Umxholo
- Umfanekiso we iconic wothando
- Ukubonisa ngonaphakade
- Ukufudukela eRoma
- Ukwenza amakhonkco ubuqu
- Ukutshintshiselana ngeringi yomtshato njengesiko lale mihla
- Olunye umsesane onomdla otshintshiselana ngezithethe
- Ngaba umnwe ubalulekile?
- Silufumene nini ukungcamla ukubetha?
- Uyinyusa njani i-dazzle
- Sukuwashiya ngaphandle amadoda
- Isiko liza kuqhubeka kwiinkulungwane ezizayo
Xa usuku lwakho lomtshato lungemva kwakho, kwaye iifoto zihleli ngothando kude, inye into yokomfuziselo yomanyano lwakho oluseleyo: ukutshintshiselana ngemisesane.
Usuku-ngemini-ngaphandle, imisesane owabelwene ngayo isebenza njengesikhumbuzo rhoqo sezibhambathiso zakho, uthando lwakho kunye nokuzibophelela kwakho.
Yintoni enomdla ngokutshintshiselana kwamaringi, kukuba le nto yokuzibandakanya kunye nomtshato sisithethe esisaxhamlayo, esineengcambu ezibuyela umva kumawaka eminyaka.
Umfanekiso we iconic wothando
Qiniseka engqondweni yakho umfanekiso weklasikhi wokutshintshiselana ngeringi yomtshato kusuku lomtshato.
Phantse ngokuqinisekileyo, ingqondo yakho iyakuhlala kwesi sibini, izandla zibambe kamnandi phakathi kwabo, betshintsha izifungo zabo, ngelixa benika amakhonkco. Lo mfanekiso ubalaseleyo wothando yile sonke siyayixabisa, sifuna ukuyikhumbula ngonaphakade, kwaye iya kubonakala eludongeni lwethu kwiminyaka ezayo.
Ngumfanekiso omnye ongabuniyo nexesha.
Amakhonkco asenxityiwe kwaye achukunyiswa yonke imihla. Kude kube ngumlingo ngakumbi ukuqonda ukuba eli siko libuyele umva ukuya kuma-Egypt amandulo!
Ukubonisa ngonaphakade
AmaYiputa amandulo ayakholelwa ukuba asebenzise amakhonkco njengenxalenye yomsitho womtshato kwakudala njengakuma-3000 BC!
Yenziwe ngengcongolo, i-hemp okanye ezinye izityalo, ezenziwe isangqa, mhlawumbi oku yayikukusetyenziswa kokuqala kweringi ejikelezayo ukufuzisela unaphakade womtshato?
Njengakwiinkcubeko ezininzi namhlanje, iringi ibekwe kumnwe wesine wesandla sasekhohlo. Oku kubangelwe kwinkolelo yokuba umthambo apha ugijimele ngqo entliziyweni.
Ngokucacileyo izityalo zokutyala azimanga kuvavanyo lwexesha. Zathathelwa indawo zezinye izinto ezinjengendlovu, isikhumba kunye nethambo.
Njengokuba kunjalo ngoku, izixhobo ezazisetyenziswa zazimela ubutyebi balowo umphileyo. Ngoku kunjalo, akukho ndlovu, kodwa ezona zibini ziqondayo zikhetha iplatinam, titanium kunye neyona dayimani intle.
Ukufudukela eRoma
AmaRoma nawo ayenesiko lomsesane.
Ngeli xesha, isiko elijikeleze ukutshintshiselana ngeringi yomtshato yayikukuba umyeni anike umsesane kuyise womtshakazi.
Ngokuchasene neemvakalelo zethu zale mihla, oku yayikukuthenga 'umtshakazi. Okwangoku, ngenkulungwane yesibini ye-BC, oomolokazana ngoku babenikwa amakhonkco egolide njengomfuziselo wentembeko, owawunokunxitywa xa uphumile.
Ekhaya, umfazi wayenxiba iringi yokuzibandakanya ecacileyo, iAnulus Pronubus, eyenziwe ngentsimbi. Nangona kunjalo uphawu lwalusembindini weli khonkco. Yayibonisa amandla kunye nokusisigxina.
Kwakhona, la makhonkco ayenxitywe kumnwe wesine wesandla sasekhohlo, ngenxa yoqhagamshelo lwentliziyo.
Ukwenza amakhonkco ubuqu
Kule minyaka idlulileyo bekukho imeko ephawulekayo ekutshintshisaneni ngeringi yomtshato kwizibini ezitshatileyo ukuba zizenzele iringi yazo.
Nokuba iyabandakanyeka kwinqanaba loyilo, kusetyenziswa ilitye elizuzwe njengelifa kwisihlobo, okanye ukukrola ibhendi, izibini zifuna amakhonkco azo okwahluka.
Okwangoku, le meko yokutshintshiselana ngeringi yomtshato eyahlukileyo iyavela endaweni yento entsha. Imisesane yomtshato ekroliweyo nayo!
Ukutshintshiselana ngeringi yomtshato njengesiko lale mihla
Ngexesha lamaXesha Aphakathi, amakhonkco ayeseyinxalenye yokomfuziselo yomsitho womtshato. Nangona kunjalo, ukunxulunyaniswa nobuhedeni, kwathatha ithutyana ngaphambi kokuba iCawa iqale ukufaka amakhonkco kwinkonzo.
Kwakungo-1549, ngencwadi ethi The Common Prayer esaqala ukuva ukuba “ngalo msesane ndakutshata” ubhaliwe. Okwangoku yinxalenye yeminyhadala yamaKristu yomtshato namhlanje, kuyamangalisa ukucinga la magama, kunye nomfuziselo ofanayo, wolula umva ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kwimbali!
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba simba nzulu kancinci emva koko izinto ziya zibanomdla ngakumbi. Ayisiyiyo kuphela iringi uphawu lokutshintshiselana ngezinto ezixabisekileyo, kulandela oku, umyeni wayeza kunika umtshakazi igolide nesilivere.
Oku kwakubonisa ukuba umtshato ubuya kuba sisivumelwano phakathi kweentsapho kunokuba umanyano lothando.
Okuhlekisayo nangakumbi, isifungo somtshato esidala saseJamani sasicace gca malunga nezinto eziyinyani.
Umyeni wayeza kuthi: “Ndikunika le ringi njengophawu lomtshato othenjisiweyo phakathi kwethu, ukuba utata wakho angakunika umtshato wama-1000 weeReichsthalers.” Ubuncinci yayinyanisekile!
Iyacetyiswa - Ikhosi ekwi-Intanethi yangaphambi komtshato
Olunye umsesane onomdla otshintshiselana ngezithethe
Kwinkcubeko yase-Mpuma ye-Asiya, amakhonkco okuqala yayihlala ikukuphazanyiswa. La makhonkco ayilelwe ukuba awe xa esuswe emnweni; uphawu olucacileyo lokuba umfazi wayikhupha iringi indoda yakhe ingekho!
Izangqa zePuzzle ziye zathandwa kwenye indawo nazo. Amakhonkco eGimmel ayethandwa ngexesha loKuvuselela. Amakhonkco e-Gimmel enziwe ngamakhonkco amabini adibeneyo, enye yomtshakazi kunye neyomyeni.
Emva koko baya kudibana emtshatweni ukuze umfazi anxibe emva koko, efuzisela ukuba babini babe banye.
Ukuthandwa kwamakhonkco eGimmel wolulelwe kuMbindi Mpuma kwaye akuqhelekanga ukuba izibini zikhethe into efanayo namhlanje (nangona umyeni eza kuhlala enxiba isiqingatha sakhe!).
Jonga kwakhona:
Ngaba umnwe ubalulekile?
Ama-Egypt amandulo kunye namaRoma kusenokwenzeka ukuba babenxibe amakhonkco omtshato kumnwe wesine wesandla sasekhohlo (umsesane womnwe) kodwa ayingomgangatho oqhelekileyo kwimbali nakwinkcubeko. AmaJuda ngokwesiko anxiba umsesane kubhontsi okanye kumnwe wesalathiso.
Amandulo amaBritane ayenxiba iringi kumnwe ophakathi, engakhathali ukuba sisiphi na isandla asisebenzisayo.
Kwezinye iinkcubeko, inxenye yalo msitho ibiya kubona iringi isuswa komnye umnwe okanye isandla isisiwa komnye.
Silufumene nini ukungcamla ukubetha?
Njengoko ubona, imisesane yomtshato neyokutshata yayihlala isenziwa kusetyenziswa ezona zinto zintle kunye nezezona zihlala ixesha elide, kwaye ngokuhambelana nobutyebi besibini. Ayothusi into yokuba isithethe samakhonkco amahle ngakumbi siye sanda ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Ngeminyaka yoo-1800, amakhonkco anikwa oomolokazana eMntla Melika nase-Yuropu aba nobubi obungaphaya. Igolide kunye nezinto zexabiso ezixabisekileyo ezivela kwihlabathi liphela zafunwa zaza zayilwa zayindandatho ezintsonkothileyo.
Ngexesha lama-Victorian kwakuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba iinyoka zibonakalise uyilo lwendandatho, kulandela isipho sikaPrince Albert sentsimbi yokubandakanya inyoka kuKumkanikazi uVictoria, kwakhona efanekisela unaphakade ngesenzo sokutshintshiselana ngeringi yomtshato.
Ukusukela ngoko ukuya phambili Sibonile ukuba ukutshintshiselana ngeringi yomtshato ngokukodwa kube lithuba lokubonisa.
Nokuba ikwi-solitaire yeklasikhi yeklasikhi, ukuseta kunye nokusika kunokwenza umsesane uhluke ngokupheleleyo.
Kungenxa yoko le nto abatshakazi nabakhwenyana ngoku bezifumana benokhetho oluqinisekileyo xa bethatha iqela elihle lokutshintshiselana ngeringi yomtshato.
Kufuneka ujonge nje iingxoxo malunga noyilo lweringi eyahlukeneyo kwiPricescope - iqonga ledayimani elizimeleyo kunye neforum yobucwebe, ukubona uchulumanco oluphenjelelwa kukuyilwa kweringi.
Uyinyusa njani i-dazzle
Kubafazi abatshakazi kunye nabayeni namhlanje, ukutshintshiselana ngeringi yomtshato kuseyinto engumfuziselo yomtshato.
Imisesane isaqhubeka ukufunxa ingqalelo yethu, ixesha kunye nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali ngexesha lokulungiselela umtshato.
Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba izibini namhlanje zinakho, ngophando oluncinci malunga nezinto ezinje ngokusikwa kwedayimane, zifumane iigugu ezibengezelayo nezikhazimlayo, kuseto olwahlukileyo olumele ubuntu babo nolwalamano.
Banokufumana iringi yokubonisa yangoku ebonisa umda ongunaphakade kunye nothando.
Sukuwashiya ngaphandle amadoda
Kuyo yonke imbali, amakhonkco ayenxitywa ngoomolokazana nabafazi. Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha leMfazwe yesibini (II) yeHlabathi, imisesane yomtshato yathandwa emadodeni nawo.
Ukutshintshiselana ngeringi yomtshato kufanekisela ukuzibophelela kunye nokukhumbula amajoni asebenza emfazweni. Isiko lahlala.
Namhlanje, amadoda nabafazi bobabini babona ukubandakanyeka kunye nemisesane yomtshato njengophawu lothando, ukuzibophelela kunye nokunyaniseka, endaweni yobunini.
Izibini ngoku zikhetha amakhonkco amele ubutyebi bazo. Nangona kunjalo, bakhetha amakhonkco amele ubudlelwane babo kunye nobuntu babo.
Umtshato kunye nokubandakanya amakhonkco ngoku kuya kuyahluka ngakumbi.
Isiko liza kuqhubeka kwiinkulungwane ezizayo
Ngenxa yokuba ubude beesimboli zemisesane yomtshato, silindele ukuba eli siko liza kuqhubeka kangangeenkulungwane ezizayo.
Ngeedayimani, isinyithi esixabisekileyo kunye noyilo olugqibeleleyo, siyazibuza ukuba ifashoni yomsesane womtshato iza kusisa phi kwixesha elizayo.