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Nokuba imitshato emikhulu ineempawu zazo ezimbi. Ndiyathandabuza ukuba bahlala bonwabile ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ke wenza ntoni xa ungonwabanga emtshatweni wakho? Uyapakisha uyemka?
Hayi okwangoku.
Nxibelelana
Ukuxoxa ngezinto neqabane lakho yeyona ndlela ilula yokusombulula nayiphi na ingxaki emtshatweni.
Ukuba awonwabanga ngenxa yokuba ungafumani kuphumla ngayo yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye nokurhola okungapheliyo, incoko emfutshane inokwenza ukuba izinto ziphindwe kabini.
Kodwa kwiingxaki ezinzima ngakumbi kunendlela nje yokulala, emva koko ukuncedana ukusombulula ngelixa uthetha ngayo yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokuhamba.
Ukuba abantu abonwabanga ngomtshato wabo, ayingoba bavukile kwaye bagqiba kwelokuba abonwabanga. Ngokwesiqhelo, xa umntu engonwabanga, kungenxa yokuba kukho into ebangelayo.
Thethani, fumana oonobangela abaphambili kwaye usombulule ingxaki kunye.
Lungisa izinto ngokwakho
Uninzi lwabantu luyakothusa, kodwa kunene kulula ukuba uzitshintshe ngokwakho kunokumbombozela, ukucenga, ukubongoza, ukukhalaza, ukurhabaxa, ukuya emfazweni, njl ukuzama ukutshintsha abanye. Ayicaphukisi kangako nayo.
Uyabona, nazo zonke izimvo ezihamba malunga nobuntu nenkululeko, mnye kuphela umntu onokumlawula ngokupheleleyo emhlabeni.
Loo mntu nguwe.
Akukho lula njengokuba kuvakala, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kulula kunokuba nehlabathi lijikeleza iminqweno yakho. Kunzima ukukuqonda oku kuba kulula kakhulu ukukhomba iminwe kunye nokusola abanye.
Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukusombulula ingxaki, khumbula, zonke ezo zinto zikhalazayo ziyinkcitha xesha namandla akho. Ekupheleni kosuku, lukhetho lomnye umntu ukulungisa izinto. Kodwa ukuba uyayilungisa ngokwakho, iyenziwe.
Funa uncedo
Kulungile, usonge imikhono, wabeka umdlalo wakho ebusweni, kwaye usebenze nzima. Akwanele ukusombulula iingxaki ezikwenza ungonwabi emtshatweni wakho.
Sukuba nexhala ngayo, kukho izinto wena neqabane lakho eningakwaziyo ukuzisombulula zodwa. Unokufumana iqela lesithathu elinenjongo njengomcebisi woMtshato ukunceda. Unokucela iingcebiso kubahlobo bakho kunye nosapho.
Abacebisi ngomtshato ziingcali ezinamava amakhulu kwezinye izibini ngendlela onokuthi uncede ngayo, kodwa abahlobo kunye nosapho ababizi mali kodwa banokuthatha icala ngaxa lithile. Ikwangumbono olungileyo ukufumana ingcebiso kubo bobabini.
Ukuba wena neqabane lakho nizimisele ukusebenza kunye ukwenza umtshato usebenze, izinto ziya kuzisebenzela ekugqibeleni.
Linda
Ke igiya ziyajika, nezinto ziyahamba, kodwa umtshato wakho awutshintshi ube ngcono. Yintoni enye ongayenza ukuze uphile ubomi obonwabisayo basekhaya obusoloko uphupha ngabo?
Kufuneka ube nomonde. Izinto azizukutshintsha ngobusuku. Logama kungekho mntu ucinga ngokuhamba, ke wenza kakuhle.
Ingxaki kuxa iqabane lakho lingenamdla wokulungisa izinto kwaye uphethe umthwalo wobudlelwane bonke. Yilapho izinto ziba nzima. Ukuba sele uthethile ngayo kwaye izinto zisafana, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho enye into ongayaziyo.
Iimeko ezinje apho kulapho unyamezelo lwakho lubaluleke khona, umzuzu wokunikezela, kuphelile kuwe njengesibini. Isenokungabi semthethweni okwangoku, kodwa ngumcimbi nje osesikweni ngelo xesha.
Umonde yinto elungileyo, ubuncinci ngelixa uhlala.
Gxila kubantwana
Ukuba ubudlelwane bakho neqabane lakho bujike baba muncu, kodwa akubonakali ngathi bayashenxa kungekudala, emva koko unokujonga ingqalelo kunye nothando kubantwana bakho.
Ukuba ngenye imini, uyazisola ngokutshata nalo mntu kunye nempazamo oyenzileyo, oko kuphakathi kwakho neqabane lakho. Ukuba nabantwana ayisoze ibe yimpazamo, kwaye ungaze uzisole ngokuba nabo. Ukuba bakhule benza ubugebenga obunzulu ngokuchasene noluntu, ke unetyala lokubakhulisa ngaloo ndlela.
Ngaphandle, unokuthulula uthando lwakho kunye nesikhokelo kubantwana bakho ukuze bakhule kwaye baphilise umhlaza endaweni yokuphakamisa umkhosi wobulali.
Abantwana ziintsikelelo kwaye ulonwabo abalunikayo ligqwesa kude lee kulo mhlaba. Abantu abaphumeleleyo abanabantwana banokungqina oku, kodwa akufuneki siphumelele ngokwethu ukukhulisa abantwana abakhulu.
Imfihlelo
Imfihlo ayikuko ngokubonakalisa okanye ukubathumela kwinkampu yokuqalisa, kodwa ukubakhokela ukuba baphumelele ngokwabo. Njengovuyo bobabini umzali nomntwana baziva xa abantwana bethatha amanyathelo abo okuqala. Yenze ibe yeyokuqala kwimpumelelo emininzi abaza kuyenza ebomini babo.
Nokuba awonwabanga ngomtshato wakho ngese, ungonwaba ngenxa yeziqhamo umtshato owawunika ubomi bakho.
Cwangcisa isigqibo
Ukuba awunabo abantwana, umonde uyaphela, kwaye udiniwe kuyo yonke imizamo yokwakha ubudlelwane kwakhona, lixesha lokudlula ibhola. Akusekho kufanelekile kuwe ukuba uqhubeke nelinge elinye lokugcina umtshato wabantu ababini.
Yazisa iqabane lakho ukuba kufuneka babumbe okanye uhambe.
Ingavakala ngathi iyazingca kwaye inekratshi, kodwa ukuba uchithe ixesha elide uthwala umthwalo ngokwakho kulungile.
Unobomi obunye kuphela bokuphila, kwaye akufanelekanga ukuba uphile ubomi benkxwaleko. Ukuba unabantwana ke ubomi bakho abuseyiyo eyakho wedwa, kodwa ukuba umanyano lwakho alunabo, ke ubetha nje ihashe elifileyo.
Ekugqibeleni, wenzani xa ungonwabanga emtshatweni wakho? Sebenza nzima.
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