Umxholo
- 1. Umkhenkce umphezulu wekhekhe
- 2. Ukuphazamisa abo batshatayo
- 3. Ukuhambisa umolokazana embundwini
- 4. Ukutshabalalisa ilokhwe
- 5. Ukungamboni umtshakazi phambi komtshato
- 6. Into endala, into entsha, into ebolekiweyo, into eblue
- 7. Umtshakazi olingana nomtshakazi
- 8. Ukunxiba ezimhlophe
- 9. Ixesha lomtshato
- 10. Amakhonkco edayimane
Zonke iinkcubeko zibeka ixabiso eliphezulu kwimitshato. Yimanyano yemveli yabantu ababini kwaye inokuba nefuthe elikhulu kwintlalo. Akumangalisi ke ukuba amasiko amaninzi angaqhelekanga avele emitshatweni.Siza kujonga ezimbalwa kuzo, kwaye sikunike ukuqonda kwezi zithethe zomtshato zingaqhelekanga.
1. Umkhenkce umphezulu wekhekhe
Esi siko, njengabanye abaninzi, sineengcambu zepragmatism. Umbono wokumisa umphezulu wekhekhe ekuqaleni wawuza kubakho ukubhaptizwa komntwana ekugqibeleni. Ngale ndlela, akukho mfuneko yokuba uchithe imali eyongezelelweyo kwenye ikhekhe yomnyhadala.
2. Ukuphazamisa abo batshatayo
Le nkcubeko ingaqhelekanga ineengcambu zayo kumaxesha aphakathi. Ijolise kwimbono yokuphazamisa uxolo lwabo batshatayo ngobusuku bomtshato. Ingcinga e-cheeky, kwaye enye ngelishwa inqabile ukwenziwa kwezi ntsuku.
Iyacetyiswa Ikhosi yangaphambi komtshato ekhompyutheni
3. Ukuhambisa umolokazana embundwini
Eli siko lisuka eNtshona Yurophu. Umbono kukuba xa uthwala umtshakazi wakho ungene embundwini, uya kugxotha nayiphi na imimoya emdaka. Ingcinga entle, kwaye ayothusi into yokuba isenziwa nanamhlanje.
4. Ukutshabalalisa ilokhwe
Ngelixa kunokubonakala kungaqhelekanga ukuphazamisa into obuyibhatalele imali eninzi, kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwezi ntsuku ukuba umtshakazi agqibe ngokutshabalalisa ilokhwe yakhe. Xa yenziwe ngendlela eyiyo inokwenza imifanekiso emnandi ngokwenene. Esi sisithethe sanamhlanje, ngaphandle kweengcambu ezithile naphi na.
5. Ukungamboni umtshakazi phambi komtshato
Le iseyinkolelo ethandwayo nanamhlanje. Kucingelwa ukuba oku kwavela ngeentsuku zokucwangciswa kwemitshato xa umyeni wayengenalo uluvo lokwenyani lomntu wayetshata naye. Ukuba umbonile umtshakazi, unokuthatha ukungathandi kuye aze awunqamle umtshato.
6. Into endala, into entsha, into ebolekiweyo, into eblue
Imvano-siphelo iyazithetha. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba le ngoma yarhola indlela elungileyo ebuyela e-UK, kwaye iseyinto ethandwayo. Izipho zesibini esitshatileyo ngokwendalo ziyimbono efanelekileyo kwibhodi yonke.
7. Umtshakazi olingana nomtshakazi
Esi siko sibuyele umva siye eRoma yakudala. Kwakulisiko ngelo xesha ukuba neendwendwe ezilishumi emtshatweni ezenzelwe ukubonakala zifana nesi sibini. Ngale ndlela, bekucingelwa ukuba nayiphi na imimoya emibi iyakudideka, kwaye ingazi ukuba ihlaselwe ngubani.
8. Ukunxiba ezimhlophe
Le fad yayiqalwa nguKumkanikazi uVictoria. Wakhetha ukunxiba ezimhlophe emtshatweni wakhe, kwaye isithethe sanamathela. Okoko kuye kwaba lukhetho oluthandwayo kunxitywa ngumtshakazi.
9. Ixesha lomtshato
Kuyindalo ukuba amanye amaxesha onyaka alunge ngakumbi kumtshato owonwabileyo kunabanye. Ehlabathini lonke, ixesha elithandwayo liyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwimozulu kunye nolunye uxanduva. Nangona kunjalo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba kukhethwe kwiindawo ezininzi.
10. Amakhonkco edayimane
Ezi ibe zezomsesane wokukhetha ixesha elithile, kwaye ayothusi loo nto. Babelukhetho lobungangamsha baseYurophu ngaphezulu kwekhulu leminyaka eyadlulayo, kwaye bahlala bethandwa namhlanje.
Kwaye unayo. Amasiko alishumi omtshato amnandi aphilayo kwaye namhlanje. Zeziphi ozo kuzilandela?
U-Eva Henderson
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