Umxholo
- Ukukhanyisa ngegesi yeyona ndlela yabo inokuthenjwa
- Ukuzibuza ukuba unetyala
- Abakwa-narcissists bakhetha ngobulumko
- Umntu oza kunxila uya kukulukuhla, akucebise, emva koko akuphele
- Uxolo, kodwa hayi uxolo
- Iiprojekthi ze-narcissist zizenzela njengomntu ongenasiphako
- Ukulawula abantu kunye nobomi babo lilungelo labo lokuzalwa
I-narcissist ngumntu osoloko ekulungele ukongamela kunye nokulawula ubomi babanye abantu. Umntu owenza iziyobisi unokuba yindida ngamanye amaxesha; akulula ukuqikelela. Baneseti ethile yemikhwa kunye neepateni.
Isikolo sabo seengcinga sahlukile kunendlela eqhelekileyo. Benza abantu babakholelwe kwaye emva koko babonise imibala yabo yokwenyani ngokubaphatha ngokweemvakalelo nangokwengqondo.
Ukukhanyisa ngegesi yeyona ndlela yabo inokuthenjwa
I-Narcissists inokuba yintlungu xa uthandana nabo. Bayazi, kwaye baya kusebenzisa zonke iindlela zokukhanyisa igesi onokucinga ngazo.
I-narcissist ngumntu okhohlakeleyo okrelekrele onesakhono sokukhuthaza iindlela ezizodwa zokukhohlisa.
Bahlala beza nento entsha kubo yonke imihla. Abalufumani ngokwaneleyo ukhanyiso lwegesi kwaye baqhubeke nokubhomboloza kumaqabane abo phantse kungekho sizathu.
Ukuzibuza ukuba unetyala
Ixhoba lobundlobongela lihlala libotshelelwe kwityala elinzulu. I-narcissists ngokusisiseko ifana namahlwantsi ekhephu; bangasola abanye ngale nto bayenzileyo.
Baya kuxhaphaza ixhoba kwaye emva koko basuse imvakalelo yokuba ngamaxhoba kubo.
Bangamenzakalisa umntu kwaye bazenze ngathi benzakele. Ukuveza imeko yokuba netyala lelona qhinga libhiyozelwayo abalisebenzisayo ngokuchasene neethagethi zabo.
Abakwa-narcissists bakhetha ngobulumko
Abakwa-narcissist bakhetha iithagethi zabo ngobuchule. Bafuna abantu ngokuxinana ngokweemvakalelo kwaye abo bazibambe ngembeko kakhulu iimvakalelo zabo. Kuba bayathanda ukwenzakala, bayathanda ukujolisa kubantu abanokwenzakala ngokulula. Babonakala bezolile kwaye bezolile ngaphandle ngelixa bezele ngumona, ukungathembani kunye nekhethe.
Abantu abanoxinzelelo lweemvakalelo zezona njongo zabo bazithandayo njengoko banokuthi ngokulula benze i-scapegoat kubo emva kokuba benze ngomsebenzi woburharha.
Umntu oza kunxila uya kukulukuhla, akucebise, emva koko akuphele
Mhlawumbi ungoyena mntu unelishwa kwihlabathi ukuba uliqabane ne-narcissist. Ngelishwa unelishwa lokuwela kumgibe weqabane lakho le-narcissist. Ukhethe umendo ongalunganga kuwe, apho uya kuzifumana ulahlekile embindini wendawo. Lumka! Bakho kuphela ukuze basebenzise wena kunye nokwenza uzive umthwalo wobukho babo emhlabeni.
I-narcissist iyakwenza ukuba unxibe iiglasi ezinemibala ebomvu kwaye ikunike onke amathemba obuxoki ngekamva.
Njengokuba kunjalo, sele becebile ukukushiya kanye emva kokonakalisa ubomi bakho, nako oko kungabikho lusizi.
Uxolo, kodwa hayi uxolo
I-narcissist ayikhathazi malunga neemvakalelo zabanye abantu kunye neemvakalelo. Bebengasoze bafeze nezo nkxwaleko bazenzele zona. Bazothula nje izandla zabo emva kokungcungcutheka ngobomi bakho.
I-narcissists ibonakala ingenamdla wokonga amanxeba abangele wona. Bakude, kude kakhulu ekuthwaleni ulwaphulo-mthetho lwalo naluphi na uhlobo.
Ukusuka kwizenzo ezincinci ezingendawo ukuya kumonakalo omkhulu weemvakalelo, ii-narcissists ziyonwabile kwezi zinto.
Iiprojekthi ze-narcissist zizenzela njengomntu ongenasiphako
I-narcissist soze iyamkele impazamo yayo nakweyiphi na imbambano. Bazakwenza nantoni na nayo yonke into ukwenza ukuba omnye umntu athathe ityala kwaye aphile nalo. Nantoni na ehamba gwenxa, bayibeka nje emnyango weqabane labo.
I-narcissists inokusebenzisa ubuxoki nenkohliso ukunceda ityala labo. Banokuceba izinto ngokuchasene nabanye ngokulula kakhulu. Kwaye, ngezikimu ezinobuchule, zinokwenza ukuba omnye umntu aye ekwamkelweni kwazo zonke iimpazamo kunye neziphoso.
Ukulawula abantu kunye nobomi babo lilungelo labo lokuzalwa
I-narcissist ikwenza i-doormat kwaye iya kuhamba phezu kwakho, ngaphandle kokuba uyimise. Amanye amaxhoba obuchwephesha baziva bengenamaxesha ngamanye xa behlala namaqabane abo.
Abakwazi ukuthatha isigqibo sokuyeka nokuba sele beqhelile kwaye behlukumezekile. Kanye, banika iqhosha labo lolawulo kwi-narcissist; Akukho nto banokuyenza ngayo. I-narcissists zizinto ezikhulu zokulawula ixesha.
Ukuba uhlala ungqubeka kwi-narcissist, ekuqaleni uya kuziva wonwabile njengoko ii-narcissists zingabonisi imibala yazo yokwenyani ngokukhawuleza. Bahlasela ixhoba kancinci kancinci nangokuhlakanipha. Kuqala, baya kuchonga ukubaluleka kwakho kwaye emva koko bathathe isigqibo ngekamva lakho ukuba ukunye nabo. Baya kubeka phambili ii-aces zabo phambi kokuba zenzeke.