Umxholo
Ah ... L'amour. Amanqanaba okuqala okuthandana angangamava amyoli anokukwenza ungaboni iimpazamo zendalo yomthandi wakho. Kwabanye, ukuthandana ngamava okwamkelwa okupheleleyo komnye; ekwamkeleni nasekudumiseni ubuntu obuncinci bokuziphatha kunye nokwahluka kokuziphatha. Iimpahla ezimdaka ezisasazeke kuwo wonke umgangatho okanye intwana yosuku yamayeza okuhlamba amazinyo esinkini ayinakwa lula okanye isenokubonakala ngathi inomtsalane. Uthando lwethu olutsha alunakwenza nto iphosakeleyo. Sinokuziva ngathi isithandwa sethu sigqibelele kuba olu thando lutsha lusigqibezela, lusisindisa okomzuzwana ngexesha kubumbano lwethu kunye nokufa okuzayo.
Buyela kwinyani
Kodwa ... akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo. Okokugqibela, loo fog iyimfama yothando iqala ukuncipha kwaye iimpazamo kunye neziphene zabathandi bakho zicace gca. Ngandlel 'ithile ezo mpahla phantsi kunye nencindi yamazinyo ye-smudges iya kuba yingxaki ngakumbi. Kwizibini ezininzi, ukuvela kwisigaba se- "honeymoon" kunye nokubona ubunyani beqabane labo kunokuqalisa ixesha lokuphambana ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokungamkelwa. Ngelishwa, iimpawu ezazamkelwe kwaye zabonwa zinomtsalane kunokuba zezona mpawu ungazithandiyo kwaye ufuna ukuzitshintsha kwenye. Iimpawu ezibuyileyo ozifumene zinomtsalane xa wawudibana okokuqala, ngoku unokuziva ungonwabanga kwaye ngokungakumbi kukusilela kwamabhongo okanye ubuvila. Okanye mhlawumbi la mthandi unamabhongo kunye nolungelelanisiweyo owomeleze umoya wakho ekuqaleni, ngoku uba ngumntu oxinzelelekileyo ukuba ubekunye nawe.
Yamkela ukungafezeki okugqibeleleyo
Ubuhle bobudlelwane bezothando kukuba zihlala zenziwe ngabantu ababini abangafaniyo, abaneempawu ezahlukeneyo kunye nobuntu.Isibini esitshatileyo sichonga njani kwaye sikubeka njani ukungabikho kwento efanayo ngokwamkelwa kunokuba yinto enokulungiswa okanye yokuncamathelisa ubudlelwane babo. Ewe kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ayizizo zonke iindlela zokuziphatha okanye umahluko ekufuneka zamkelwe ngokungathandabuzekiyo kwi-coupledom. Iimpawu ezinje ngokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemphefumlweni nangokwasemzimbeni okanye ukuba nexabiso eliphambili kumaxabiso ziingqikelelo zobudlelwane obungenampilo, obungonelisiyo nobungakhuselekanga.
Ukusebenza ekwamkeleni iyantlukwano kwiqabane lakho kunokuba yinto efanelekileyo yokuzivocavoca wena neqabane lakho. Umkhuba wokwamkelwa uyakukhulula kuxinzelelo kunye nokungonwabi kwimizamo yakho elilize yokutshintsha iqabane lakho. Nje ukuba uyeke ukuzama ukutshintsha okanye ukulawula iqabane lakho kwaye wamkele iiyantlukwano zakho, ayizukuziva kuphela ukukhululeka, kodwa ubudlelwane bakho buya kuziva bunoxolo kwaye buhambelana.
Ngokwendalo, imeko yokwamkelwa kunokuba nzima ukuza nayo. Abanye abantu, oko kuthetha ukuyeka, ukungasebenzi ngokupheleleyo kunye / okanye ukwenza ukhetho olwahlukileyo lweqabane lakho, iimpawu kunye nokuziphatha. Nangona kunjalo, ukwamkelwa akufuneki kubonakaliswe ngaloo ndlela. Unokukhetha ukuchaza ukwamkelwa njengokuzimisela ukunyamezelana kwaye ubone okuhle kwezi ndlela ungazitshintshi.
Nazi iindlela ezi-5 zokuphilisa ubudlelwane bakho ngokwamkelwa:
- Yamkela ukuba iqabane lakho alikho kulawulo lwakho.
- Yamkela ukuba wena neqabane lakho anifezekanga.
- Yamkela ukuba iqabane lakho akufuneki lifane nawe.
- Yamkela ukuba wena neqabane lakho anizukuhlala nivuma.
- Yamkela ukuba kufuneka ukhumbule ukuhlala usebenza ukwamkelwa.
Ingcambu yongquzulwano lobudlelwane alunakuze lube malunga nempahla esemgangathweni okanye intlama yamazinyo. amaxesha amaninzi kulawulo, ukunqongophala kokuqonda kunye nokukwazi ukwamkela umohluko omnye komnye. Ke ukuba ufuna utshintsho olusempilweni kubudlelwane bakho kulo Nyaka umtsha, sebenzela ekuyekeni ukuxhathisa ngokweemvakalelo kukungafani kwendalo kweqabane lakho kwaye uvumele izinto zibe yile nto ziyiyo.