Ukutshata umncinci. Emva koko usilele. Ngaba loo nto ucinga ngokuchanekileyo? Ngokukodwa xa usongeza isikhonkwane esongezelelweyo ebhokisini. Ukutshata umncinci kumntu okwifayile ye- emkhosini. Emva koko usilele. Yiyo le khosi ithathiweyo apho uninzi lwemitshato yasemkhosini ijongene khona kodwa ayisoloko iyinyani. Imitshato yasemkhosini esencinci inokwenza okungaphezulu kokuphila nje, inokuchuma kwaye ime uvavanyo lwexesha njengayo nayiphi na eminye imitshato. Banokuphela bomelele kwaye basondele kuneminye imitshato. Nazi izinto onokungazazi malunga nomtshato omncinci womkhosi:
1.Nikhula kunye. Xa utshata umncinci emkhosini ukuba ufuna usebenze, unokhetho olunye kunye nokhetho olunye kuphela kwaye kunjalo khula, khula ngokukhawuleza. Inkqubo yokukhula inokuba neentlungu ezikhulayo, ngakumbi xa inyani yokuhanjiswa okuninzi kunye nokuhamba kuseti, kodwa into yomlingo kukuba uyasinda kubo ukhula kunye, ubumba iqhina elikhethekileyo elikusondeza ngakumbi. Bangaphi abanye abantu abatshatileyo abathi bakhule kunye?
2. Uyayazi into ethethwa ngabantu. Ukutshata ngokutshatileyo akukwenzi ukuba unganaki kwihlabathi liphela. Uyazi ukuba kukho abo bahlekisayo ngobunzulu bokuzinikela kwakho ngasemva kwakho kwaye bazimisele ngokuchasene nawe. Uyazi ukutshata abatsha kubonakala crazy, kuyinto crazy kancinane, kodwa ke nothando lwakho omnye komnye kwaye yenza ukuba uzimisele ngakumbi ukunamathela kuyo.
3. Yuyazi ukuba uza kutshintsha. Awunamava ... Kulungile, mhlawumbi awunangqondo kancinci; Kuya kufuneka ukuba ube ungazi nto kwaye unamehlo aziinkwenkwezi ukutshata nangaliphi na ixesha. Kodwa uyazi ukuba nobabini niyakutshintsha apha kwiminyaka. Abantu bayatshintsha ngalo lonke ixesha, ngakumbi xa bebancinci, kwaye ukutshata ulutsha akayeki le nkqubo, endaweni yoko ufunda nje ukutshintsha kunye.
4. Uyonwaba kakhulu. Iminyaka yakho yokuqala yamashumi amabini kufanele ukuba ibe yeyona minyaka imnandi kakhulu, eyiminyaka yobomi bakho. Ukutshata ngokusemncinci akuyeki oko. Usaphuma, usasela kancinci ngamanye amaxesha, uyazi nje ukuba uza kugoduka nabani ekupheleni kobusuku.
5. Kunganzima. Ngamanye amaxesha zonke izinto abazithethayo ngomtshato omncinci womkhosi ziyinyani. Kunganzima. Awuyazi into oyenzayo. Ngamanye amaxesha uziva ungenakwenzeka. Kodwa uyayikhupha kunye kwaye utyhalele kula maxesha kuba uyawathanda amaqabane akho KAKHULU kangangokuba wawatshata ngokuchasene nazo zonke iingxaki kwaye uzimisele ukubetha ezo ngxaki.
6. Ukho kuyo ukuze uphumelele. Ukutshata ulutsha emkhosini kuyaphambana, kodwa ke nothando lwakho kwiqabane lakho. Ubatshatile besebancinci kuba ufuna ukukhula kunye nabo, ufuna ukulwa nabo, kwaye ufuna yonke imihla yobomi bakho ukuba ubenabo. Usenokuba utshatile umncinci, kodwa ukuyo ixesha elide.
U-Ashley Frisch
UAshley uyintombazana yaseCalifornia, wazalelwa wakhulela eSan Diego, California. UngumGcini-mthetho emini kwaye ulandela ukuthanda kwakhe ukubhala ebusuku. Uchitha okungenani impelaveki enye ngenyanga evolontiya kwiHabitat yoLuntu, unobangela akholelwa kakhulu kuwo. Utshatile umyeni wakhe, osebenza emkhosini emva kokuthandana iminyaka esi-7 ngo-2014. kunye nokubuyisa okumnandi kakhulu kwegolide.