Umxholo
- Yintoni i-somatic narcissist?
- 1. Imalunga nokubonakala
- 2. Ukunqwenela ukwamkelwa
- 3. Ubudlelwane bezesondo
- 4. Amampunge
- 5. Ubukho bakho
- 6. Ukuphatha kakubi
Kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukuyamkela, kodwa kuyinyani ukuba kukho i-narcissists phakathi kwethu. Usenokungabazi okanye usilele ukubona imikhwa yabo, kodwa basenokuba phakathi kwabahlobo bakho abasenyongweni, okanye usapho okanye omnye woogxa bakho.
Kukho iindidi ngeendidi zazo, enye edlala ngengqondo ibizwa ngokuba yi-cerebral narcissist, kwaye lowo ukufunayo ngobuhle babo bomzimba babizwa ngokuba yi-somatic narcissist.
Masiqonde ngokweenkcukacha malunga nale yokugqibela kwaye sibone imikhwa yabo, kwaye sifunde ukugcina ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo bantu.
Yintoni i-somatic narcissist?
I-Somatic narcissist, ngegama elicacileyo, ngoyena mntu uthe phithi ngumzimba wabo. Bakholelwa ukuba bajongeka, banomtsalane kwaye benza abanye benze nantoni na besebenzisa umtsalane wabo.
Abasoze baphoswe lithuba lokuqhayisa ngemizimba yabo kwaye bazive benekratshi xa umntu ezixabisa ngokwasemzimbeni. Batyekele kakhulu kwinkangeleko yabo engayi kuba neentloni ekufumaneni uqhaqho lweplastiki ukuze bajongeke ngakumbi, bangabinasiphako, kwaye banomtsalane.
Aba bantu baya kutyiwa ngokungqongqo, benze umthambo onzima kwaye benze nantoni na ukugcina imizimba yabo. Kubo, umzimba wabo sisixhobo sabo sokufumana ingqalelo yabantu kwaye ubenze benze nantoni na abayifunayo.
Bahlala bethetha kakhulu malunga nesibheno sabo sesondo kunye nomzimba kwaye bathathe uxabiso kwabanye njengesimemo sokulala ngesondo. Bayafikelela kuloo nto, kodwa basebenzise abanye njengesixhobo ukufezekisa ulwaneliseko.
Abakhathazeki kancinci malunga neemvakalelo zabanye.
Namhlanje, xa amajelo eendaba ezentlalo sele eyinxalenye yobomi bethu, siza kubona uninzi lwamadoda nabasetyhini be-somatic narcissist bekhanyisa ngokwabo kwi-Instagram kwaye bonwabele ezo zinto.
Bafumana uluvo lwempumelelo ngokwenza njalo.
Iimpawu zeSomatic narcissist
1. Imalunga nokubonakala
Olunye lweempawu eziphambili ze-somatic narcissist kukunika ukubaluleka kwento ebonakalayo. Aba bantu bathe phithi yinkangeleko yabo kangangokuba bafuna ukuba neyona mpahla intle, batye into elungileyo, bajongeke kakhulu, kwaye bafune ulusu olungenasiphako.
Bayadana ukuba kukho enye yezi zinto ezihamba gwenxa. Ziyimpilo engaqhelekanga, kwaye hayi ngendlela elungileyo. Abayi kuqonda ukuba umntu uncoma ukubonakala kwabanye phambi kwabo.
Ungabafumana ikakhulu ebaleni okanye kwindawo yokuzivocavoca okanye utye okona kutya kunempilo.
2. Ukunqwenela ukwamkelwa
I-Somarc narcissist ijonge ukuvunywa.
Bafuna abantu ukubaxabisa kwaye babancome ngenxa yomzimba wabo. Abakwazi ukumelana nokugxekwa. Baye bakhathazeka kakhulu ngokwenza okusemandleni abo ebhedini.
Xa usebudlelwaneni nomntu ofuna ukunxiba kakuhle kwaye uya kucela imvume yakho kwinkangeleko yabo ngalo lonke ixesha, okanye unokufuna ingxelo yakho ngalo lonke ixesha usabelana ngesondo, thatha oku njengophawu.
Ulwalamano kunye ne-somatic narcissist.
3. Ubudlelwane bezesondo
Xa usebudlelwaneni nomntu obhinqileyo ongumntu okanye indoda, uya kuqaphela ukuba kubo isini konke malunga nokusebenza hayi ukoneliseka ngokweemvakalelo.
Kubo, isini asizukuba malunga nabantu ababini abahlanganayo ukubonisa uthando omnye komnye. Iya kuba yeyabo, yokuma kulindelo lwabo lonke ixesha besabelana ngesondo. Ngabo, uthando 'lokwenza uthando' alukho kwaye bayakhathala ngendlela abaqhube ngayo.
Bahlala besebenzisa omnye umntu njengesixhobo ukufumana ukoneliseka.
4. Amampunge
Sonke sidibene nomntu okanye omnye oqhuba eyona moto ixabisa kakhulu, batye kwindawo yokutyela ebalaseleyo, banxibe kakuhle kakhulu, kwaye bahlala kwenye yezona ndawo zibalaseleyo.
Nangona kunjalo, abahlula kwabanye kukuba bafuna ukwamkelwa ngabanye kwindlela yabo yokuphila.
Abanye basenokungabonakalisi maxesha onke, kodwa umntu othanda into ethile narcissist uthanda ukubonisa indlela aphila ngayo kwaye waziva enekratshi xa abantu beyiqonda loo nto. Bayakuthanda ukwenza umfanekiso wabo njengabantu 'abagqibeleleyo' okanye 'abanqwenelekayo'.
Xa ujongene nenye yazo, qiniseka ukuba awuyichasanga indlela abaphila ngayo njengoko uza kubenzakalisa kakhulu.
5. Ubukho bakho
Unokuziva wonwabile kwaye wanelisekile ukuba kubudlelwane kunye ne-somatic narcissist kwaye unokukholelwa ukuba bayathandana nawe ngokulinganayo. Nangona kunjalo, isenokungabi yinyani ngokupheleleyo.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, indoda okanye ibhinqa le-somatic narcissist kunye nolwalamano aluhambi kakuhle. Kubo, amaqabane amaninzi akhona kuphela ukulungiselela iimfuno zawo zeemvakalelo. Bakhathalela kuphela iimfuno zabo zeemvakalelo.
Baza kufikelela kuwe nanini na xa bafuna ukuvunywa okanye ukufuna ukulala nawe. Ngaphandle koko, awubikho kwaphela.
6. Ukuphatha kakubi
Abanakukufumana konelisa xa omnye umntu emhle okanye emhle kunabo. Ke, i-somatic narcissist ayizukucinga kabini ukukuthuka okanye ukukubeka phantsi. Kubo, kuya kufuneka ube ngaphantsi kwazo.
Kuya kufuneka babe zezona zilungileyo kwigumbi, nokuba kunjani. Ke, ukuba usebudlelwaneni ne-somatic narcissist, lungela ukuva amagama athukayo kunye nokugxeka rhoqo kwinkangeleko yakho.
Bakhohlakele kwaye konke abakukhathaleleyo sisikhundla sabo eluntwini.