Umxholo
- Ithini iBhayibhile ngokugula ngengqondo emtshatweni?
- Kuphephe ukusebenzisa iilebheli
- Zama ukuyamkela imeko yeqabane lakho
Ukugula ngengqondo kwandile kwaye kunefuthe kubantu esibaziyo, esibathandayo nabajongwa kubo.
UKatherine Noel Brosnahan, owaziwa njenge-Kate Spade odumileyo, wayengusomashishini ongusomashishini wase Melika. Uzibulale ngokuzixhoma nangona ebenomyeni nentombi.
Ke yintoni ebangele ukuba enze lento?
Kuyavela ukuba uKate Spade wayenokugula ngengqondo kwaye wayenengxaki kuyo iminyaka ngaphambi kokuba azibulale. Kwakunjalo nompheki kunye nomsasazi kamabonakude u-Anthony Bourdain, umlingisi waseHollywood uRobin Williams kunye noSophie Gradon, inkwenkwezi ethi "Love Island" nayo yasweleka emva kokulwa nexhala noxinzelelo.
Abantu abadumileyo sijonga kubo, kwaye abantu abasingqongileyo ngaxa lithile bajongana nokugula ngengqondo.
Makhe sijonge inkolo kumzamo wokuqonda ukuba ithini na iBhayibhile malunga nokujongana nokugula ngengqondo emtshatweni.
Ithini iBhayibhile ngokugula ngengqondo emtshatweni?
Ungenza ntoni xa ufumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho ligula ngengqondo? Unokoyika ukuba isigulo sinokubangela isiphithiphithi kunye nokuphazamiseka kulwalamano lwakho? Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kule meko kukunceda iqabane lakho kwaye uzame ukuqonda iingxaki ahlangabezana nazo. Ukutshata nomntu onesifo sengqondo kunokuthetha ukuba uxanduva lwakho lukhulu emagxeni akho. Ukujongana nokugula ngengqondo kunye neengxaki zomtshato kunye ayisiyonto ilula leyo kodwa iBhayibhile inolwazi olukhanyisayo kuwe. Funda ukuba ithini na iBhayibhile ngomtshato nomntu ogula ngengqondo.
IBhayibhile iyawuchaza umtshato kunye nemicimbi yempilo yengqondo ngokuthi:
Ngobulumko
“Musani ukuxhalela nantoni na, kodwa ezintweni zonke zaziseni izibongozo zenu kuThixo ngomthandazo nesikhungo nombulelo. Lwaye uxolo lukaThixo, olugqithisele kuko konke ukuqonda, luya kuzigcina iintliziyo zenu neengqiqo zenu kuKristu Yesu. (KwabaseFilipi 4: 6-7)
Ithini iBhayibhile ngokutshata nomntu onengxaki yempilo yengqondo?
Ithi akukho mfuneko yokukhathazeka okanye ukuxhalaba. Ukuba uthandaza kwaye uphatha iqabane lakho kakuhle, uThixo uyayimamela imithandazo yakho kwaye uya kukukhusela nakweyiphi na intlekele kunye neentlekele.
Khuthaza iqabane lakho ukuba lifikelele kunyango olufanelekileyo lwezonyango kunye nolwezengqondo. Inkxaso yakho kunye nomonde kwiqabane lakho kubalulekile.
INdumiso 34: 7-20
“Xa amalungisa edanduluka, uYehova uyaweva aze awasindise kuzo zonke iinkxwaleko zabo. Usondele uYehova kwabantliziyo zaphukileyo, Abasindise abamoya utyumkileyo. Buninzi ububi obulihlelayo ilungisa, Ke uYehova ulihlangula kubo bonke. Uyawagcina onke amathambo alo; akukho nalinye kuwo elaphulwayo.
Njengoko kukhankanyiwe kwezi ndinyana zingasentla, uThixo akabatyesheli abantu abanezifo zengqondo. IBhayibhile ithetha ngeengxaki zempilo yeemvakalelo. Kukho iindlela zokulawula ubunzima bokugula ngengqondo kwaye uchume.
Uthini uThixo ngabantu abagula ngengqondo? Uhlala enabo, ebanika amandla kunye nezikhokelo
Nangona icawe yanamhlanje ikhetha ukungawuphenduli lo mbandela rhoqo oko akuthethi ukuba iBhayibhile ayithethi ngawo. Ukuba utshatile nomntu onengxaki yokugula ngengqondo, zikhona izinto onokuzenza ukubanceda ngamaxesha anzima.
Ukugula ngengqondo kunokuba nzima ukukulawula kodwa wena kunye neqabane lakho ninokusebenzisana, nibe ngumqolo omnye ngexesha elinzima, kwaye nigcine ubudlelwane obunempilo nobonwabisayo.
Ingcebiso ngokujongana neqabane eligula ngengqondo
Kuphephe ukusebenzisa iilebheli
Ukubiza umfazi okanye umyeni wakho "njengomntu ogula ngengqondo oxinezelekileyo" akuncedi nto kwaye kuyingozi.
Endaweni yoko, kufuneka uchaze iimpawu, funda ngakumbi malunga nokufumana isifo kwaye emva koko uqalise inkqubo yonyango kwangoko. Musa ukohlwaya iqabane lakho ngokuba nemicimbi yempilo yengqondo. Ukugula kwengqondo yeqabane lakho asiyonto bayikhethileyo, kodwa yinto enokulawulwa kwaye inyangwe.
Zama ukuyamkela imeko yeqabane lakho
Amaqabane amaninzi asilele ukufunda ngakumbi malunga nokulwa kwabo nabanye okubalulekileyo kwimpilo yengqondo.
Ukukhetha ukuhlala ekukhanyeleni kwaye wenze ngathi akukho nto ayilunganga. Ngokwenza oku, uvala iqabane lakho ngaphandle ngexesha apho bakudinga khona kakhulu. Endaweni yoko hlala phantsi kunye nenkosikazi / umyeni wakho ubacele ukuba bathethe ngokuphandle ngeemvakalelo zabo.
Zifundise ngokugula kwabo kwaye ufunde indlela yokuthetha nabo ukuze ubenze bazive bexhaswa.
Buza iqabane lakho ukuba bangathanda ukufumana uvavanyo. Ukuba novavanyo kunye nokuqonda isifo kunokunceda iqabane lakho lifikelele kunyango olufanelekileyo. Khuthaza iqabane lakho ukuba lityelele ugqirha kwaye mhlawumbi lifune ingcebiso.
Cinga ukubeka imida ethile; ukuba semtshatweni kuthetha ukuthwala ubuthathaka kunye nobunzima beqabane lakho, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba uyabenza obo buthathaka. Ukugula ngengqondo yinto enzima ukudlula kuyo kodwa iyanyangeka.
Ithini ibhayibhile ngempilo yengqondo?
Xa ujonga iqabane lakho ngexesha lokudinga kwabo, kubalulekile ukuba uhlale unxibelelana noThixo. IBhayibhile iyathetha ngokugula ngengqondo; mhlawumbi hayi kubunzulu esinqwenela ukuba benziwe, kodwa ulwazi olulungileyo luphakathi, nangona kunjalo. Ukuba uphelelwe lithemba, khumbula le vesi “Lonke ixhala lenu liphoseni kuye, ngokuba yena enikhathalele.” (1 Petros 5: 7)