Umxholo
- 1. Ukucupha iqabane ngesivakalisi sokuqala uthe
- Iyacetyiswa- Gcina iKhosi yam yoMtshato
- 2. Amatye / Ukuphepha
- 3. Ukungabikho kwengcaciso
- 4. Ithemba
- 5. Ukukhula kohlukana
- 6. Ukunqongophala kwenkxaso
- 7. Ukuthandana nokusondelelana
- Wazi njani ukuba ufuna ingcebiso ngomtshato?
Umba wokuqala wenombolo kwizibini zonxibelelwano. Nangona kunjalo, kukho eminye imiba enokuthi inegalelo ekusingeleni phantsi ubudlelwane obulungileyo. Imiba ekufuneka uyiqwalasele ukuba uyazibuza, ukuba umtshato wakho ufuna uncedo.
Zininzi iindlela ngeendlela zokunxibelelana nabantu ngokungafanelekanga.
1. Ukucupha iqabane ngesivakalisi sokuqala uthe
Endaweni yokukhuthaza ukuqonda kunye nokusombulula, isivakalisi sokuqala senza ukuba izinto zikhusele kwaye impendulo yokuqala yeqabane kukuhlasela. Kungekudala emva koko, esi sibini siqala ukuphikisana malunga nemicimbi yexesha elidlulileyo, endaweni yelinye elikufutshane.
Iyacetyiswa- Gcina iKhosi yam yoMtshato
2. Amatye / Ukuphepha
Ziintoni iimpawu zomtshato wakho osengxakini? Elinye okanye omabini amaqabane azama ukunqanda ukungavisisani okanye iimpikiswano ngokuphepha omnye komnye. Ngamaxesha athile, iqabane liyonganyelwa ziimvakalelo kwaye lifuna ukumka kuloo meko. Olu hlobo lwesibini lusetyenziselwa ukunqanda kunye "nokuyeka" (okanye ukugcina iimvakalelo) kwaye zihlala zingabuyeli kwimpikiswano.
3. Ukungabikho kwengcaciso
Amaqabane anokuba neemfuno / iimfuno ezithile kodwa kube nzima ukuwavakalisa. Endaweni yoko, bacinga ukuba iqabane kufuneka ukuba liyazi ukuba lenzeni.
Ukunxibelelana kakuhle sisiseko sobudlelwane obuphilileyo. Ukwazi indlela yokuthetha ngayo nantoni na (kubandakanya ezemali, ezokwabelana ngesondo, kunye nezinye izifundo ezinzima) kubalulekile kulwalamano oluhle.
4. Ithemba
Ngokufika kweeselfowuni kunye nemithombo yeendaba zentlalo, kubonakala ngathi amaqabane amaninzi nangakumbi anemicimbi yokuthembana. Abanye abathandi amaqabane abo athetha nabantu besini esahlukileyo. Abanye banemicimbi yokufumana ukuthumela imiyalezo kunye / okanye iphonografi kwiifowuni zamaqabane abo. Amaqabane kufuneka azibuze, "Ngaba ikhona imida / imigaqo ewela elinye iqabane? Ngaba kukho imigaqo / imida ecacileyo emayilandelwe, kunye neziphumo eziqondwayo ukuba zaphuliwe?
Ukukhululeka yinto entle ukuba nayo; Nangona kunjalo, ukuzenzela izigqibo kuza neziphumo ezilandelayo. Kodwa ukuba kukho imigaqo ecacileyo / imida ekufuneka ilandelwe, kuba lula ukwakha kunye nokugcina ukuthembana.
5. Ukukhula kohlukana
Ke awusekho kwisigaba sokuthandana kwakhona - nakwisigaba sasemva komtshato kwakhona. Ubomi buyenzeka, kwafika noxinzelelo. Iqabane ngalinye ligqibe ngendlela yokoyisa uxinzelelo kunye nenkqubela phambili njengomntu. Emva koko bazifumana bekude kwaye bangashukumi baye kwinjongo enye (okt. Umhlalaphantsi, uhambo, ivolontiya, njl.
Ngelishwa, oku kunokwenzeka, nangona kunjalo, amaxesha ngamaxesha umgama wenzeka xa kukho ukunqongophala konxibelelwano oluhle kwaye xa amaqabane elibele ukuxabisa konke okukhoyo kumaqabane abo (impumelelo kunye nezinto abazifezileyo).
Ziintoni iimpawu zomtshato osilelayo? Xa iqabane liziva linqanyuliwe kwaye lingakhathaliyo ukuthetha nelinye iqabane, ingcali inokuba sisingeniso esihle kwesi sibini. Kulapho umtshato wakho ufuna uncedo.
6. Ukunqongophala kwenkxaso
Amaqabane anokukhula ngokwahlukeneyo ngenxa yokungabikho kwenkxaso komnye nomnye; Kubalulekile ukuba ukhankanye ukuba amaqabane angazixhasi izigqibo zamanye amaqabane anokudala imeko-bume ekhayeni labo.Ngamaxesha athile, iqabane linokuziva ngathi akukho nkxaso mali kwelinye iqabane.
Ngamanye amaxesha, iqabane linokuziva ngathi akukho nkxaso kwimisebenzi yasekhaya okanye ekukhuliseni abantwana. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bayahlukaniswa phakathi kosapho lwabo kwaye balibale ukwakha ubuhlobo kunye nokukhathalela ubudlelwane bosapho. Ukuba nemvakalelo yokuba sehlabathini ngaphandle kwendlu kubalulekile kuye wonke umntu.
7. Ukuthandana nokusondelelana
Owona mqikelelo wesini esithandekayo kukuba neentlobano zesini ezilungileyo rhoqo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abantu bazifumana bengena-sex (1-2 amaxesha ngonyaka okanye ngaphantsi) umtshato.
Ngaba umtshato wakho ufuna uncedo? Ukuba umtshato wakho ukhathazwa kukungabikho kothando kunye nolwalamano olusondeleyo, oko kusentlungwini.
Ukungabikho kothando kunye nokusondelana akwenzeki kuphela kukusilela konxibelelwano kunye nesiqhelo. Ihlabathi lanamhlanje liyonakalisa uthando kunye nolwalamano. Umzi mveliso wephonografi sele uqalile. Akuzange kubekho ixesha elingcono lokuvelisa iphonografi, kuba phantse yonke indlu / umntu ngamnye unokufikelela kuyo esebenzisa ifowuni okanye iikhompyuter (abanye bade basebenzise iikhompyuter zabo ukubukela iphonografi).
Ukufumaneka kunye nokubonisa imifanekiso engamanyala kuyonakalisa ubudlelwane kumanqanaba ohlukeneyo. Imifanekiso engamanyala isetyenziswa ngokubanzi ukuphulula amalungu esini.
Amadoda ngokuthe ngqo ayaphuma (ngokukhawuleza) ngokubukela iphonografi kwiifowuni okanye kwikhompyuter, kwaye abantu basetyhini bakhalaza ngokungabikho komdla wesini kubo. Lo ngumcimbi ophindwe kabini: amadoda axela ukuba "ngumsebenzi omninzi ukulala nomntu othandana naye" kwaye "ukudibana kwethu ngokwesondo akufani nesondo." Kubonakala ngathi amadoda ayayeka ukulala ngesondo namaqabane awo.
Enye indlela ukuthandana kunye nokusondelelana konakaliswa ngumzi-mveliso we-porn kukuba amadoda amancinci ngakumbi abancinci abonisa kwiofisi kagqirha nge-erectile dysfunction (ED). Oku kubandakanya abadlali be-porno nabo.
Inani lamatyala e-ED anyukile kule minyaka ingama-30 ukuya kwengama-40 edlulileyo, kwaye ubudala obumiselweyo obuchazwe kwimicimbi ye-ED buye behla kakhulu (ukusuka kwi-50s ukuya kwi-30s ngoku). Amadoda ayakuthintela ukuba neentlobano zesini kunye neqabane labo, njengoko benobunzima bokufumana kunye nokugcina ulwakhiwo ixesha elide.
Wazi njani ukuba ufuna ingcebiso ngomtshato?
Ukuba umtshato wakho ukhathazwa yenye yezi zinto zingasentla, ingcebiso ngezibini okanye ikhosi yomtshato inokuba sisixhobo esibaluleke kakhulu ekuvuseleleni ubudlelwane bakho obuqhekekileyo.
Ngaba ukululekwa kwabantu abatshatileyo kuphela kubantu abatshatileyo? Akunjalo.
Ukuba ulwalamano olunzulu kwaye ujonge ekonyuseni ubude balo, ke nokuba utshatile okanye awutshatanga, kuya kufuneka ucebise izibini ukuba uvune izibonelelo zazo.
Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa izibini ukuba uninzi lwemiba / imiba ekhankanywe apha ngasentla inamathuba okusombulula ngaphandle kokuchitha ubudlelwane babo. Amaqabane kufuneka azibandakanye kunyango lwezibini kunye nengcali kunyango lomtshato / kwizibini kwaye bazimisele ekusebenzeni kwimicimbi yabo, kunye nokuqhubeka nokuzibandakanya emandleni abo njengesibini. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu kufuneka ubuze, ngaba umtshato wakho ufuna uncedo?