Umxholo
Iingcinga ezintle, ukucinga okuhle, okanye ukugxila kokuqinisekileyo kubaluleke kakhulu ngalo mzuzu.
Kwakhona, Amandla okuzithemba kubudlelwane akufuneki ajongelwe phantsi njengoko sijamelene nale ngxaki.
Iingcinga ezintle bezisoloko zibalulekile kum. Ndifunde i-psychoanalysis ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-30, kwaye ndiyawaqonda amandla wamagama. Amagama esiwasebenzisela thina kunye namagama asetyenziswa ngabanye xa bethetha nathi anamandla.
Isidingo sokholo kunye nethemba
Njengokuphela komntwana wabazali abasuka kwamanye amazwe owayekhathazwe kakhulu, ubomi basekhaya babusoloko buthule. Kwaye kuthe cwaka, kukho imfuneko yokuba nethemba kunye nethemba.
Namhlanje sizifumana siphakathi kweyona ngxaki inkulu ebomini bethu. Indibuyisele kwinto esiyenzileyo xa sisebancinci, kwaye asiva ngokwaneleyo amagama.
Ngamanye amaxesha sifumana ubugcisa obuvumela ukuba sisebenzise amagama ngendlela enokuthi ichaphazele abanye.
Abantu bafumana indlela yokufumana into abayifunayo ngamanye amaxesha. Rhoqo kuba sisamkela ukuba nethemba kuhambo lwethu.
Ngamaxesha anzima, amagama akhuthazayo anokusihambisa yonke imihla.
Inyaniso kukuba, la ngamaxesha anzima. Amaxesha okungaqiniseki. Ngelixa sijamelene nala maxesha okungaqiniseki, sisenokuqala ntsasa nganye ngengcinga enye; ingcinga yokuba nethemba kunye nokuhlala unethemba.
Sinokuba nombulelo ngemini entsha. Ukuba siqala usuku olutsha kwaye iingcinga ezimbi ziza kuthi, sinamandla okuphinda siqwalasele. Ekugqibeleni, ukuba nethemba ebomini kuya kuba lukhetho.
Ukudala ulwalamano kubudlelwane bethu
Abantwana kufuneka baqonde ngaxa lithile ukuba ukucinga okwenyani kunokutshintsha yonke ingqondo yethu.
Ingqondo yethu yingcinga yethu kunye neenkolelo zethu. Siphendula kwaye siphendule ngokusekwe kwisimo sethu sengqondo nakwiinkolelo.
Amandla okuzithemba kubudlelwane anokwandisa abantwana bethu. Singawajonga ngokungathi yimisebenzi eqhubekayo, okanye sinokukhetha ukubona indlela abaziphethe ngayo njengengxaki enkulu.
Ukuba ngumzali kwisimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kunokumisela ukuba siza kusebenza njani kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuchaphazele iziphumo.
Enye indawo apho isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo sinokutshintsha ubomi bethu kukuthandana. Indlela esijongana ngayo neengxabano okanye imiba ethile ichonga indlela esiza kuphendula ngayo kumaqabane ethu kunye nendlela abanokuphendula ngayo kuthi.
Ukuba asiwasebenzisi amandla okuphucula ubudlelwane, sinokukhetha umsindo, kwaye oku kuya kuchaphazela abanye.
Sinokukhetha ukusebenzisa amagama akhuthazayo. Nokuba iimeko zomsebenzi. Ngobuhlobo nosapho. Amandla okuzithemba sisitshixo sempumelelo.
Inyani yobomi yeyokuba kukho ubunzima kunye neembambano, kodwa singazilungisa ngempumelelo ngakumbi ngokuzithemba.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokwenza, zokuzilolonga, kunye nokugcina amandla ezinto ezintle kubudlelwane.
- Ziqhelise ukubulela kwaye ugcine iphepha lokubulela
- Sebenzisa uburharha, nokuba ubukele ii-comedies okanye iincwadi njl.
- Chitha ixesha nabantu abathembekileyo (cinga malunga nokuba ngubani okwisangqa sakho)
- Ziqhelise ukuthetha ngokuzithemba / ukuqinisekiswa okuqinisekileyo
- Qaphela iingcinga zakho ezimbi okanye utyekelo
- Zilolonge rhoqo kwaye utye ukutya okusempilweni, okunesondlo
- Ukubekwa kwimozulu okanye isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo sinokufundiswa kwaye sifunde. Kuziqhelanisa.