuthelekisa namanye amabhinqa, ilingana nokukuhlisa ixabiso. Umntu ohluphekileyo akalazi ixabiso lakho ukuba wenza uthelekiso olungamampunge.
4. '' Akwaba ubukrelekrele njengakuqala ''
Nenekazi, uyazi ngcono, awukho ukuze ungene ngaphakathi. Awukho ukuze ugcwalise ukungabikho komntu okwenziweyo. Ufanele ukuba unendawo eyodwa entliziyweni yakhe.
Ukuba uyakucela ukuba wenze njengentombi yakhe yangaphambili, ngokucacileyo ukuthoba isidima. Akukho mfazi unokufuna ukuphathwa ngolu hlobo. Ikwabonisa ukuba akakuthandi ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba usathandana nemikhwa ye exes yakhe, akakho kuwe.
5. '' Akufanele uthethe nabahlobo bakho rhoqo ''
Ukuba uzama ukubanciphisa abantu obaziyo, akaqinisekanga ngawe. Umfo akufuneki athintele intombi yakhe kwezi mfuno zingenangqondo. Usebenzisana nawe, akangowakho.
Kubudlelwane obuphilileyo nobonwabileyo, kuya kufuneka ukhululeke udibane nezihlobo zakho kunye nabahlobo bakho bakudala rhoqo njengoko ufuna. Umlingane wakho akagunyaziswanga ekuziphatheni ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngubani omele udibane naye, kwaye ngubani ongafanele uhlangane naye.
6. '' Nokuba ukhetha mna okanye ... ''
Akangomntu oqinisekileyo ukuba uyaxhuma umpu ngaphandle kwexesha. Kuyoyikeka ngakumbi xa ekucela ukuba umgcine okanye nantoni na / nabani na kwelinye icala.
Sika ekuleqeni-kubizwa ngokuba kukuphatheka kakubi ngokweemvakalelo.
Akazimisele malunga nobudlelwane ukuba wenza imeko eyoyikisayo apho ucelwa ukuba ukhethe phakathi kweqabane lakho kunye noluvo lwakho. Oko kuthetha ukuba ufuna ukuba akhethwe ngaphezulu kwezinye izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka.
Ayizukuwenza mahluko kuye ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuphulukana naye ngenxa yenye into kwelinye icala. Ukuba lelo nqanaba lokunyaniseka analo, myeke.
7. '' Ungathini ukukhwaza uphendule? ''
Ukuba ukubiza ngamagama ngelixa uphikisana kwaye uwuguqula ube ngumlo ombi, lixesha elininzi okhethe ukumvumela ukuba ahambe kube kanye. Kuya kufuneka ukhethe phakathi kuka '' naye '' kunye 'noxolo lwengqondo'.
Kuya kufuneka ukhathalele imithwalo malunga nempilo yakho yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo. Nokuba ulwalamano olunzulu, akufuneki ujonge impilo yakho ngokweemvakalelo.
Yithi hayi ukuba uxhatshazwe ngokweemvakalelo
Ukuba umntu wakho uthetha ezi zinto zisixhenxe kuwe, mshiye! Ungaze uvumele nabani na ukuba akuphathe ngendlela ongafanele ukuphathwa ngayo. Endaweni yokubandezeleka okungapheliyo, kububulumko ukuyikhupha ngaphambi kokuba izinto zihambe.