Umxholo
- Ileta ebhalwe ngumntwana wabazali abaqhawule umtshato
- Cinga ngabantwana bakho ngaphambi kokuba uqhawule umtshato
Uqhawulo mtshato sesinye sezigqibo ezimbi umzali anokuzenzela umntwana kwaye zinokuthathwa njengokuzingca. Isizathu sokuqhawula umtshato kukuba izibini azisakwazi ukubunyamezela ubukho bomnye nomnye.
Kulapho baphosakeleyo; Nje ukuba abantu ababini bathathe isigqibo sokungena kubudlelwane kwaye babe nabantwana, ubomi babo abuphelelanga kulonwabo lwabo; ijikeleza kulonwabo lomntwana kunye neemfuno zakhe kunye neemfuno zakhe.
Nje ukuba ube ngumzali, kufuneka ubingelele ukuze wonwabe umntwana wakho kwaye ngeli dini kuza umbingelelo wolonwabo lwakho, isidingo, ukufuna kunye nokunyamezelana nobukho beqabane lakho.
Abantwana bathambekele ekuhluphekeni ngenxa yesigqibo somzali.
Babandezeleka ngokwasemphefumlweni, emzimbeni nasengqondweni; baqala ukuwa ngasemva kwizifundo zabo kwaye bade bangavumi ukuzibophelela xa badala.
Batyekele ekubeni nemicimbi ngokuzibophelela, ukuthembela kunye nothando lomntu; zonke ezi ngxaki zivela ngenxa yesigqibo esenziwe ngabazali bomntwana.
Ileta ebhalwe ngumntwana wabazali abaqhawule umtshato
Uqhawulo mtshato ngokungathandabuzekiyo luchaphazela umntwana kakhulu kwaye ngenxa yoku abantwana abaninzi bafuna unyango. Eyona nto iinyembezi ziinyembezi zinokufunyanwa ngumzali yileta ibhalwe ngumntwana wakhe ibacela ukuba bahlale kunye.
Nantsi ileta evela kumntwana woqhawulo-mtshato, kwaye iyakhathaza.
“Ndiyazi ukuba ikhona into eyenzekayo ebomini bam, kwaye izinto ziyatshintsha kodwa andazi ukuba yintoni.
Ubomi bohlukile kwaye ndisoyika ukufa ngekamva.
Ndifuna bobabini abazali bam bathathe inxaxheba ebomini bam.
Ndifuna ukuba babhale iileta, banditsalele umnxeba kwaye bandibuze malunga nosuku lwam xa ndingekho kunye nabo.
Ndiziva ndingabonakali xa abazali bam bengabandakanyekanga ebomini bam okanye bengathethi nam rhoqo.
Ndifuna ukuba bandenzele ixesha nokuba bahlukane kangakanani okanye baxakeke kangakanani kwaye babuthathaka kangakanani na emalini.
Ndifuna ukuba bandikhumbule xa ndingekho kwaye bangandilibali xa befumana umntu omtsha.
Ndifuna abazali bam bayeke ukulwa bodwa kwaye basebenze kunye ukuze sivane.
Ndifuna bavumelane xa kufikwa kwimicimbi enxulumene nam.
Xa abazali bam besilwa ngam, ndiziva ndinetyala kwaye ndicinga ukuba ndenze into embi.
Ndifuna ukuziva ndilungile ukubathanda bobabini kwaye ndifuna ukuziva ndichitha ixesha kunye nabazali bam bobabini.
Ndifuna abazali bam bandixhase xa ndikunye nomnye umzali bangacaphuki kwaye babe nomona.
Andifuni kuthatha cala kwaye ndikhethe omnye umzali endaweni yomnye.
Ndifuna ukuba bafumane indlela yokunxibelelana nabanye ngokuthe ngqo nangokuqinisekileyo malunga neemfuno zam kunye nezinto endizifunayo.
Andifuni ukuba ngumthunywa kwaye andifuni ukungena embindini weengxaki zabo.
Ndifuna abazali bam bathethe kuphela izinto ezintle ngomnye nomnye
Ndibathanda bobabini abazali bam ngokulinganayo kwaye xa bethetha izinto ezingenabubele kwaye bathetha kakubi omnye komnye, ndiziva ndibi kakhulu.
Xa abazali bam bethiyana ndiziva ngathi bandithiyile nabo. ”
Cinga ngabantwana bakho ngaphambi kokuba uqhawule umtshato
Abantwana bafuna bobabini abazali kwaye bafuna bobabini njengenxalenye yobomi babo. Umntwana kufuneka azi ukuba angaya kubazali bakhe acebise xa enengxaki ngaphandle kokucaphukisa omnye umzali.
Umntwana woqhawulo mtshato akanakuzihambela yedwa kwaye uya kufuna abazali bakhe ukuba bamncede aqonde ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Kucetyiswa kubazali kwihlabathi liphela ukuba babeke abantwana babo ngaphezu kobudlelwane babo, babanike eyona nto iphambili kwaye bathathe isigqibo soqhawulo mtshato.