Umxholo
- 1. Bobabini kufuneka bakhethe ukuhonjiswa kwendlu
- 2. Lawulani imali kunye
- 3. Ukucoca yinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla
- 4. Ukwabelana ngendlu yangasese
- 5. Funda ukwabelana ngendawo
- 6. Ibhedi enkulu ibhedi engcono
- 7. Wonke umntu ufuna ixesha lokuba yedwa
- Yonke imihla iya kuzisa ukufunyanwa
- 9. Ningahlala nixhomekeke komnye nomnye
- 10. Inkangeleko enye iya kwanela
- 11. Ngoku “ndi” singo “thina.”
- 12. Ixabiso lomzamo
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ngunyaka obaluleke kakhulu kubomi besi sibini, emva kwako konke ukucwangcisa, lixesha lokonwabela ubomi kubini. Kodwa nokuba zide kangakanani izibini zihleli kunye, ezinye izinto ziya kufunyanwa kuphela kunyaka wokuqala womtshato.
Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kunyaka wokuqala womtshato kunye nezinto ozifundayo kunyaka wokuqala womtshato?
Nokuba esi sibini sitshatile iminyaka, imikhwa emininzi okanye iifashoni ziya kubonakala kuphela xa zihlala phantsi kophahla olunye. Isiqhelo sobomi bemihla ngemihla siya kwahluka Ukusuka kuhambo lweempelaveki lwesigaba sokuthandana, kwaye ezinye izithethe zinokuqwalaselwa kuphela xa beqala ukuhlala kunye.
Izibini ezininzi sele zihlala kunye ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokutshata, sele zisazana ngokwaneleyo. Kodwa uninzi ludlula kwixesha lokuziqhelanisa kunye, kwaye oko kufuna umonde, imbeko, kunye nengxoxo eninzi.
Banamava amaninzi xa becwangcisa inkcitho yomtshato okanye ukujongana neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuchaza indlela izimemo zomtshato ezinokubonakala ngayo.
Ke, ngaphandle kokuphatha isipha amaxesha ngamaxesha somfazi, okanye ukulungiselela esona sitya sithandwayo ngumyeni, bona Kuya kufuneka wenze uhlengahlengiso xa beqonda izinto ezithile kulo nyaka wokuqala womtshato.
Nazi izinto ezili-12 ozifundayo emva komtshato wakho ezinokukunceda ekuhlengahlengiseni ubomi bomtshato:
Jonga kwakhona:
1. Bobabini kufuneka bakhethe ukuhonjiswa kwendlu
Kangangokuba omnye wenu ebelungile ngokukhetha umhombiso oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka emtshatweni; oko akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uqondise ngokwakho uhombiso. Bobabini kufuneka babeke amandla abo emphefumlweni wendlu ukuze babenobuso.
2. Lawulani imali kunye
Ukuba bekunganyanzelekanga ukuba uphendule ngomvuzo wakho ngaphambili, Ngoku kufuneka ubeke phambili iindleko zamakhaya. Iindleko zomntu zibalulekile kodwa ziya kuhlala ngasemva. Awungekhe ukwazi ukuthenga ilokhwe yepati engeniswa elizweni ngalo lonke ixesha ufumana isimemo njengoko ubuqhele ukwenza.
3. Ukucoca yinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla
Emva kokuvula zonke izipho kunye nokulungiselela ikhaya elitsha kuza elona candelo lincinci: ukucoca indlu. Uzahlula njani imisebenzi?
Nokuba awuthandi ukuhlamba izitya okanye uyonyanya xa ucoca indlu yangasese, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuphatha indlu.
4. Ukwabelana ngendlu yangasese
Ukuba uqhele ukuthatha iiyure ukwenza i-makeup kwaye ulungise iinwele zakho, gcina engqondweni ukuba oku ayikokuvavanya eyona nto ilungileyo yomtshato phambi kwesipili, yumyeni wethu naye ufuna ixesha elaneleyo lokuhlamba.
5. Funda ukwabelana ngendawo
Umdlalo othi "Ndiyaziqhelanisa" uya kuhlala uhleli ekhaya nakubudlelwane. Uya kufunda ukunikezela kwezinye zeenkcaso zabanye kwaye, ekuhambeni kwexesha, uya kuthatha indawo kwaye wamkele izinto ezincinci ezingasoze zitshintshe.
Ukufunda ukwabelana ngendawo kubalulekile ekuguqukeni kubudlelwane kwaye uphile umtshato owonwabileyo.
6. Ibhedi enkulu ibhedi engcono
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ekuqaleni, konke kuyamangalisa xa uhlala ufuna ukulala kunye, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha nobabini nidinga indawo yokulala, Kwaye omnye wenu ufumanisa ukuba indawo yakho incinci.
7. Wonke umntu ufuna ixesha lokuba yedwa
Kutheni le nto izibini kufuneka zibe nexesha lomntu yedwa?
Ayisiyiyo kuphela kuba utshatile kwaye nihlala kwindawo enye apho kufuneka nenze yonke into kunye. Ukufunda ukuhlonipha indawo yomnye nomnye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ungalahleki kubungakanani bokuba ungubani.
Umzuzwana wedwa wokufunda incwadi okanye ukubukela uthotho olungalandelwanga yenye into, ukuxhonywa kunye nabahlobo, kubalulekile kwaye kufuneka kujongwe ngendlela ekhululekileyo nethembekileyo kuni nobabini.
Yonke imihla iya kuzisa ukufunyanwa
Ngenye imini ufumanisa ukuba umyeni wakho akasithandi esi sitya usithanda kangaka, okanye ufumanisa ukuba uyakrwempa isilevu xa enexhala! Ewe, yonke imihla iya kuba kukufumanisa, kwaye uya kubazi bonke ukomelela kwayo kunye nobuthathaka bayo. Ukuqwalaselwa, uneliso lakhe nakuwe!
9. Ningahlala nixhomekeke komnye nomnye
Kuwo omabini la maxesha mahle nawamabi, uya kufumanisa ukuba ukwangana kube kanye kuya kwanela ukuzola. Niyakuxhasana kwinto yonke, nifunde ukuhlala noloyiso kunye noloyiso lomnye nomnye, kwaye oko kuyakwenza ubudlelwane bomelele ngakumbi.
10. Inkangeleko enye iya kwanela
Usenokungawuqondi lo mzuzu akujongile edidekile xa useta ikeyiki yomtshato wesikwere, kodwa liza kufika ixesha apho ungasayi kuthetha nto kuba sele nisazana kakuhle akusayi kufuneka nithethe Okwangoku, ukujonga nje enye kuya kwanela.
11. Ngoku “ndi” singo “thina.”
Oku akuthethi ukuba iiprojekthi zobuqu kufuneka zilibaleke. Kodwa ukuze ubudlelwane busebenze, ngaphambi kokwenza isigqibo okanye ukucwangcisa into enokutshintsha ubomi babo, kufuneka bacinge ngo "thina".
Ukuphikisana ngokuvulekileyo kwiminqweno kunye nokumamela ekuthethwa yenye into kubalulekile ekomelezeni ubudlelwane.
12. Ixabiso lomzamo
Xa ujonga ngasemva, uyakubona ukuba ukhule kangakanani kunyaka wokuqala womtshato. Inzame yokuba nomhombiso womtshato bafuna kakhulu kwaye konke ukuzincama ukuthenga indlu bekufanelekile.
Nangona ilixesha lothando kwaye awuzukuhlala uqinisekile malunga nento onokuyilindela kunyaka wokuqala womtshato, khumbula nje ukuba lixesha lokufunda ngokupheleleyo lokwazi iinkcukacha ezincinci zomnye ukuze ubenze bonwabe nangakumbi.
Ke ngalo lonke ixesha usiva umculo wokungena komtshato, inkumbulo yolo lonwabo iya kukhunjulwa.
Nanini na xa ujonga iifoto zokumanga kokuqala kwesibini esitshatileyo okanye i-toast phantsi kwekhekhe lomtshato, uya kuqiniseka ukuba wenze njani ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, njengoko isitsho into yakudala, "luthando kuphela olwakhayo."