Umxholo
- Ukuthandana apps abo bafuna ubudlelwane kakhulu
- Ithetha ntoni "ubudlelwane obunzima"?
- Iimpawu zobudlelwane ziya ziba nzulu
- Ukuya kwinqanaba "lobudlelwane obunzulu"?
- Ngaba ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo bunokuba bubuhlobo obuluqilima?
Ukuba ngoku ungumsebenzisi wee -apps zokuthandana kwi-Intanethi, okanye uthandana nje ngokukhululekileyo, uyazi ukuba zininzi kakhulu umahluko kubudlelwane njengoko kukho abantu abafuna ubudlelwane.
Ukuma kobusuku obunye, Abahlobo abaneZibonelelo, i-polyamory, enye indlela yokwabelana ngesondo, ubudlelwane obuvulekileyo, ukutshata nomntu ongatshatanga naye, ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo kunye nobuzulu. Kwaye le yincam nje yomkhenkce! Kodwa eli ayilo nqaku elibonisa zonke iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuba abantu bafumane amaqabane. Kweli nqaku siza kuvavanya ubudlelwane obunzulu. Yintoni, kwaye uyifumana njani?
Ukuthandana apps abo bafuna ubudlelwane kakhulu
Ukuba usebenzisa ii -apps zokuthandana ukufumana enye ebalulekileyo, uya kucetyiswa ukuba ugxile kwiiapps ezinerekhodi elungileyo yokufumana ulwalamano olunzulu. Ayizukuba yiTinder, eyazibhengeza kwangoko njengesixhobo se-hook-ups, nangona kukho izibini ezizimeleyo ngakumbi, kunye nemitshato, eza ngenxa yeTinder.
Kodwa eyona ndlela iqinisekileyo yomlilo yokufumana ubudlelwane obunzulu kukusebenzisa ii -apps ezitsala abanye abantu abathanda izinto. Iziza ezithandwayo zokuthandana kwi-Intanethi kwabo bafuna ukwakha ubudlelwane obunzulu zezi
- Abangenawo Elite
- Umdlalo.com
- eHarmony
- Kulungile
- Bumble
- Ikofu idibana neBagel
- UManyano
- Kanye
Ipro-tip: Ukudibana nezinye iingoma ezingathandekiyo, hlawula umrhumo wokuba lilungu.
Oku sele kungqubekile kwizinto, kuba abo bangafuniyo ukuhlawula abantu badla ngokuba ngabo bafuna amakhonkco. Yitsho ngokucacileyo kwiprofayile yakho ukuba ujonge kuphela ukuthandana nabantu abanomdla kubudlelwane obubi, bexesha elide.
Oko kufanele ukuba kususe ukhula kubasebenzisi abakhangela kuphela isini esingaqhelekanga. Okokugqibela, ukuba iprofayile yabo ayinalo ulwazi, okanye uhlobo lolwazi oluhambelana nawe, musa ukunxibelelana nabo. Inkcitho xesha.
Ithetha ntoni "ubudlelwane obunzima"?
Buyintoni ubudlelwane obunzulu? Nguwe kuphela onokuchaza ukuba amagama athetha ntoni "ubudlelwane obunzulu" kuwe. Kodwa ngokubanzi, ubudlelwane obubi buthetha:
- Nisebenza kunye ukwenza indawo ebomini benu
- Ubeka iimfuno zomlingane wakho ngaphambi kwezakho, ngaphandle kokuzikhathalela
- Ukhethekile kwaye utshatile
- Nobabini niyazibophelela ekwenzeni ubudlelwane buhlale buhleli
- Nobabini ninoluvo lokuba niyakhokelela kwinto ethile, umbono wexesha elizayo
- Nobabini niyabandakanyeka ekondleni impilo nentlalo-ntle yobudlelwane, nisabelana ngomsebenzi (kunye novuyo)
- Udibene nosapho lomnye nomnye, abazali, abantwana (ukuba bakhona)
- Nidibene nabahlobo bomnye nomnye
- Uthathela ingqalelo iqabane lakho xa usenza izigqibo ezinkulu nezincinci
Iimpawu zobudlelwane ziya ziba nzulu
Nibe nithandana nenyanga okanye kunjalo kwaye nilonwabele kakhulu ixesha lenu kunye. Uziva ukuba nobabini ninokwakha into yokwenene, enentsingiselo kunye nexesha elide. Zeziphi ezinye zeempawu zokuba ubudlelwane buya busiba nzulu?
- Nichitha ixesha elingakumbi nangakumbi kunye
- Uyathetha kwaye ubhala yonke imihla kwaye ungakhathazeki malunga noku kubonakala kunamathele okanye kuswele
- Udibene nabahlobo kunye nosapho
- Nishiya izinto komnye nomnye, njengempahla yokunxiba nezinto zokuhlamba
- Nithenga ukutya kunye kwaye nilungiselele ukutya kunye
- Imixholo yakho yengxoxo iziko malunga nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo
- Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo, thetha neqabane lakho
- Nithetha ngokuphandle ngezemali kunye
- Uxoxe ngamathuba okuhlala kunye kunye nomtshato
Ukuya kwinqanaba "lobudlelwane obunzulu"?
Cinga ngale mibuzo yobuzaza: -
- Kutheni. Yintoni ekukhuthaza ukuba wenze olu lwalamano lubaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba lukho ngoku?
- Uyisombulula njani ingxabano?
- Ngaba uyakholiswa ziindlela zakho zonxibelelwano?
- Uza kuyilawula njani imali yenu?
- Ngaba ngamnye wenu ulibona njani ikamva?
- Ngaba niya kuhlala ninomqolo omnye komnye?
- Zithini iinkcazo zakho ngokukopa? Ukusuka kwi-intanethi ukudlala ngothando kwimicimbi yobomi bokwenyani, thetha malunga nokuba yintoni ukukopela kuwe
Ngaba ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo bunokuba bubuhlobo obuluqilima?
Ewe kunjalo. Ubudlelwane obunzulu obuninzi buqala njengobuhlobo okanye nje ukuthandana.
Ngapha koko, oko kuhlala kuyinto enkulu, yoxinzelelo lwendlela yokuqalisa. Ukuqala ngobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo kukunika ubunewunewu bokwazi iqabane lakho kancinci, kunye nethuba lokwakha inyathelo elisisiseko ngenyathelo ngenyathelo.
Ukuba unomdla wokuhambisa ubudlelwane bakho obuqhelekileyo ukuya kobubi ngakumbi, nazi ezinye iingcebiso:
- Cela ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye. Ukuba bayavuma, uyazi ukuba banomdla wokunyuka kwezinto. Ukuba bathi hayi, thabatha loo mpendulo ukuba yeyiphi, kwaye ucinge ngobunyani boku kuba bubudlelwane obunzulu.
- Yenza imisebenzi ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo. Sukuthandana nje ebusuku, okanye uye kwindlu yeqabane lakho ngalo lonke ixesha bekuthumela imiyalezo bekucela ukuba ujonge. Yenza imisebenzi yasemini. Balekani kunye. Yiya impelaveki. Amavolontiya kunye nekhitshi lendawo lesuphu. Inqaku kukuchitha ixesha kunye "hayi ukuthandana" kodwa "ukwenza".
- Qala ukudibanisa omnye nomnye kwisangqa sakho sabahlobo. Kwimeko yobudlelwane bakho obuqhelekileyo, ngekhe ulazise iqabane lakho kubahlobo bakho. Cebisa oku. Ukuba bathi hayi, abanamdla, yithathe njengophawu lokuba abafuni ukuba nzulu ngakumbi kuwe.
Ukuba bathi ewe, eli lithuba elihle lokubona indlela abanxibelelana ngayo nabahlobo bakho, kwaye ewe abahlobo bakho bacinga ntoni ngeqabane lakho elitsha. Bayakwazi kwaye batyale imali ekuboneni wonwabile, ke umbono wabo uya kubaluleka.