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- 8 Iimpawu zomfazi wakho akasakuthandi
- 1. Ngaba uziva ngathi yonke into isenokuthula kakhulu mva nje?
- 2. Unezicwangciso zakhe
- 3. Akasathethi la magama anegama ezintathu abaluleke kakhulu
- 4. Imithetho emitsha yabucala iya kuvela
- 5. Ukujolisa kakhulu kwinkangeleko yakhe
- 6. Uziva ungafunwa
- 7. Ingathi iyakucaphukisa
- 8. Uyamqaphela ukuba uxakeke ngokwenene ngophando kunye namaphepha?
- Xa efuna ukuqhawula umtshato
- Ngaba ikhona into onokuyenza ngayo?
Kancinci, uqala ukuziva ukuba umfazi wakho uya kude, uyabanda nkqu.
Udidekile ukuba kwenzeke ntoni okanye ukuba ubona enye indoda okanye uthandana nothando. Ayingobafazi kuphela abafumana olu “thando” ukuba kukho into engalunganga.
Amadoda angabona kwaye azive ngendlela efanayo.
Ungathini xa uqala ukuziva ukuba kukho into engalunganga? Ungathini ukuba iimpawu zomfazi wakho zifuna ukushiya ungasayi kuhoywa? Wenza ntoni ngayo?
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Izinto zokwenza xa umfazi wakho ethatha isigqibo sokushiya umtshato wakho
8 Iimpawu zomfazi wakho akasakuthandi
Iimvakalelo zinzima ukuzifihla, yiyo loo nto xa uqala ukuziva iimpawu zokuba ufuna ukuqhekeza umtshato wakho, umntu akanakukunceda kodwa abe buhlungu.
Uqala ukubuza izibhambathiso zakho, izithembiso zakho, uthando lwakho, kunye nesiqu sakho.
Ngaphambi kokuba sicinge ngendlela onokujongana ngayo nenkosikazi yakho kunye nendlela onokutshintsha ngayo ingqondo nentliziyo yakhe, kulungile ukuba siyazazi iimpawu ezahlukileyo umfazi wakho afuna ukukushiya ngazo..
Eminye imiqondiso inokungangqalanga kwaye ezinye zinokucaca kakhulu. Ezinye zinokufaka isicelo kwityala lakho kwaye ezinye zingenakho, kodwa xa zizonke, ezi isezimpawu ezingafanelekanga ukuhoywa.
1. Ngaba uziva ngathi yonke into isenokuthula kakhulu mva nje?
Akusekho mpikiswano, akusayi kubakho mfazi ukhathazekileyo ulinde wena xa ufika ekhaya emva kwexesha, akusayi kubakho “drama” kunye “nokukrokra”.
Uvumela nje ukuba ube. Ngelixa oku kunokubonakala ngathi lutshintsho kwindlela aziphethe ngayo, isenokuthetha ukuba ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato kwaye wonele.
Olu phawu lunokwanela ukuba indoda icinge ukuba umfazi wayo unakhohlisa okanye ucinga ngokumshiya. Kuxa ubomi bakho bobulili buqala ukuncanca kwaye butyhafise.
Kukulala nje okucacileyo, akukho thando, kwaye akukho buhlobo.
Amava angenanto sele eluphawu uqobo.
2. Unezicwangciso zakhe
Phambi kokuba inkosikazi yakho ihlale ibuza ukuba uphi kwaye kutheni ungamhambisi kwizicwangciso zakho, kodwa ngoku, unezicwangciso zakhe nabahlobo abatsha, usapho, kunye nabo asebenza nabo.
Jonga indlela acaphuka ngayo ukuba uza kumbuza malunga nayo.
Isilumkiso esibomvu apha, sesinye sezizathu ezicacileyo zokukuxelela ukuba akasenamdla kwinkampani yakho.
3. Akasathethi la magama anegama ezintathu abaluleke kakhulu
Kuyacaca ukuba le yenye yeempawu umfazi wakho akasakuthandi.
Uninzi lwabasetyhini banomdla kakhulu ngothando lwabo kwaye baya kuhlala bethetha ngalo. Utshintsho ngequbuliso kule ndlela yokuziphatha inokuba sele ibonisa into eyothusayo kubudlelwane bakho.
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Umfazi Wam Ufuna Uqhawulo-mtshato: Nantsi Indlela Yokumzuza
4. Imithetho emitsha yabucala iya kuvela
Iimpawu umfazi wakho afuna ukushiya uya kubandakanya iintlanganiso ezifihliweyo, imigaqo yabucala, iifowuni ezitshixwayo kunye neelaptops.
Ngelixa oku kunokuvakala ngathi ngowasetyhini onomdla, kungathetha ukuba yenye yeempawu umlingane wakho acwangcisa ukuqhawula umtshato. Unokudibana ngokufihlakeleyo negqwetha kwaye uceba indlela yoqhawula umtshato kungekudala.
5. Ukujolisa kakhulu kwinkangeleko yakhe
Kuhlala kumnandi ukubona ukuba umfazi wakho ugxile kuye okanye kuloo mfanekiso uqhamayo ngesiquphe. Uthenga iimpahla ezintsha nezinomtsalane, iziqholo, kwaye ade atyelele i-spa rhoqo. Ngelixa oku kunokuvakala kuyinto entle ingakumbi ukuba iya kubuyisa umtsalane kuye, ke ziindaba ezimnandi ezo.
Nangona kunjalo, ikwangumqondiso wokuba xa umfazi wakho efuna uqhawulo-mtshato kwaye elungiselela ubomi obutsha ngaphandle kwakho.
6. Uziva ungafunwa
Iimpawu ezilumkisayo ukuba umfazi wakho ufuna ukukushiya uya kubandakanya uvakalelo ngokubanzi lokungafunwa.
Ufumana nje olovakalelo, usenokungakwazi ukuyicacisa ekuqaleni kodwa uyazi. Wena mfazi awusabuzi malunga nokuba belunjani usuku lwakho okanye uziva kakuhle.
Akasenandaba nemihla yakho ebalulekileyo nayo yonke into awayeqhele ukuyenza- akasasebenzi.
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Ungamfumana njani uMfazi wakho emva kokuba ekushiye
7. Ingathi iyakucaphukisa
Esinye isizathu esicacileyo kuxa umfazi wakho ehlala ekucaphukisile. Yonke into oyenzayo nayo yonke into ongayenziyo ngumba.
Ubonakala ecatshukiswa kukubona nje. Ngokucacileyo, kukho into eyenzekayo apha. Lumka!
8. Uyamqaphela ukuba uxakeke ngokwenene ngophando kunye namaphepha?
Njani ngokufunda ezinzulwini zobusuku?
Ukuqaphela into ethile, ukuxakeka nokwenza iifowuni. Usenokuba sele ebonisa iimpawu zokuba ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato.
Xa efuna ukuqhawula umtshato
Imiqondiso intombi yakho efuna ukwahlukana nayo yahluke kakhulu xa ingumfazi wakho ofuna ukuphuma kulwalamano.
Emtshatweni, imiqondiso umfazi wakho afuna ukukushiya ayizukuchaphazela ubudlelwane kuphela kodwa iya kuchaphazela nemali yakho, iiasethi, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu abantwana bakho.
Imiqondiso yokuba umfazi wakho ufuna uqhawulo-mtshato inokuqala njengamacebo afihlakeleyo de ungabinako ukunceda kodwa uqaphele ukuba iya isomelela ngakumbi kwaye ithe ngqo. Ke, kuthekani ukuba uyafuna ukuqhawula umtshato? Ungayithatha njani le nto?
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Umbuyisela njani uMfazi wam xa efuna uqhawulo mtshato?
Ngaba ikhona into onokuyenza ngayo?
Ungenza ntoni xa umfazi wakho ekushiya?
Ungathini xa umfazi wakho ethatha isigqibo sokuphelisa ubudlelwane bakho? Okokuqala, lixesha lokuba ubonakalise kungekuphela nje ukuma kwakho njengendoda kodwa njengomntu. Ukusuka apho, kuya kufuneka uthethe naye kwaye uye kwinqanaba eliphambili lokuba kutheni evakalelwa kukuba kufuneka aphelise umtshato wakho ngakumbi xa kukho abantwana ababandakanyekayo.
Endaweni yokucaphuka, eli lixesha lokulwela uthando lwakho. Ukuba uyazi ukuba awunyanisekanga kuwe kwaye unezinto ezithile ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo, ke ulalanise.
Kude kube kugqitywe uqhawulo-mtshato, usenalo ithuba lokuphumelela umfazi wakho.
Ukuqonda iimpawu umfazi wakho afuna ukukushiya ayisiyiyo into yokukudimaza okanye ukukwazisa ukuba awusafanelekanga ukuba umthande, endaweni yoko kufanele ukuba kuvule amehlo ukuba uqale ujonge okwenzekileyo kunye nento onokuyenza yenza njalo ukulungisa umtshato wakho.
Kwimeko apho ibila ngokungafaniyo okungangqinelaniyo, mhlawumbi usenokuthi ukhethe uqhawulo mtshato olungaphikiswayo.