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Umxholo
- Iimpawu zesini
- Yintoni i-asexuality engeyiyo:
- Ezinye zeentsomi eziqhelekileyo malunga ne-asexuality:
- I-Asexourse kunye nokuthandana
- Kunjani ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kwi-asexual?
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngabantu besini esichazayo ukuba umntu akanamdla kwisini. Ayifanelanga ukubhideka nomntu owenza ukungatshati (yithi, ngenxa yezizathu zonqulo) okanye umntu ongabelani ngesondo (ngenxa yokugula, iimeko, izizathu zonqulo okanye ukhetho lwangabom). Abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye abatsalelekanga nakweziphi na izini, nangona kunjalo unako Unobuhlobo kunye nobudlelwane. Oku akubandakanyi icandelo lezesondo. I-Asexual ikhona kuwo onke amanqanaba oluntu, izityebi ngamahlwempu, abafundileyo nabangafundanga. Bamele i-1% yabemi behlabathi. Abanxibi naluphi na uhlobo lwempahla olunokubenza babonakale lula; eneneni, kuye kwabhekiselwa kubo “njengotyekelo olungabonakaliyo.”
Iimpawu zesini
Yintoni i-asexuality:
Njengazo zonke izazisi zesini, umbono wokuziphatha ngokwesini ukhona kwimbonakalo. Uninzi lwee-asexuals, ezikwabizwa ngokuba zii "aces", zikwicala elinye lolo hlobo, apho zine-zero sex drive ukuya kuso nasiphi na isini. Umnqweno wabo wesondo awukho. Abanamdla wokuchukumiseka ngokwasemzimbeni, abanamnqweno wokugona, ukuwola okanye ukuncamisa. Kukho ii-asexual, nangona kunjalo, zanele kukunqwenela ngokwesondo ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kubanele, kodwa abanamnqweno wokuzibandakanya ngokwesondo nabanye.
Ngokuchasene noko umntu anokucinga, ii-asexuals zinqwenela ubudlelwane obusondeleyo babantu.
Uninzi luvuleleke kubudlelwane bezothando apho ukwanga okanye ukukhumbana kwamkelekile. Kuzo zonke i-asexual ezichonga njengokucekiswa okanye ukungakhathaleleki malunga nokwabelana ngesondo, kukho abanye abathandanayo kwaye banobomi obusebenzayo ngokwesondo, kodwa ngakumbi kulonwabo lweqabane labo kunabo.
Ngokwesiqhelo, ukuba ii-asexual ziyinto yomzimba kunye neqabane, abayi kufuna ukuya ngaphaya kokumanga okanye ukuwola. Nantoni na eyenye ibonakala ingathandeki kubo.
Ngokwesiqhelo, ukuba umhla wabo unxibe into eshushu nenomdla, ayibachaphazeli konke konke.
Bakhathalele ngakumbi ngobuntu babo bomhla hayi ngomzimba wabo.
Iimuvi ezithandekayo azinampembelelo kubo.
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ngaba ungaba ngu-asexual, nantsi eminye imibuzo enokukunceda ufumane ingcaciso:
- Ngaba ngokubanzi awunamdla wokwabelana ngesondo naye nawuphi na umntu? (Ayisiyiyo ngenxa yokukruquka liqabane lakho kodwa ngokubanzi)
- Ngaba umdla wakho kwisini ungaphezulu kwesayensi kunemvakalelo?
- Ngaba uziva ushiyiwe okanye udidekile xa abanye bexoxa ngesondo? Njengoko ungayiqondi ukuba yintoni yonke le ngxabano nedrama emalunga nayo?
- Ukuba uye walala ngesondo, ngaba ucinga ukuba ibuthuntu okanye iyadika, kwaye ayisiyiyo amava amangalisayo abanye abantu abayenzileyo?
- Wakhe waziva ngathi kufuneka ubonakalise umdla wesondo?
- Ngaba wakhe waziva ngathi kukho into engalunganga kuwe ngenxa yokuba ungabinazo iimvakalelo zesondo ezinje ngezo zikungqongileyo?
- Ngaba uke waphuma nomntu okanye walala ngesondo ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukufumana oko wonke umntu wayethetha ngako, kodwa kungengenxa yokuba wayeziva ngathi yinto engokwemvelo yokwenza?
- Ngaba awukhe utsaleleke ngokwesini nakwesiphi na esinye isini?
- Ngaba uziva kungekho sidingo sokwenza isondo sibe yinxalenye yobomi bakho?
- Ngaba awunamnqweno wokwazisa ngesondo kubudlelwane bakho?
Yintoni i-asexuality engeyiyo:
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ngesini akufani nokuziyeka ngokuzithandela.
- Ubungqingili asikokungatshati ngokuzithandela.
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ngesini ayisiyiyo ingxaki yempilo yengqondo
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ngabantu abathandanayo ayisiyonto ngabom
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ngesini ayikokungalingani kwehomoni.
- Ukulalana kwabantu besini esahlukileyo akuyoyiko lokwabelana ngesondo okanye ubudlelwane.
Ezinye zeentsomi eziqhelekileyo malunga ne-asexuality:
- Abazange badibane nomntu olungileyo okwangoku
- Zimbi kwaye azifumani qabane lakho lokwabelana ngesondo
- Ayinakuba yinyani; ichasene nendaleko
- Awusoze ubone abantu abanomdla abazichonga njenge-asexual
- Ayisiyo -exexuality. Kukuqhuba ngesondo okuphantsi
- Ukuba unike nje iihormone ezenziwa ngokwesini, ukuqhuba kwabo ngesondo kuya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo
- Ukuziphatha ngokwesini kukugula ngengqondo
- Ubungqingili yinto eyiminyaka eliwaka; khange ibekho de umbono uqale ukujikeleza kwi-intanethi.
- Abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye bacinezela iminqweno yabo yesini
- Ubungqingili bunokunyangeka
- Abantu abathandana nabantu besini esahlukileyo banamaxhala ezesondo
Abantu abathandana nabantu besini esahlukileyo abangoobufanasini. Njengokuba bengenawo umnqweno wesini kubantu besini esahlukileyo, abanamnqweno wesini ngokubhekisele kwisini sabo.
I-Asexourse kunye nokuthandana
I-Asexual, njengabanye abantu, iyabuthanda ubudlelwane. Umahluko omkhulu kwii-asexuals, nangona kunjalo, akukho nto yesini kubudlelwane babo bothando.
Bayakwazi ukuziva uthando. Luthando nje olungenanto yakwenza nayo.
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ubudlelwane be-asexual busebenza kakuhle phakathi kwabantu ababini abathandanayo. Kukho amaqonga okuthandana okuququzelela oku, njengeAsexualitic kunye asexualcupid.com.
Kunjani ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kwi-asexual?
Ewe, akunjalo kwahlukile ekuthandaneni xa umntu esabelana ngesondo, ngaphandle kokuba abazibandakanyi kwezesondo, okanye nantoni na engaphaya kokuncamisa (ukuba kunjalo). Abaziva nto xa bechukumisa omnye umntu, xa iqabane labo lihamba ze, okanye xa bechukumisa iindawo ezinobungozi zeqabane labo. Akukho kulungiswa kwindoda, akukho lubrication yelungu lobufazi kowasetyhini. Basenokuba nomdlalo weqonga, imibuzo, ungquzulwano kwaye, kwicala elilungileyo, unxibelelwano, iqhina kunye nolonwabo ekwabelwana ngalo olungafunyanwa ngabantu abangafaniyo kubudlelwane babo.
Ukuba unomdla wokufunda ngakumbi malunga nokuziphatha, nceda undwendwele iwebhusayithi ye-AVEN.