Umxholo
- Ziqaphele iimpawu zemiba yokusondelelana
- Qonda ulindelo lomnye nomnye
- Thetha ngezinto ezikukhathazayo
- Zazi izinto ezingaphandle
- Cinga ngemicimbi yezonyango
- Ukujongana nomthwalo weemvakalelo
Xa isibini sitshatile ixesha elide, banokufumana utshintsho kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kubudlelwane.
Banokuxakeka kakhulu ngumsebenzi kunye nolunye uxanduva lwemihla ngemihla, kwaye oko kungakhokelela kwelinye iqabane ukuba lizive ngathi alihoywanga.
Xa isibini singachithi ixesha elaneleyo kunye, emva koko Imicimbi yokusondelelana kubudlelwane inokuvela.
Kubalulekile emtshatweni ukuba isibini siziva sisondele omnye komnye ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Banokuzibona sele beshiya kude ukuba abasonjululi iingxaki zabo ngokukhawuleza.
Nazi ezinye zeendlela zokujongana neengxaki zokuthandana kunye nendlela yokoyisa imiba yokuthandana.
Jonga kwakhona: Iimpawu ozoyikayo ukusondelelana
Ziqaphele iimpawu zemiba yokusondelelana
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ujongane nengxaki yokusondelelana, kufuneka uqale uqonde ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bubonisa iimpawu zengxaki yokusondelelana.
Abantu abatshatileyo kufuneka bafunde ukuyamkela imiqondiso yemicimbi yokusondelelana, Kwaye kufuneka bazame ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni benengxaki ngokusondelelana kubudlelwane babo.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ukhathazekile ngokwesini okanye uziva ungonwabanga ngokusondelelana kubudlelwane bakho, ngokungathandabuzekiyo kukho ingxaki efuna ukulungiswa. Ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasemzimbeni kunxibelelene ngeendlela esingekaqondiyo ngokupheleleyo kuba unxibelelwano lunokwahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwisibini.
Nazi iimpawu ezicacileyo zokuba ubudlelwane bakho buphethwe yimicimbi yokusondelelana:
- Ungonwabanga ngokuba uvule ngokwasemphefumlweni
- Rhoqo ayifumaneki xa iqabane lakho likudinga
- Ulwalamano lwakho aluhlali ixesha elide (ngaphantsi konyaka)
- Ukuthandabuza ekwenzeni ukuzibophelela
- Ukuba ungathandeki ngokwesondo kwasekuqaleni kubudlelwane bakho
Qonda ulindelo lomnye nomnye
Okulindelweyo kuyinxalenye kunye nolwalamano kubo bonke ubudlelwane. Ukufezekiswa onokukufumana okanye ungakutholi kubudlelwane kuxhomekeke kwindlela olunge ngayo wena neqabane lakho ekuhlangabezaneni nolindelo lomnye nomnye.
Imicimbi yokuthandana ngokwasemzimbeni okanye imicimbi yokwabelana ngesondo emtshatweni inokwenzeka xa izibini zinolindelo olwahlukileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha, umntu kubudlelwane unokufuna ukusondelelana ngokomzimba kunenye.
Xa kungafezekiswa imfuno yasemzimbeni, iimvakalelo zokudana nokungakhathalelwa ziya kulandela.
Amaxesha amaninzi, indoda nomfazi banokuba nemibono eyahlukileyo malunga nokuba luyintoni na ulwalamano, kwaye ngenxa yoku, abazi ukuba bazanelisa njani iimfuno zabanye kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, bade baqale ukuphepha ukusondelelana.
Ke usondela njani kumntu onemicimbi yokusondelelana?
Unxibelelwano sisitshixo sokuqonda okulindelweyo kunye neemfuno zomnye nomnye. Abantu abatshatileyo kufuneka bathethe ngento abayifunayo, kwaye umntu ngamnye kufuneka akulungele ukulalanisa, ukuze bobabini baneliseke ngokwasemzimbeni.
Thetha ngezinto ezikukhathazayo
Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, unxibelelwano lubalulekile ekuqondeni iimfuno zeqabane lakho.
Kubalulekile kulwalamano ngalunye kwizibini ezitshatileyo ukuba zikwazi ukujongana nezona zinto zibangela imiba yokusondelelana kwaye zithethe malunga nokuba yeyiphi imiba yokusondelelana ekhubaza ulwalamano lwabo.
Bamele bavuleleke ngayo nayiphi na into ebaphazamisayo kunye nokubathintela ukuba basondele ngokwasemzimbeni kumaqabane abo. Kuya kufuneka bavuleke malunga nokungaqiniseki kwabo kunye noloyiko olubangela inhibition malunga nokusondelelana.
Imiba malunga nokuthembana kunye nokuzibophelela kufuneka kuxoxwe kubudlelwane bonke ukujongana nemicimbi yokusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo, ke iqabane liya kwazi ukuba lingenza njani ukuba bazive bekhuselekile kwaye bethandwa.
Zazi izinto ezingaphandle
Unobangela wemicimbi yokusondelelana kubudlelwane inokubangelwa zizinto zangaphandle esingazukulawula kakhulu. Abasetyhini abanemicimbi yokusondelelana okanye amadoda anemicimbi yokusondelelana banokuziva bekhuthazwa zizinto ezingaphandle komtshato okanye ubudlelwane.
Xa omnye okanye bobabini besibini bephazanyiswa ziingxaki emsebenzini okanye yimicimbi evela kubantu kwiintsapho zabo ezondeleyo, ukusondelelana kunokuchaphazeleka kakhulu.
Xa isibini sixinezelekile ngezinye izinto, ukusondelelana kuya kuba yinto yokugqibela engqondweni yabo.
Akukho mntu unokuthintela iingxaki ukuba zingenzeki.
Kodwa into onokuyenza kukuqonda ukuba ezi ngxaki ziyakuphazamisa ekusondeleni kwiqabane lakho. Bobabini indoda nomfazi kufuneka bafunde ukuthatha izinto nganye nganye kwaye bakwazi ukuhlala ngoku.
Funda ukuseta iingxaki zakho ecaleni kwaye uthathe ixesha lokujonga kwaye nothando kwiqabane lakho ngalo lonke ixesha ufumana ithuba lokuba wedwa.
Funda ukunxibelelana xa ungakwazi ukwenza njalo; thintela ukuba neqabane lakho linike iingxaki zokusondelana nazo okanye umgangatho wobudlelwane.
Cinga ngemicimbi yezonyango
Imicimbi yezonyango inokuba sisisulu semicimbi yokusondelelana emtshatweni. Impilo yomntu inokuchaphazela ngokubonakalayo umnqweno wesini kunye nokusebenza. Umzekelo, ukuba indoda ine-erectile dysfunction, iya kuchaphazela ukuzithemba kwayo ebhedini.
Uya kukuphepha ukusondelelana nenkosikazi yakhe, ke ayizukuyibona ingxaki.
Kwelinye icala, owasetyhini usenokungabi nawo umnqweno wesondo ngenxa yokungalingani kwehomoni, kwaye ukuba neentlobano zesini nomyeni wakhe kunokuba yinto ebuhlungu kunamava amnandi.
Ukuba u fumanisa ezi imiba echaphazela ubomi bakho bobulili kwaye uzibuze ukuba ungajongana njani nemicimbi yokuthandana, kuya kufuneka ufune uncedo kwaye ufumane unyango kwezi meko zonyango.
Ukujongana nomthwalo weemvakalelo
Okokugqibela, ukwazi ukuba ungamnceda njani umntu onemicimbi yokuthandana, izibini kufuneka zikwazi ukwabelana ngeentlungu kunye neentlungu zabo namaqabane abo.
Ukuba umntu kubudlelwane uziva enenzondo kwiqabane lakhe, emva koko isibini sinento esibaqhawulayo.
Abantu abatshatileyo kufuneka basebenze kunye ekufumaneni iindlela zokuphilisa amanxeba asemphefumlweni kunye nokusombulula nawuphina umbandela owenza ukuba babone amaqabane abo njengotshaba ngakumbi kunesithandwa.
Imiba yokuthandana emtshatweni akufuneki ihoywe. Xa iimfuno zomzimba zingahlangatyezwa, izibini zithambekele ekungathembekini, okanye okubi ngakumbi, ziwe eluthandweni. Nje ukuba uqaphele ukuba unale micimbi kubudlelwane bakho, thatha amanyathelo ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho neqabane lakho.