Umxholo
- Umtshato uyilungele impilo yakho
- Yindawo enempilo yabantwana
- Iphepha-mvume lomtshato likufumanela zonke iintlobo zamalungelo
- Unokufumana izibonelelo zemali
- Ukutshata kunokukwenza (kwaye ugcine) wonwabile
- Ezinye izibonelelo
Kwakukho nexesha apho umtshato wawuyinxalenye yesiko lethu. Nangona kunjalo, ukusukela nge1960s, umtshato wehlile kufutshane neepesenti ezingama-72. Oku kuthetha ukuba sisiqingatha kuphela sabemi baseMelika abakwilwalamano lomtshato.
Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa ngokutsho kwePew Research Center, amaxesha ali-15 isixa sezibini ngoku ezihlala kunye kunokuba bezinjalo kwiminyaka yama-60, kwaye ama-40 eepesenti abantu abangatshatanga bakholelwa ukuba umtshato awusibambi isidingo okanye ukubaluleka njengoko wawusenza ngaphambili.
Ngelishwa, kuninzi, a iphepha lomtshato ayikho enye into eyiphepha nje.
Abanye banokuthi ukuba loo mbono yaxoxwa kwinkundla yomthetho, kuyathakazelisa ukuba itayitile yendlu okanye itayitile yemoto ayibonwa nje "njengesiqwenga sephepha" -kwaye baya kuba nengxoxo efanelekileyo. Umtshato ayilulo nje ulwalamano phakathi kwabantu abathandanayo.
Ke yintoni ilayisensi yomtshato? kwaye yintoni injongo yelayisensi yomtshato? Ngamagama alula, luxwebhu olufunyenwe sisibini esikhutshwe yicawa okanye ligunya likarhulumente elibanika igunya lokutshata.
Umtshato ukwisivumelwano esisemthethweni kunye nesivumelwano esibophelelayo. Ke, xa abantu ababini begqiba ekubeni babe ngamaqabane obomi ngoncedo lwelayisensi yomtshato kunye nomsitho womtshato, kukho okuninzi izibonelelo eziza nayo.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukujongela phantsi ukubaluleka kwelayisensi yomtshato, masikukhanyisele ukuba kutheni ufuna ilayisensi yomtshato? ungayifumana nini ilayisensi yakho yomtshato? kwaye Zeziphi izinto ezifunekayo kwilayisensi yomtshato?
Umtshato uyilungele impilo yakho
Wonke umntu ufuna "ukuhlala kakuhle kwaye aphumelele", akunjalo? Ewe, enye indlela yokwenza oko kukutshata. Umzekelo, kukho uphononongo olubonisa ukuba "abo bangazange batshate banamathuba aphindwe kabini okusweleka kwasekuqaleni kunabo bebekade betshatile ngokuzinzileyo kubo bonke ubomi babo abadala".
Ayisiyomtshato kuphela onokusindisa ubomi (ngokoqobo), kodwa inciphisa amathuba okuba ube nesifo esinganyangekiyo, iphucula impilo yakho yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo kwaye kukho nezifundo ezibonisa ukuba isini esitshatileyo singcono kunesondo phakathi kwabangatshatanga.
Isizathu esinye kukuba abantu abatshatileyo bahlala besabelana ngesondo ngokungagungqiyo kunokuba besenza singles; oku kubangela ukuba iikhalori ezininzi zitshiswe kwaye zibengcono impilo yentliziyo. Kwakhona, ukuzibandakanya nomsebenzi kunye neqabane elinye kukhuseleke kakhulu.
Yindawo enempilo yabantwana
Kukho intwana yomqolomba ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Umtshato ngu imeko esempilweni yabantwana ukuba umtshato ngokwawo ulungile.
Ukugcina oko engqondweni, kukho iingxelo ezininzi ezibonisa ukuba abantwana abanabazali ababini ekhaya bafumana amanqaku angcono, kunokwenzeka ukuba bahlale esikolweni (kwaye baye ekholejini), banethuba elisezantsi lokusebenzisa iziyobisi okanye ukuthatha inxaxheba ekuseleni besebancinci , abasesichengeni kwimiba yeemvakalelo kunye noxinzelelo kwaye banethuba elikhulu lokutshata xa sele bekhulile.
Iphepha-mvume lomtshato likufumanela zonke iintlobo zamalungelo
Nangona kungekho mntu ufanele ukutshata kuphela izibonelelo zomthetho, kusakulungile ukwazi ukuba kukho ezinye. Uninzi, enyanisweni. Ukutshata kukunika ilungelo kukhuseleko lwezeNtlalontle, kwiMedicare, nakwizibonelelo zokukhubazeka.
Kukubeka kwimeko yokwenza izigqibo eziphambili zonyango egameni lomlingane wakho. Ukuba iqabane lakho lalinabantwana ngaphambi kokuba nitshate, ungafaka ngokusemthethweni indima yendima yomzali wesibini okanye ukwamkelwa komntwana ngumntu ongamzelanga ibengowakhe.
Ungasayina uhlaziyo lweqeshiso egameni leqabane lakho. Kwaye, ukuba banokufa, uyakwazi ukuvuma iinkqubo zasemva kokubhubha kwaye wenze nezicwangciso zokugqibela zokungcwaba. Uyakwazi ukufikelela kwimbuyekezo yabasebenzi okanye kwiingxowa-mali zomhlalaphantsi ngokunjalo.
Unokufumana izibonelelo zemali
Ngaba uyazi ukuba zikhona izibonelelo zemali eziza nokuba utshatile? Umtshato unokukufumanela irhafu.
Inokukhusela nelifa lakho, inciphise iindleko zakho zokhathalelo lwempilo, ikufumanele isaphulelo esikhulu kwiminikelo yakho yesisa kwaye inokusebenza njengendawo yokuhlala yerhafu ukuba iqabane lakho lineshishini eligcina liphulukana nemali.
Ukutshata kunokukwenza (kwaye ugcine) wonwabile
Ngaba ungaphila ubomi obanelisayo njengomntu ongatshatanga? Ewe unako!
Kodwa xa usazi ukuba unaye umntu osecaleni kwakho ozibophelele ekukuxhaseni nasekukukhuthazeni, ngamaxesha amnandi nanzima, kubo bonke ubomi bakho bonke, oko kunako ukuzisa imvakalelo ekhethekileyo yokukhululeka kunye nolonwabo.
Yiyo loo nto kukwakho nezifundo ezibonisa ukuba abantu abatshatileyo bathanda ukonwaba, ixesha elide, kunabantu abangatshatanga (kunye nabantu abaqhawule umtshato).
Ezinye izibonelelo
Ngaphandle kokusebenza njengobungqina obuxabisekileyo okanye ubungqina bomtshato, a iphepha lomtshato inezibonelelo ezininzi. Ezinye zazo zezi zilandelayo:
- Ukufumana imvume yevisa
- Ukuqinisekisa ngokhuseleko loluntu
- Iluncedo kubafazi njengoko inokunika ukuzithemba kubo
- Uncedo lokubanga i-inshurensi yobomi, ipenshoni kunye nezinye iidipozithi zebhanki
- Inokubaluleka ngexesha lokwahlukana ngokwasemthethweni, i-alimony, kunye noqhawulo mtshato
- Ukulandelelana kwepropathi.
Ke, njengoko ubona, xa ucinga ukuba okanye awufumani mvume yokutshata uza kuwenza umahluko omkhulu ebomini bakho ngokunxulumene nolwalamano lwakho, kukho ubungqina obuninzi obuchaza ukuba bunako.
Ukutshata kungaphezulu kakhulu kokuba "nokuba neqhekeza" lephepha. Phantse kuwo onke amacandelo onokucinga ngawo, iza nezibonelelo ezininzi. Ezo zinokuhlala ubomi bonke!