Umxholo
- Indlela udade nodade wabo ahluke ngayo kwenye
- Njani umzalwana nodade udibaniso bobume esiya kuba ngabantu abadala
- Isazisi, ubudlelwane, kunye nokuncamathisela
- Yabazali-indlela yokukhuthaza abantakwenu ukuba bahlalisane
Uthando lomntwana wakowenu luhlobo oluthile lolwalamano. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantakwenu bayavana kakhulu njengeekati kunye nezinja. Kodwa, ngaphandle kwemilo emininzi kunye neengxabano abantwana bakowenu abadlula kuzo ngelixa bekhula, isibophelelo kubantakwenu akunakwenzeka ukuba siqhawulwe.
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantakwenu buyahluka kwaye buphindaphindwe njengayo nayiphi na enye indlela yokunxibelelana kwabantu. Kodwa, bonke ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantakwenu bafana kukuba basifundisa indlela yokuthanda nokupha, nokuba yeyiphi imidla yethu, kwaye nangaphandle kokungavisisani.
Indlela udade nodade wabo ahluke ngayo kwenye
Akukho sapho lifana ncam. Xa kuziwa kubantakwenu, zininzi iindibaniselwano, kuxhomekeka kubudala umahluko, isini, inani labantwana, amalungiselelo okuhlala.
Kwaye zininzi izinto ezingafaniyo nendlela abazalana ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, ubudlelwane phakathi komntakwethu nodade bahlala behlukile kunabo banabazali okanye abanye abantu abadala.
Ngokwengqondo, abantwana bahlala bekufuphi omnye komnye, kwanaxa kukho umahluko omkhulu kubudala. Oku kuyabonakala, umzekelo, ukungakhathaleli phakathi kwabantwana abangatshatanga kunye nabo bakhula nabantakwabo.
Xa abantwana bekhula kunye, bakhulisa ubudlelwane obuyinyani obusekwe bodwa, ngaphandle kwesikhokelo sabantu abadala. Ngamanye amagama, i ukubaluleka kobudlelwane kubantakwabo kukuba abantwana bakhulisa ukuzimela kubudlelwane babo ngokwasentlalweni ngokunxibelelana kwabo nabantakwabo.
Njani umzalwana nodade udibaniso bobume esiya kuba ngabantu abadala
Ubudlelwane nothando phakathi kwabantakwenu, ngandlela thile, yintsimi yoqeqesho kubudlelwane bethu bexesha elizayo kunye noontanga bethu.
Ngelixa ubudlelwane bethu nabazali bethu buchaphazela uninzi lweempawu zethu kwaye, ngokunokwenzeka, imiba ekuya kufuneka sijongane nayo ebudaleni, ubudlelwane kunye nabantakwethu noodadewethu buba yimodeli yokuhlangana kwethu kwexesha elizayo. Enye indlela yokuyijonga yilelensi yemidlalo esiyidlalayo sonke, ngokutsho kwesinye isikolo kwizengqondo.
Umzekelo, ukuba abantakwenu banyamezela ubunzima kunye njengabantwana, iqhina labo alinakuqhawuka, kodwa bobabini baya kuba nokomelela okuzakwenza ukuba babe ziiRealists njengabantu ngabanye. Okanye, ukuba umntakwenu okhulileyo ukhathalele omncinci (umntu), banokuphuhlisa uhlobo lwendima yobomi yoMkhathaleli.
Isazisi, ubudlelwane, kunye nokuncamathisela
Ke, ukuba sifuna ukushwankathela Uthando lomtshato lwasekhaya intsingiselo yabantwana nabantu abadala, inokujongwa kwiindlela ezintathu eziphambili. Owokuqala ngumba wesazisi.
Phakathi kwabazali kunye nabahlobo kamva, abantakwenu zezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu ekwenzeni ubume bomntwana.Nokuba unjani umgangatho wobudlelwane, umntwana uya kuchaza ubukhulu becala iimpawu zakhe xa kuthelekiswa nomntakwabo.
Uthando lomntwana wakowenu linoxanduva lendlela esidibana ngayo nabanye, okt kubudlelwane bethu bexesha elizayo. Sifunda kubantakwethu iindlela ezithi iimfuno zethu kunye neminqweno yethu inxibelelane kwaye ingqubane enye kwenye.
Sifunda indlela yokuhamba phakathi kwezinto ezahlukeneyo eziya kuhlala zibalulekile kubudlelwane, nokuba kunye nomntakwenu, nomphathi wethu, okanye iqabane lethu kwixa elizayo.
Okokugqibela, ngaphandle komgangatho wokuncamathisela nabazali, abantwana abanabantakwenu bahlala befumana ithuba lokwenza unxibelelwano olusempilweni kunye nabantakwabo noodadewabo.
Bavumela nomntwana ukuba angadibani ngokungenampilo nabazali, umzekelo, njengoko umzali eyahlulahlula ingqalelo yabo kubo bonke abantwana. Ngamafutshane, uthando lomntakwenu luyindlela eya kwibhondi yabantu esempilweni.
Yabazali-indlela yokukhuthaza abantakwenu ukuba bahlalisane
Abantakwabo banokuba ngabahlobo okanye iintshaba. Ngelishwa, kuninzi intiyo yabantakwenu njengoko kukho uthando lomntakwenu. Nangona kunjalo, nokuba abantwana bakho abahambelani kwaphela, kubalulekile ukuba uyiqonde indima yabazali ekuncedeni abantwana bakowenu bahlalisane.
Nguwe onako kwaye ufuna ukumodareyitha ikhosi yendalo yezinto ukuqinisekisa ezona zibonelelo zibalaseleyo zabantwana bakho.
Zimbini iindlela zokuxhasa kunye khuthaza uthando lomntakwenu. Eyokuqala kukuvuma kwemigaqo esisiseko onqwenela ukuba abantwana bakho bayilandele. Kule meko, yenza ngabom ngobubele, uvelwano, ukungazingci, kunye nenkxaso.
Ezi ziinqobo ezixabisekileyo eziya kufundisa abantwana bakho ukuba baphathane kwaye bancedane kungekuphela ebuntwaneni kodwa nanjengabantu abadala.
Kukwakho nezinto ezininzi ezenziwayo zokubopha abantwana apha phandle. Cinga ngawo wonke umdlalo kunye nomsebenzi wokudlala njengendlela yokukhuthaza uthando lwabantakwenu.
Benze basebenze njengeqela, qamba imidlalo eza kufuna ukuba babelane ngeemvakalelo zabo omnye komnye, babancede babone umhlaba ngokwembono yomnye umntakwabo ngotshintsho lweendima.
Kukho iinketho ezingenakubalwa, phonononga ezona zilungele imikhwa yosapho lwakho, kwaye uncede abantwana bakho bakhe ubudlelwane obuza kuhlala ubomi bonke.