Umxholo
- Iyacetyiswa- Gcina iKhosi yam yoMtshato
- Kungaba kubi, ke yanelisekile
- Wena okanye iqabane lakho utshintshe amanqanaba
- Utshatele imali
Ukuqala kwam ukuva lo mbuzo njengoGqirha wezifo zengqondo, ndafuna ukuphendula ngokungqalileyo, “ngekhe.” Kodwa njengokuba ixesha lihamba, ndiye ndabona ukuba andilunganga.
Kunokwenzeka ukuba wonwabe emtshatweni ongenaluthando. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umtshato umalunga nosapho hayi iqabane lakho kuphela. Ulonwabo lomntu alubophelelwanga kumntu omnye, aluzange lube njalo, kwaye alunjalo.
Ukuba kukho umntu omnye emhlabeni onoxanduva lokonwaba kwakho, nguwe.
Ke umntu angonwaba njani kumtshato ongenaluthando? Ukuba kunokwenzeka. Sele ndiwuphendulile umbuzo, njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili, konke kuxhomekeke kuwe.
Iyacetyiswa- Gcina iKhosi yam yoMtshato
Kungaba kubi, ke yanelisekile
Inokothusa abacinga banamhlanje abanenkqubela phambili, kodwa kusekho umtshato ohleliweyo kweli xesha langoku. Ikho nakwilizwe lokuqala.
Yaneliseka nje kwaye wonwabe yile nto unayo.
Iqabane lakho lisenokungabi nguBrad Pitt okanye uAngelina Jolie, kodwa kunokuba kubi ngakumbi. Ndiyathetha ukuba awunguye uBrad okanye u-Angelina nokuba, kuxhomekeke kukhetho lwakho ngokwesondo kunye nokukhetha kwakho. Sukuziphatha ngokwesini, amadoda nawo afunde le webhusayithi.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukucinga ukuba ufanele uBradley Cooper okanye uLady Gaga, kufuneka uqale ube nguBradley Cooper okanye uLady Gaga naye. Abantu bahlala bebhangqiwe kunye nomntu okwinqanaba labo, ukuba awunatalente umntu ongenazo izinto ezihlangulayo, ugqibela ngokuba nomntu ongaphantsi okanye ongaphantsi.
Amabali e-Bossy CEO kunye neentsomi ziyiyo kanye, imisebenzi yeentsomi.
Ungathini ukuba awuphumi kusapho olukholelwa kwimitshato ehleliweyo kwaye watshata umntu ngokuzithandela kwakho, kodwa iqabane lakho lajika laba yinto nje epheleleyo.
Ukuba akukho mntu ukhombe umpu entlokweni yakho ukuba utshate naloo mntu woyikekayo, kwaye awuzange utshate emva kokusela ubusuku eVegas, oko kuthetha ukuba awuzange umfumane umntu ukuba ungubani kanye kanye, oko kuthetha ukuba ingxaki nguwe.
Nokuba uqhawula umtshato naloo mntu, ungaphelela komnye umntu owoyikekayo kuba kuya kusebenza okufanayo. Ngoba? Kuba usenguwe nangoku.
Ke zitshintshe kuqala, Kunzima ukucacisa kuba zininzi izinto ezichaphazelekayo. Ubukhulu becala malunga nokhetho lwakho lobuqu.
Nje ukuba uphakame, uya kutsala amaqabane angcono.
Wena okanye iqabane lakho utshintshe amanqanaba
Bathi ukuchasana kutsala, kuyinyani oko, kodwa abahlali eluthandweni ixesha elide.
Zizi-pheromones zethu kuphela ezitsala umntu okhethekileyo kwaye wahlukile esixelela ukuba umntu liqabane elilungileyo. Iipheromones azinabunkunkqele ngokwaneleyo ukuba zinokuqonda ulwalamano lwamandla abantu. Yonke le nto ithi, uya kuba nabantwana abasempilweni ukuba unabo nalo mntu.
Kukwayimincili kunye nemincili yento eyahlukileyo.
Kodwa emva kokuba neentlobano zesini ezininzi, ubudlelwane obude malunga nobuntu kunye nekhemistri. Ukuba iqabane lakho alinangcamlo efanayo yobukrelekrele kunye neemvakalelo ezifanayo nezakho, izinto ziya kuba mbi ngokukhawuleza.
Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo bafumana icandelo elibi ngexesha lesigaba sabo sokuthandana, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba ungomnye wezidenge ezigqibeleleyo ezichazwe apha ngasentla, ubudlelwane obuninzi buphela apho.
Kodwa kuthekani ukuba utshatile umntu, emva koko kukho into etshintshileyo. Nokuba wena okanye iqabane litshintshile. Umntu othile wafumana umsebenzi ongcono kwaye waqalisa ukunyukela emhlabeni, okanye umntu waba livila leecher elonqenayo kwaye wayexhomekeke kwelinye iqabane kuyo yonke into.
Emva kwexesha elithile, awukho kwinqanaba elifanayo kwakhona. Ke umntu angonwaba njani kumtshato ongenaluthando onje?
Ukuba nobabini nihleli kamnandi ngale meko kwaye niyabathanda abantwana benu uthando lwenu luye lwaphela nje, kwaye kufuneka niyinonge. Awukho kumtshato ongenaluthando, usekhona, awusayiqapheli.
Kodwa ukuba omnye okanye nobabini niyacaphukisana kwaye sele nikhangela amanye amaqabane, zama ukubonisana nomcebisi womtshato, kunokwenzeka ukuba njengesibini nisakwazi ukuwoyisa lo mqobo.
Ukuba wena neqabane lakho niyabathanda abantwana benu, ninokuzincama ngenxa yabo. Ke ukuba uzifumanisa ubuza, "Ndingonwaba njani kumtshato ongenaluthando?", Khumbula ukuba ungonwaba ukuba unokuvuselela uthando lwakho okanye unike ubomi bakho kubantwana bakho.
Utshatele imali
Ke ulichwane elishushu elishushu eligcine ngokutshata nomntu omdala osisityebi kuba ukholelwa ukuba angakukhokelela kubomi obungcono.
Kuyavela ukuba ukuba nemadlana ethe kratya ayiyonto imangalisayo njengoko ubucinga. Iqabane lakho likuphatha ngakumbi njengelifa okanye isilwanyana sasekhaya, kuneqabane lakho.
Andiqinisekanga ngento oyilindeleyo. Kodwa ukuba utshatela imali, ngokuqinisekileyo awuzukuthanda omnye umntu. Kodwa ukuba ucinga uyayenza, ayingomtshato ongenaluthando.
Ke masicinge ukuba awuyenzi loo nto, ngapha koko, sele sisihloko esahlukileyo. Ukuba ufuna indoda oyithandayo ikuthande emva, kuyakufuneka ukuba ufunde elinye inqaku elinje.
Ke masiyenze ngqo le, Ufuna ikhekhe lakho kwaye uyitye nayo.
Hayi, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungaqala ngokufunda ngakumbi ngeqabane lakho. Zama ukufunda into ethandwa liqabane lakho kwaye uzame. Ngubani owaziyo? Xa useRoma .. olo hlobo lwento.
Ubudlelwane obusekwe kwisini kunye nemali bunokujika bube luthando. Logama nje nobabini niyathandana, inokugqibela ikhule ibe yinto engaphezulu.
Awunakho ukunyanzela iqabane lakho ukuba likuthande, kodwa ukuba ubahlamba ngobubele, umonde kunye nenkxaso. Banokuyibuyisa ngobubele, kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha unokuthandana.
Ke ukuba uzifumanisa ubuza, "Ndingonwaba njani kumtshato ongenaluthando?"
Impendulo ilula, thandanani. Nokuba uvuselele uthando owawunalo njengesibini esitshatileyo okanye wenze uhlobo olwahlukileyo lothando nomntu ofanayo owatshatileyo.
Ke ukuba uzifumanisa ubuza, "Ndingonwaba njani kumtshato ongenaluthando?" Impendulo nguewe kuba ulonwabo luhlobo lwengqondo. Unokonwaba kwaye waneliswe ngaphandle kothando. Kodwa olona khetho lulungileyo kukuthandana, oko kuhlala kunokwenzeka ngekhemistri elungileyo.