Umxholo
Eli xesha lonyaka njengesihloko secarol lisenokuba lelona xesha lihle kakhulu enyakeni. Nangona kunjalo inokuba lelona xesha lixinzelelekileyo lonyaka, kodwa ndiyabona ukuba ayizukuyenza na ingoma elungileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngeli xesha lonyaka kunokuba noxinzelelo olukhulu xa kufikwa kusapho, kunye nakwindibano yosapho eyandisiweyo. Ukuphosa kwimimangaliso yonyulo kunye netafile yesidlo sangokuhlwa inokufumana ixesha elifanelekileyo. Nokuba uxinzelelo lwakho luza ngokuzama ukunqanda incoko ethile okanye ukuzama ukusinda kwiintsuku ezininzi ngaphandle kokungena kwimpikiswano eshushu okanye ukuphulukana nengqondo yakho, Nazi iingcebiso ezine zokubeka imida esempilweni kwiiholide, kunye nobomi ngokubanzi.
1. Ixesha
Ukuchitha ixesha nosapho kunokuba yinto entle, kwaye / okanye kunokuba noxinzelelo, yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba wazi umda wakho. Nokuba ziiyure ezi-3 okanye iintsuku ezintathu yazi ukuba ungachitha ixesha elingakanani kwezi meko phambi kokuzibophelela ukuba uza kuhlala ixesha elingakanani ngeeholide. Ukuba ukuhlala nosapho lwakho kukwenza ungakhululeki okanye uxinezeleke emva kwesiqingatha sosuku, emva koko cwangcisa ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukuhlengahlengisa ixesha kunokuba nzima ebantwini ngenxa "yendlela ebisoloko isenziwa ngayo", kodwa ukuba imeko ekudala ikho ibangele uxinzelelo kunye nokudana okungaphezulu kulo nyaka, kungalithuba lokuba uthathe inxaxheba okona kulungileyo kwimpilo yakho yengqondo . Ukwenza impilo yakho yengqondo iphambili ngokuseta imida ngexesha elinokuthetha ukuba ubonise usuku kamva okanye ushiye usuku kwangoko. Isenokuthetha ukuthatha imoto eyahlukileyo kunenye yakho ebalulekileyo okanye ilungu losapho oqhele ukuba nalo kwi-carpool. Nokuba yintoni, yazi umda wakho kunye neshedyuli ejikeleze yona.
2. Imixholo yeNcoko
Abanye bachitha ixesha labo etafileni betyilele bethi “ndicela ungathethi ngezopolitiko, ngaphandle kwezopolitiko.” Ingakumbi ukuba bahleli ecaleni komalume wabo onobuhlanga oyena mntu ubhengezwe njengoyena mntu uvulekileyo engqondweni amaziyo.
Nokuba zizopolitiko, ukhetho lomsebenzi, amalungu osapho, imibuzo yokuba uza kuba nabantwana nini, ekuxelela indlela yokukhulisa abantwana bakho, okanye nayiphi na enye yezihloko ezimnandi ezikwenza ukuba uthathele ingqalelo ukugula okanye ukwenza iholide ekuyiwa kuyo, kubalulekile ukuba bazi ukuba ziyintoni kunye nendlela yokuziphepha. Ukufumana iindlela zokutshintsha umxholo, okanye ukulungisa into yokuba ukhetha ukungathethi ngayo kunokuba nzima, kodwa kuyafuneka. Ke ngaphambi kokuya kwindawo enokubakho yemfazwe yeholide zikhumbuze ngezihloko oza kuhlala ucacile kuzo kunye nendlela oceba ukwenza ngayo oko. Ukuba ulwalamano kunye neqabane lakho kunokuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokuzilungiselela. Umnqweno omhle.
3. Isithuba
Naxa undwendwele iiholide, kulungile ukuba uzifumanele ixesha kunye nendawo. Iiholide zingangxola, nokuba ngabantwana ababalekayo okanye utatomkhulu emva kokuba ebeke iramu eninzi kwi-eggnog yakhe. Ukuba imeko yeholide iqala ukukwenza uzive ungonwabanga kwaye uxinezelekile inokuba lixesha lokuzimela uhambe, uhambe ngemoto, okanye ufihle kwigumbi elingenanto ukuze ufunde incwadi. Unokufumana ihotele okanye uhlale kwenye indawo. Ukwazi ukuba kulungile ukuhlala kwenye indawo okanye uthathe ikhefu kunye nokubuyela umva kunokususa uxinzelelo lweholide.
4. Iimvakalelo
Ngeli xesha lonyaka kunokuba nzima ukuvuya xa unamalungu osapho ahlala efumana iindlela zokukwenza uzive ungalunganga, okanye ukongeza umdlalo weqonga ebomini bakho emva koko wawufuna. Isenokukuzisa embindini weengxabano zosapho, ukuziva unetyala (mhlawumbi nokubeka imida esempilweni), ukuba ndlongondlongo, okanye ezinye izinto ezahlukeneyo. Ukwenza amanyathelo angaphambili kunokunceda ukunciphisa uninzi lwezi zinto, kodwa ukuba uziva ngathi iiholide zihlala zithathe uxinzelelo ngokweemvakalelo kungalixesha lokuba uthethe nomntu kwaye usete ulindelo onalo ngeli xesha leholide nakwiminyaka yiza. Ukuthetha phezulu kwaye uthi “ndingavuya ukuba singangathethi ngale nto ...” kungakusindisa kwiintloko ezizayo nakwiimvakalelo ezibuhlungu.
Isiphelo
Ukubeka imida esempilweni kunokuba nzima kuba iimvakalelo zabantu zinokwenzakala kwinkqubo. Xa useta imida ngamanye amaxesha kubalulekile ukuthetha nomntu malunga nokwenzekayo. Zama ukuyenza malunga nawe hayi bona, kwaye ubazise ukuba ubakhathalele kwaye wenza eyona nto ilungele impilo yakho. Ukuba bayaqhubeka nokophula imida yakho ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukubachazela ukuba kutheni useta imida.
Ukubeka imida esempilweni kuthetha ukuba nembeko kwaye ubazise ukuba ukhetho lwabo luya kubuchaphazela njani ubudlelwane. Ayenzelwanga ukuba yenziwe ngendlela ebenza bazive bengalunganga. Endaweni yoko ubeka ulindelo kwaye unethemba lokuba bayalihlonipha. Ngamanye amaxesha amalungu osapho anokude acinge malunga nendlela yokuphatha izinto okanye indlela onokubanceda ngayo xa bengena kwiipateni ezindala. Ukuba nencoko namalungu osapho kunye nokubeka imida esempilweni kuya kunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwakho, kwaye kungade kube lelona xesha lilungileyo lonyaka.