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Umxholo
- Ingxaki ngobudlelwane bobonelelo
- 1. Abantu abathandanayo bakhona xa bekunye
- 2. Isibini esithandanayo sikhumbula yonke imihla ebalulekileyo
- 3. Abantu abathandanayo bacinga ngekamva kunye
- 4. Abantu abathandanayo bajonge phambili ekubeni kunye
- 5. Yenza izigqibo kunye
- 6. Izibini ezithandanayo zihlala zihlala zinxibelelana
- Ubudlelwane bokusebenziseka lula bunokufakwa kuthando!
Ukuba kunye nomntu othandana naye kwahluke kakhulu kunokuba kubudlelwane nomntu nje kuba kubonakala kufanelekile. Kubantu abaninzi, ukuba kubudlelane obulungeleleneyo kulunge ngokupheleleyo kwimeko abakuyo. Bakholelwa ukuba kulula ukuba neqabane kunokuba ube nokudibana ngokweemvakalelo kunye nobunzulu nomntu.
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuba kubudlelwane nomntu ukuze kube lula, kwaye kwihlabathi esiphila kulo, olu hlobo lobudlelwane luxhaphake kakhulu. Ke inokuba yingxaki njani?
Ingxaki ngobudlelwane bobonelelo
Olu hlobo lobudlelwane luyingxaki xa ungasavuyi. Xa uqala ukukhangela unxibelelwano olunzulu nolunentsingiselo ngakumbi, olu lwalamano alusayi kuphinda lukusebenzele. Abantu abathandanayo banezenzo ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo kwizibini ezikw ubudlelwane bazo ukuze zilungele okanye zifunane.
Lo mahluko ucace gca kangangokuba unokubonwa ngokucacileyo ukuba inye kuphela eyaziyo into nokuba ijongeka kanjani. Ngamanye amaxesha izibini zingena kubudlelwane zikwimeko yovuyo olukhulu lwengqondo kwaye zehle emgceni, njengoko iminyaka idlula bengaziva bengonwabanga.
Baqala ukubuza ukuba bayathandana na okanye hayi. Nangona kunjalo, kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kobudlelwane bothando kunye nobudlelwane obusekwe kulungelelwaniso; qhubeka ufunda ukuze ufumane!
1. Abantu abathandanayo bakhona xa bekunye
Amaqabane azalisekisiweyo, onwabile nothando lokwenene ahlala ekhona ngengqondo nangokweemvakalelo xa bakwizandla zomnye nomnye. Bajolise ekuqwalaseleni ezona nkcukacha zincinci. Isibini esithanda nzima siphendula kwiibhidi zokunikwa ingqalelo komnye nomnye.
Unokuzibuza ukuba yintoni ibhidi; ibhidi ilula njengokutshintshiselana ngombhalo othandekayo. Umlingane othandweni uya kuphendula kwangoko nangendlela enobubele.
Izibini ezithandanayo zihlala zihlala zithandana kangangoko.
2. Isibini esithandanayo sikhumbula yonke imihla ebalulekileyo
Abantu abathandanayo bahlala bekhumbula zonke iintsuku ezibalulekileyo zokubhiyozela ezifana nezikhumbuzo, iiholide kunye nemihla yokuzalwa. Xa uthandana, uyenza injongo yakho ukwenza ukonwaba kwiqabane lakho, kwaye le iba yeyona nto iphambili kuwe.
Izibini ezilula zinokuyamkela imihla ekhethekileyo, kodwa azenzi nto enkulu ngayo.
3. Abantu abathandanayo bacinga ngekamva kunye
Ukuba uthandana ngenene nomnye obalulekileyo, niyakuthetha ngokukhululekileyo ngekamva lakho kunye nokuba kubandakanya ukubanjwa okanye hayi. Amaqabane athandanayo onwabile ngakwimeko akuyo, kodwa kananjalo baneenjongo ezifanayo kunye namaphupha ngekamva.
Ukufumanisa ulwalamano lwakho kuyinto elula kunokukubetha kwakanye emva kokufumanisa ukuba ufuna ntoni kwikamva.
Ungajonga umba onzulu wobudlelwane bakho kwaye uzibuze imibuzo malunga nokuba kutheni nindawonye.
4. Abantu abathandanayo bajonge phambili ekubeni kunye
Xa usemathandweni ufuna ukuba neqabane lakho 24/7; akukhathaleki nokuba uxakeke kangakanani ishedyuli yakho okanye indlela obuphila ngayo ubomi bakho.
Banokukunyamezela ukwahlukana, kodwa ukuphela kosuku, ulonwabo abalufumanayo ngokubakho kunye kukuba bubudlelwane bothando njani.
Kwelinye icala, izibini ezikuyo ukuze kube lula zihlala ubomi ngokufana; Ixesha abalichitha kunye alonwabisi kwaye isenokungabi ngamava omabini. Xa behlukene, baziva bekhululekile, kwaye kunqabile ukuba bacinge ngezinye zabo ezibalulekileyo.
5. Yenza izigqibo kunye
Abantu abathandanayo bayayenza into yokuba babonisane ngezigqibo eziphambili ebomini babo. Bacinga ngomnye umntu xa bethatha isigqibo kuba ubudlelwane babo ngu "thina" hayi "mna"
Abantu abathandanayo bahlala becinga ngamaqabane abo ukuba bazive belingana njengabo, kwaye bayahloniphana ngaphezulu kwamaqabane nabahlali.
6. Izibini ezithandanayo zihlala zihlala zinxibelelana
Nokuba kukudibana kwengqondo, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo; izibini ezithandanayo zifuna ukuhlala zixhunyiwe ngalo lonke ixesha.
Kolu hlobo lobudlelwane akukho qabane liziva ngathi "lisetyenzisiwe" kwaye ukuba kukho into ekhathaza elinye iqabane zombini zijolise ukulungisa lo mbandela.
Izibini ezilula, nangona kunjalo, zihlala zivakalisa iingxaki zazo kubahlobo nakwabo basebenza nabo endaweni yokuba zibalulekile kwezinye. Isizathu soku sikukuba abaziva naluphi na unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo apho.
Ubudlelwane bokusebenziseka lula bunokufakwa kuthando!
Ukuba unamathele kubudlelwane bokuhlala ungasoloko ukongeza kuthando oluthile; Gcina ukhumbula ukuba into encinci kunye nezona zincinci zihamba indlela ende. Qiniseka ukuba uyazixabisa kwaye ubuyise intlantsi elahlekileyo.