Umxholo
- Uyintoni ke umphefumlo wethu?
- Uthando, isondo, umtshato kunye nabantwana
- Ukuhambelana ngokomoya, ukudibanisa, kunye nomphefumlo wethu
- Umoya kunye nomtshato
Umtshato, isondo, kunye nokuthandana kuthandeka ngokunzulu ngokomoya.
Kukho izazinzulu ezenza konke okusemandleni azo ukubonisa ukuba zonke iimvakalelo ziyimpembelelo yombane kwingqondo yethu ephendula kwincindi yamadlala okanye kwithuku. Kodwa khange bazikhathaze ngokuchaza ukuba kutheni le nto iimpembelelo zombane zisenza ukuba sizive ngendlela esivakalelwa ngayo.
Siyazi ukuba zikhona iimvakalelo kwaye siyazi ukuba kukho amandla ngaphakathi nangaphandle komzimba wethu anefuthe kwimood yethu ngokubanzi. Ngaphandle koko, iimpembelelo zombane zikwaluhlobo lwamandla.
Ke, yintoni enento yokwenza nomtshato, isondo, kunye nokuthandana?
Kude kube izazinzulu zingqina ngolunye uhlobo ngethiyori eziphonononge oontanga, iimvavanyo zeklinikhi, kunye novavanyo lwesayensi olungaqhelekanga, siyazi ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo anengqiqo yokuba ukuthandana kuyaphakama ngaphakathi komphefumlo wethu (ongavunyelwanga ukuba ubekhona okanye awukho).
Uyintoni ke umphefumlo wethu?
Kuxhomekeke kubani oyicelayo ngokwenene, wonke umntu ukusuka kwi-esoterics yobudala obutsha ukuya kumawakawaka iinkolelo ezindala zonqulo, unoluvo.
Into esiyaziyo kukuba kukho into enzulu ngaphakathi kuthi enzima kakhulu kwi-biology yanamhlanje ukuyichaza ngokwaneleyo kodwa iqinisekisiwe. Into esabela kwisikhuthazo kwaye isenze senze, sisabele, kwaye sizive ngeendlela ezichaseneyo nengqiqo.
Ngoku siyazi ukuba sinqwenela isondo kuba ukuzala yenye yeendlela zethu eziphambili zokuphila kweentlobo. Kodwa nokuba siyayinqwenela, ayenzi ukuba sifune ukulala nomntu wonke.
Ngokobuchwephesha, sinokwabelana ngesondo namalungu osapho lwethu, kwaye ezinye ii-weirdos zenza, kodwa uninzi lwabantu alunakuze luyicinge loo nto.
Ngaba ziiPheromones? Ndiqinisekile ukuba abantu abaninzi bafuna ukulala nomntu ababone kumabonwakude. Ndiyathandabuza ukuba ivumba labo okanye nasiphi na isithuthi esisebenzisa i-pheromones ukufikelela kwabanye sinokuchaphazela umntu onesiqingatha sehlabathi ngamaza e-RF kunye nokukhuthaza umntu kwelinye icala lesikrini seCRT / LCD. Ngokukodwa, ukuba ayisosasazo bukhoma.
Ngaba kukubona? Ngokunokwenzeka, uninzi lwabantu lusabela ngokwesondo kubuso obuhle, ukucoca okucacileyo, kunye neemoto ezintle.
Kodwa ngaba bayathandana? Andiyiqondi.
Kweli xesha lenkululeko yezesondo, abantu ngokungathandabuzekiyo baba neentlobano zesini nabanye, kubandakanya nabanye abantu besini esifanayo. Kodwa ukuba ubuza nabani na ukuba kukho umahluko phakathi kokulala nomntu ongamaziyo kunye nomntu abamthandayo, baya kuhlala besithi ewe.
Ke yintoni umahluko?
Uthando ngumahluko ngokucacileyo, (kuba besesitshilo kulo mbuzo) kodwa ngumphefumlo wethu odibanisa nomphefumlo womnye umntu kwibala elifanayo eliguqula izinto. Yenza umahluko wehlabathi ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.
Umphefumlo wethu yinto engaphakathi kuthi edibanisa nehlabathi elisingqongileyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto sikhumbula abantu, i-sushi eyiyo, kunye nokubukela uRoss noRachel kubahlobo.
Uthando, isondo, umtshato kunye nabantwana
Xa umntwana wethu ezelwe, nokuba iqabane ngumntu esingakwazanga ukuma simjonge kwakhona. Kutheni sisamthanda umntwana? Ayenzanga nto kuthi, ayikaze yenze nantoni na ukusonwabisa, asazi nokuba izokhula njengesigebenga kwaye isitye siphila.
Into esiyaziyo, ngelo xesha lelo xesha. Siyamthanda umntwana wethu. Senza nje. Asinakucacisa ukuba kutheni.
Inzululwazi ithi umama womntwana ukhupha iihomoni ukuvusa ubume bakhe bokukhusela. Kukhulu, ayichazi ukuba kutheni utata evakalelwa ngendlela efanayo. Kukho into esisondeza ngokwasemoyeni, nakusana olusandul 'ukuzalwa olungakhange lwenze nenye into ukufumana uthando lwethu. Ayinamibandela, iyenzeka nje.
Kodwa ukuba umphefumlo wethu udibana nesushi, kutheni ingazukubambana nayo yonke into esehlabathini? Kungenxa yokuba ayifuni. Akuhambelani, yiyo loo nto abanye abantu bemthanda uJustin Bieber ngelixa abanye befuna ukumkhupha ulusu ephila.
Ukuhambelana ngokomoya, ukudibanisa, kunye nomphefumlo wethu
Ke siyabathanda abantwana bethu, nabo bayasithanda. Bancinci kakhulu ukuba bangazi nto, abazi nokuba bazibambe njani izibilini zabo, kodwa bayasithemba ngobomi babo. Ukuba ayilothando, andazi ukuba yintoni.
Kuthi abantu abadala, abanethemba lokuvuthwa ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangangcolisi indawo esihlala kuyo kunye nelindle lethu, siziva okuthile malunga nezinto ezithile. Ezinye izinto esizithandayo kwaye sizikhathalele, ezinye izinto sifuna ukuzitshisa esihogweni ngonaphakade.
Kodwa siyaziva. Umphefumlo wethu unxibelelana ngokwasemoyeni nezinto esizisebenzisayo, yiyo loo nto ngamanye amaxesha sibona, siva, sinuka, okanye singcamla into okokuqala kwaye sele siyazi ukuba yinto esiyifunayo ebomini bethu okanye hayi.
Ngokufanelekileyo, sitshata umntu esimthandayo kwaye simkhathalele kunye nayo yonke into yethu, kwaye baziva ngendlela efanayo ngathi. Umntu esimthandayo kangangokuba emva komhla omfutshane kwibhalkoni sikulungele ukusela ityhefu okanye ukuzihlaba kunokuba sahlukane.
Ukuhambelana kwethu kokomoya kunqabile kubude obufanayo.
Ingxaki akukho bhola yekristale yokulinganisa ukuba simthanda kangakanani umntu. Ke siyamthemba lowo simthandayo kwaye sithemba okona kulungileyo.
Umoya kunye nomtshato
Uninzi lweenkolo ezahlukeneyo ezineenkolelo ezahlukeneyo ziyavuma ukuba kukho into yobuthixo emitshatweni. Ukufumana umntu okhethekileyo kubantu abayiibhiliyoni ezisixhenxe zizinto ezincinci kunokuba uphumelele i-lottery yelizwe.
AmaKristu akholelwa ukuba ngumthendeleko.
Kukho into engummangaliso malunga nokufumana umphefumlo olangazelela owakho kangangokuba bazimisele ukubeka imizimba yabo kuwe.
Umtshato ungaphezulu kwesivumelwano nje esisemthethweni, kukufumana umphefumlo wakho. Umntu omnye owenza uzive ukonwaba ngaphaya kwento owawukhe waziva ngaphambili, iihormones ziyagwetywa.
Ukuba Uthando luphathelene nemvelo kunye nokuzala, kutheni le nto siphosa abantu xa bengekho? Siyawazi umahluko xa sikhumbula umntu kuba sifuna ukumjija. Kodwa yahlukile, siyabakhumbula kwinqanaba elahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Ifana nento engaphakathi kuthi, kodwa ingeyiyo inxalenye yomzimba wethu, efuna ukubakhona phambi kwaloo mntu.
Kwaye kubuhlungu, kubuhlungu emzimbeni. Kodwa akukho sixhobo sonyango okanye ugqirha uya kufumanisa ukuba kutheni.