Umxholo
Ukuba ukungabikho kwenza intliziyo ikhule ithanda, ezi zicatshulwa kunye neentetho malunga nokwahlukana kufuneka zikhuphe iintliziyo zakho. Intlungu yokwahlukana ikwenza ukuba uqonde ubunzulu bothando lwakho, isoyikiso sokwahlukana kunokukwenza ukuba uqale ngokuxabisa ubudlelwane bakho, nangakumbi.
Izicaphulo zohlukaniso zomtshato zilungile ekusebenziseni isicatshulwa ngexesha lohambo lweshishini, kwikhadi loSuku lweValentine, okanye nakwiphepha elithi "Lithumele" kwisikhwama.
Nazi i-9 zezicatshulwa zethu esizithandayo zokwahlula:
1. Iintetho zothando ezithandwayo kunye neengcaphuno zibonisa uluvo lokuba xa uthandane nomntu ixesha elide, inxalenye yakho ihlala naye ixesha elide emva kokuba ungasekho.
2. Iintetho ezithandwayo malunga nothando zisasaza umbono wokuba ukuze uqonde ngokwenyani ubukhulu bothando lokwenene, kufuneka wohlukane nezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo, nokuba kukanye nje.
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3. Ukoyika ukuphulukana nesithandwa sakho kunokukunceda wenze iinzame ezinyanisekileyo zokukhulisa ubudlelwane bakho. Le ngenye yeentetho ezizilumko ngothando oluya kukwenza uzive i-gravitas yothando.
4. Izicatshulwa ngokwahlukana zinokukunika uxolo olukhulu kunye nentuthuzelo ukuba uqhawuka kakubi okanye ukwahlukana emtshatweni.
5. Enye yeentetho zothando olunzulu ekwabelwana ngazo apha iya kudibana nabo bakholelwa ukuba umgama wenza ukuba intliziyo ikhule ithande. Ezi nyaniso ziyinyani ngothando zizisa ukufana kwethemba kubomi babo bafuna ukutya umntu omthandayo.
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6. Esinye sezona zinto zintle zothando zivakalisa umbono wokujulisa uthando ngokungcamla iintlungu ezimnandi zokwahlukana, kube kanye.
7. Amazwi othando kunye nezicaphulo kuwo wonke umgama okanye ukwahlukana okwethutyana phakathi kwezibini njengamandla abuyisa inkanuko kubomi babo bothando kwaye alawula ilangatye lothando.
8. Amazwi amnandi ngothando aya kuhlala ekufaka ukuba ujonge ebomini unethemba. Ukuphela kobudlelwane akuphawuli ukuphela kothando. Ibonisa isiqalo esitsha.
9. Iintetho ezinzulu zothando ezinje ngale ziya kudibana nabathandi abanomdla, abakholelwa ukuba uthando lwabo luya kuhlala luhleli, noluzayo.
