Umxholo
- 1. Ukugcina uthando luvutha
- 2. Yeka ukwenza izizathu
- 3. Akukho sidingo sokuphuma konke!
- 4. Ukwenza ulwalamano oluncinci
- 5. Ukugcina iqabane lakho lonwabile
Ixesha lasemva komtshato kubudlelwane bezothando lelona xesha apho isibini sikhona kwaye siqwalaselene. Bahoyana omnye nomnye, bathambisa iqabane labo ngothando, intlonipho, ukwenza ixesha, kunye nantoni.
Leyo yeentsuku apho kwenziwa izithembiso, kwabelwana ngamabali amatsha kunye namadala, kwaye izicwangciso zexesha elizayo zibonakaliswa.
Konke kugqibelele kwaye konwabile emhlabeni.
Nangona kunjalo, njengoko ubudlelwane buya bukhula, kwaye abantu beqala ukuziveza phambi komnye nomnye, baya besazi malunga neqabane labo namandla kunye nobuthathaka babo, yintoni ebenza bonwabe kwaye yintoni ebenza baphawule.
Ngamafutshane, bonke ubuntu beqabane labo bucaca njengosuku, kwaye into engaqondakaliyo iyaphuma ngomnyango.
1. Ukugcina uthando luvutha
Kukwindalo yomntu-nantoni na esiba sisi-tad bit enokuqikelelwa kakhulu; siqala ukuphelelwa ngumdla. Akusoloko kuyinto embi njengoko oku kusigcina kwiinzwane zethu; Nangona kunjalo, xa kufikwa kubudlelwane, le yinto entle enobungozi.
Njengokuba ixesha lethu lihamba, kunye neqabane lethu lixelwa kwangaphambili, siqala ukuthatha izinto ngokungakhathali. Asikuko oko kwangoko namaqabane ethu, siqala ukuyekelela xa kufikwa kumba wokubhiyozela uthando esabelana ngalo okanye ubomi esibabelana ngabo, kwaye sonke sityhola ngexesha.
2. Yeka ukwenza izizathu
Sithi ngenxa yokwanda koxanduva, asisenaxesha. Ukuba isibini sinabantwana, eso sesona sizathu sokuzikhulisa.
Inyaniso iyaxelwa, yiyo yonke into eyiyo-sisizathu esikhulu sakudala.
Ukuba ungenza ixesha lokuba nomtsalane kwaye uthandaze iqabane lakho ngexa wawusemncinci, umfundi mhlawumbi okanye ekuqaleni kwekhondo lakho lomsebenzi, okanye naxa wawukuncopho yomsebenzi wakho, ngokuqinisekileyo ungakwenza oko kamva.
Yonke into ebalulekileyo iphambili.
Musa ukulinda loo mzuzu ukhethekileyo wenze into enkulu. Ukuba bakuthanda ngokwenyani, bakuhlonipha, kwaye bayakuthanda, umzuzu ngamnye ochithelwe kunye uya kuba mkhulu kwaye ukhetheke. Endaweni yokuphuma yonke ibe nkulu, yenza amaxesha amancinci abalwe.
Iruva elinye linokwenza imimangaliso apho igumbi eligcwele isampuli liza kusilela.
Umyalezo omfutshane wothando kuye wehla kwifowuni yakhe uya kumenza ancume kakhulu endaweni yesidlo sangokuhlwa kwindawo yokutyela eneenkwenkwezi ezintlanu ngamanye amaxesha.
3. Akukho sidingo sokuphuma konke!
Uninzi lwabantu luzama ukuphuma konke njengoko becinga ukuba ukuthandana kufuneka kube zizimbo zomzimba ezinkulu, ngelixa uthando lukujikelezile. Wena, ukuba liqabane, wazi oyena mntu umthandayo.
Ezothando ziqwalasele.
Umzekelo -
Ukuba unentlanganiso enkulu ezayo ebimenza ukuba abe noxinzelelo kuye, umshiyele imiyalezo ekhuthazayo neyothando kuye ngalo mhla. Okanye, ukuba ngaba omnye wenu uphume edolophini kwishishini, imiyalezo embalwa elungileyo yothando kunye nemiyalezo elungileyo yasebusuku iya kwenza umgama ubonakale umfutshane.
Akukho sayithi yerokethi ebandakanyekayo kuyo.
Imfihlelo yobudlelwane bexesha elide ayinzima kangako; kuthatha umsebenzi, umonde, ububele, kunye nengqwalaselo.
Ngelixa izidubedube namahla ndinyuka ziyinxalenye kunye nolwalamano, into ebalulekileyo kukwamkela inyani kwaye uyigqibe.
Ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ebaluleke ngakumbi, i-ego yakho okanye umntu omthandayo?
4. Ukwenza ulwalamano oluncinci
Abantu bayamosha ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ukuba uziva ngathi uphume emgceni kubomi bakho bothando, akukaze kube semva kwexesha ukuba ungazenza. Oko iingcali zihlala zithetha malunga nabuphi na ubudlelwane, nokuba yiplonic okanye yothando, kukuba konke malunga nokumamela nokunxibelelana.
Unxibelelwano lwakho akufuneki lubandakanye iingxoxo ezinzulu zentliziyo. Njengobuzaza ubudlelwane obunothando, ngamanye amaxesha umntu kufuneka nje ukuba athobe kwaye athumele imiyalezo emnandi yothando.
Iingcali kwezothando zihlala zithi amanqaku amancinci othando okanye imiyalezo yothando yindlela yokuhamba. Ngoku, umntu unokufumana ubuchule bokwakha ukuba bafuna ukuba njalo.
Imiyalezo yothando akuthethi ukuba wanamathela imiyalezo yothando. Nazi izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza-
- Shiya umyalezo wothando wenkosikazi kwisipili sokuhlambela kunye nelipstick yakhe, umphunga kunye nokuphefumla, okanye ngesepha.
- I-rose enye inenqaku lothando.
- Fumana iqabane lakho isakhelo okanye iwotshi yesihlahla ebhalwe ngomyalezo wothando njengokucinga ngawe.
- Gcina ingqalelo kwiqabane lakho xa uphuma esidlangalaleni kunye nokusebezela amanqaku amnandi kuye.
- Sukuya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa okanye kwi-movie njengocwangciso; mbuze ngomhla ofanelekileyo.
Kungenxa yokuba ubuhleli kubudlelwane obude okanye utshatile oko akuthethi ukuba awungekhe uphinde uphume nemihla. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ibe ngumntu ofanayo.
5. Ukugcina iqabane lakho lonwabile
Ingqwalaselo encinci kunye nothando ziya kwenza iqabane lakho liqhakaze.
Imiyalezo embalwa yasekuseni ethandwayo apha kuye kunye nomyalezo omncinci omncinci wothando emfazini wakho awuyi kuthatha ixesha elininzi kwikhalenda yakho, kodwa iya kubonisa umfazi wakho ukuba ubalulekile kuwe nakubomi bakho.
Lilonke, imiyalezo yothando inokuba okanye kufanele ukuba isonka kunye nebhotolo kuzo zonke ubudlelwane obunxulumene nothando.