Umxholo
- Yintoni i-psychopath?
- Akukho luvelwano
- Akukho sazela
- Uvakalelo olunomoya wokuzibaluleka
- Banomtsalane kodwa abakhathali
- Ii-Psychopaths azinyanisekanga
- Ukuphonononga ubudlelwane bakho
Ayizokukoyikisa kodwa ukuba uku ubudlelwane be-psychopathic, yinto ekufuneka uyazi. Ngenxa yengqondo yakho nokuba ukhuseleko lwakho!
Ngelixa siqonda ukuba asichongi i-psychopath kwaye ukwenza njalo, uya kufuna uncedo lobungcali into yokugqibela ofuna ukuyenza kukuba kubudlelwane be-psychopath ngaphandle kokuqonda. Kungenxa yokuba kwiimeko ezininzi ukubambezeleka kakhulu kubudlelwane be-psychopath kunokuba kuhle kwaye kube semva kwexesha kakhulu-kunokuba ngumdlalo ongaphezulu kuwe okanye ngokuthetha ngokungafaniyo.
Ngoku konke kungabonakala kuyothusa kancinci, ke ngaphambi kokuba sikunike imiqondiso enokuthi ikwazise ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bubudlelwane be-psychopathic okanye akunjalo, kufuneka sazise ukuba silisebenzisa njani isigama esithi 'psychopath.'
Yintoni i-psychopath?
I-psychopath ayinayo imvakalelo, akukho mvakalelo yokuziva unetyala, uxanduva okanye ukuzisola, akukho luvelwano, ukuqonda ukuqonda amaxabiso abantu kunye nokuziva kwabo kukhetheke kakhulu ekucingeni okukhulu (malunga nabo). Bazithembile, bayabala, banobuqili kwaye banako (kwaye bahlala bexhoba kwiimvakalelo zabantu).
Ii-Psychopaths ziyayazi indlela yokutsala, kwaye ziyayazi indlela yokudlala abantu ukuze zixhamle ngokuxhomekeke kwiinjongo zazo eziqhele ukuba ziinjongo ezinxulumene neshishini okanye iinjongo ezanelisa iimfuno zabo ezigqwethekileyo okanye ezigqwethekileyo.
Ayizizo zonke ii-psychopaths ezithatha ubomi, kodwa ezinye zezona zenzo zolwaphulo-mthetho zimanyumnyezi ziye zenziwa yi-psychopath. IHollywood ngokuqinisekileyo iyichaza ngokuchanekileyo i-psychopaths. Nangona kunjalo, baninzi abesilisa nabasetyhini abaqhelekileyo abane-psychopaths-ayizizo zonke izinto eziyinyani ezifanele ukubandakanywa kumdlalo bhanyabhanya owoyikisayo, kodwa zonke ii-psychopaths zinakho ukwenza njalo ukuba ziyafuna.
Malunga ne-1% yabemi ngokubanzi kunye ne-3% yeenkokheli zeshishini zii-psychopaths ngokophando olupapashwe kwiNzululwazi yezeNzululwazi kunye noMthetho, ngo-2010. .
Uninzi lwabantu 'abaqhelekileyo' mhlawumbi bangangcangcazela xa becinga ukuba bakubudlelwane be-psychopathic, kodwa ingxaki kukuba, abanye ngekhe bazi ukuba banjalo!
Nazi ezinye zeempawu zokuba ukwi-psychopath ubudlelwane.
Akukho luvelwano
Ukuba ulwalamano lwe-psychopathic, iqabane lakho okanye iqabane lakho alisoze, asiphindi silufumane uvelwano lweqabane lakho.
Abanazo. Okwenza oku kube luphawu olucacileyo lokuba ujongana nomnye umntu onesifo sokuziphatha kwaye unokukunceda uqonde ukuba kutheni benokwenza izigqibo abazenzayo ngaphandle kokujonga imeko yabanye (ngakumbi ukuba bakwezeshishini ).
Nangona kunjalo, ii-psychopaths zilumkile, ziyayazi indlela yokulinganisa kunye nokusebenzisa iimvakalelo zabantu, kwaye ke, kunokuba nzima ukubona ukuba iqabane lakho alinalo uvelwano ekuqaleni. Kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha, ngakumbi ukuba awubazisi ukuba ujonge ukubonakalisa uvelwano ngokuqinisekileyo baya kukushiyela imikhondo.
Bazise ukuba ujonge kodwa kwaye bayakufumana indlela yokuyichaza-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungavumeli iqabane lakho lazi into oyifunayo kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha uza kuqala ubone imibala yokwenyani yeqabane lakho. .
Akukho sazela
I-psychopath ayizukucinga kabini malunga nokuxoka, ukukopela, ukutyhala imida, ukungazihloniphi naziphi na iikhowudi zokuziphatha, ukophula imithetho njalo njalo.
Abakhathali ngenxa yokuba abanakukhathalela!
Ngokuqinisekileyo unokuba kubudlelwane be-psychopathic kunye 'nokusebenza kwengqondo' ofunde indlela yokwenza ukuba baziphathe ngendlela eyamkelekileyo eluntwini, kodwa masenze ukuba kungabikho mathambo malunga nayo (i-pun eyenzelweyo) abayikhathalelanga le nto isimilo. Benza nje into ekufuneka bayenzile ukufezekisa iinjongo zabo, kwaye ukuba ukobudlelwane be-psychopathic, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqaphela iiflegi ezimbalwa ezibomvu xa kuziwa kwizimvo zeqabane lakho nakwizenzo zokuziphatha.
Uvakalelo olunomoya wokuzibaluleka
Olu phawu lufana mpela neempawu zembali. Nangona kunjalo, i-narcissist kufuneka izive ibalulekile ngokwemigangatho yayo. Ngelixa i-psychopath ibalulekile (ngokutsho kwabo), kwaye abanayo imigangatho abayifunayo okanye abayifunayo ukuze baphile kwaye akukho mfuneko okanye mnqweno wokubaluleka. Kwi-psychopath ukuzibaluleka kwabo yile nto iyiyo-akukho nto iyenye-nokuba ingaphezulu kwaye inyanisile.
Ukuba uyayiqonda indlela oziva ngayo ukuba ubaluleke kakhulu kwiqabane lakho, kunye neminye yale miqondiso unokuba ulwalamano lwe-psychopathic.
Banomtsalane kodwa abakhathali
Ii-Psychopaths ziyathandeka ngalo lonke ixesha, ngelixa i-narcissist inokuthi ekugqibeleni iyeke ukuba ilinde kwaye ibonise icala elimnyama. I-psychopath inokugcina isenzo ixesha elide njengoko kufuneka kwaye kubaluleke ngakumbi ngokude kube yimfuneko.
I-Psychopaths yindawo yokuqala yengcuka enxibe impahla yegusha.
Ngelixa banokungaze bakuyeke ukulinda ngokwaneleyo ukuze uqaphele ukuba esi sisenzo, uya kukubona ukubanda emva komtsalane, (ubuncinci ngokuhamba kwexesha) okuya kukwazisa (kunye neminye yale miqondiso) Unokuba kubudlelwane be-psychopathic.
Ii-Psychopaths azinyanisekanga
Ii-Psychopaths zinokuba ngabadlali abalungileyo kodwa kunokuba lula ukuzibona xa zinganyanisekanga kuba zingenakuziva iimvakalelo ezinje ngabantu abaqhelekileyo, kwaye ngenxa yokuba zingenako 'ukukhathalela'.
Oku kuthetha ukuba kunokuba lula ukubona xa i-psychopath inganyanisekanga kufuneka uqaphele ukuphefumla, ukuhamba kwamehlo kunye nokufunda phakathi kwemigca (sukuxelela iqabane lakho into oyenzayo).
Awunakulinganisa into ongayaziyo ukuba kufuneka uyilingise. I-Psychopaths inyusa ukuzithemba kudibene nokungabikho kokuqonda okwenyani malunga nokuba kunjani 'ukuziva' kuthetha ukuba baya kukufumanisa kunzima ukulingisa ukunyaniseka kwaye bakuncede uchonge ukuba ingaba ukwintsebenziswano ye-psychopathic.
Ukuphonononga ubudlelwane bakho
Ezi zimbalwa zeempawu zengqondo yengqondo - zininzi ngakumbi. Ukuba ulwalamano lwe-psychopath, nokuba uziva 'ukhuselekile' kunokuba kufanelekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo ukuba uyafuna ukuqhubeka nobudlelwane okanye uzikhulule.
Amathuba awufumani iimfuno zakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo i-psychopath ayinalo uthando okanye intlonipho (nokuba banokuzenza ngathi). Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokushiya kodwa qiniseka ukuba wenza uphando ngendlela yokushiya ubudlelwane be-psychopath ukuze wenze njalo ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye uqiniseke ukuba ugubungela iingoma zakho-kubandakanya nembali yakho yesikhangeli.