Umxholo
- Ubundlobongela basekhaya buseyingxaki ebonakalayo kwinkcubeko yethu
- Funa abancedisi
- Yenza isicwangciso sokubaleka
- Yazisa abasemagunyeni ngale meko
- Musa ukubuya
UMarilyn wayesazi ukuba kukho ingxaki xa engena kumnyango wekhitshi. Umabonwakude ebekhala, ikhabhathi yotywala ivuleke kakhulu, kwaye ivumba elingaqondakaliyo leeMigarethi ezibomvu zikaMarlboro zigcwalise indawo. URalph wayenxila kwakhona.
Ngelishwa, isimilo sikaRalph "sokuxela" ubunxila babugqithisile ngobu busuku. UMarilyn wayekhe wamkela ubundlongondlongo bukaRalph amatyeli amaninzi ngaphambili, kodwa ngokuhlwanje wayeza kungqubana nokufa uqobo.
UMarilyn wazama ukwehla edlula kuRalph, ngethemba lokuba akazukumvusa. "Ukuba ndingasenza nje isifundo sam," wazixelela xa wayetyibilika egumbini lokuhlala. Akazange aphumelele.
Xa uRalph weva amanyathelo, waphakama kwaye wamgxeka ngokukhawuleza umfazi wakhe. Enomsindo kukuba isidlo sakhe sasingalungiswanga, uRalph wathabatha isibane wasiphosa kwicala likaMarilyn.
Xa isiseko seceramic sesibane sangqubana nobuso bukaMarilyn, eso siqhushumbisi samsika ngokunzulu. Igazi lalisitsho ebusweni, uMarilyn wabaleka wangena kumnyango wangaphambili, ngethemba lokuhlaba imoto edlulayo. URalph ngekhe abenayo.
Ebiza amandla angenakuthelekiswa nanto, uRalph watsala umfazi wakhe wehla ngendlela esecaleni komnyango wendlu. Njengokuba wayesebeza, uMarilyn wazixelela, "Andizukuphumelela."
Ngelo xesha uRalph wakhubeka kwinqanaba elikhokelela "kumhlaba" wendlu. Ukubetha umva kwentloko yakhe njengoko wayewela kubantu abadala, uRalph wenziwa wangazi nto. Uncedo lwaluza kufika kuMarilyn. Ngokuqhelekileyo.
Jonga kwakhona:
Ubundlobongela basekhaya buseyingxaki ebonakalayo kwinkcubeko yethu
Ngelixa amanani-manani esixelela ukuba amadoda asengozini yokuba ngamaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya njengabafazi, kufuneka siyamkele loo nto Amadoda anokwenzakalisa kakhulu kunamabhinqa amaninzi.
Ubudlelwane obuhlukumeza ngengqondo kunye nobundlobongela basekhaya zihlala zingamandla. Besebenzisa iintloni, ukukhanyisa igesi, ubundlongondlongo, kunye nezinto ezinje, abenzi bobubi bahlutha amaxhoba abo amandla kunye nethemba.
Rhoqo, amaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya abaqondi ukuba bakubudlelwane obuxhaphazayo kude kube lixesha elide emva kokuba umenzi wobubi etshintshe inyani yexhoba kwaye enze iintlungu.
Kwesi siqwenga, asizami ukusasaza oyena nobangela wobundlobongela basekhaya ngethemba lokuba "singasiphula" ngaphambi kokuba siqale.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, sithatha ukuba ubundlobongela basekhaya sele buyinto ebalulekileyo kubudlelwane.
Ukuba ixhoba liyazi ukuba likunye nomyeni ophethe gadalala ngokwengqondo kwaye lifuna ukwazi ukuba liphuma njani kubudlelwane obuhlukumezayo, ke la manyathelo anokuthathwa ukunciphisa ubunzima kunye nelahleko.
Funa abancedisi
Ukuba uthandana nendoda ekuhlukumezayo, ungazami ukuya kumaxesha anzima wedwa.
Xa ujongene neziphumo zoxhatshazo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba amaxhoba angqongwe yinkuku yenkxaso yeemvakalelo kunye nezinto ezibonakalayo.
Nxibelelana nelungu losapho elithembakeleyo, umhlobo, zama iingcebiso zokuxhatshazwa ekhaya, unyango lwasekhaya, okanye ufumane uncedo lokuxhatshazwa ekhaya ngokutsalela umnxeba umnxeba woxhatshazo lwasekhaya.
Chaza ngqo ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ebomini bakho. Yazisa lo mncedisi (okanye abancedisi) ukuba ungadinga ukufikelela kubo ukuba imeko yakho iba yingozi.
Yenza ukuba abancedisi benze ilog eneenkcukacha ubanika zona. Ukuba umncedisi ubona impatho gadalala okanye isimilo esikrokrisayo, mabenze nabo babhale le ngcaciso. Olu lwazi luya kuba luncedo kakhulu ekuphumeni kubudlelwane obuhlukumezayo.
Yenza isicwangciso sokubaleka
Ukuba iqabane lakho alifuni ukwamkela kwaye lifune uncedo ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe gadalala, kufuneka ubushiye ubudlelwane. Le meko ayizukuphucuka ngokungqongqo kwigunya lenkoliseko yakho kunye namandla omlinganiswa.
Ke ushiya njani ubudlelwane obuhlukumezayo? Ngenxa yoko, Kuya kufuneka wenze isicwangciso sokubaleka ngoku. Stowe imali eyongezelelweyo yomzuzu wokubaleka, imimiselo yakho kunye namaxwebhu abalulekileyo kwindawo ekhuselekileyo engaphaya kwekhaya lakho.
Yazi kwangaphambili - ukuba ngubani oza kubiza kwaye uza kuhlala phi xa kufuneka uphume kwikhaya lakho. Ukuba unabantwana, isicwangciso sakho kufuneka sibabandakanye nabo.
Musa ukubashiya ngasemva abantwana bakho phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko. Xhobisa ukuba kunyanzelekile.
Yazisa abasemagunyeni ngale meko
Ukuba ukukhutshwa ekhayeni lakho kusondele, qhubeka uye wazise amapolisa malunga nengxaki yakho kunye nesicwangciso sakho sokushiya ubudlelwane obuhlukumezayo. Ungatsalela umnxeba umnxeba kulwalamano olushushu kwaye ufune uncedo kubo.
Ukuba u Unobungqina obungqina ibango lakho lokuxhatshazwa, Ubungqina bukulungele ukunikezela emapoliseni. Xa ucacile endlini, tsalela amapolisa uwaxelele ukuba ulixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya.
Amapolisa aya kukunceda ukuba ugcwalise amaxwebhu afanelekileyo neenkundla ukuze ube "nomyalelo wokhuseleko" omiselwe wena.
Musa ukubuya
Xa ushiya ubudlelwane obuhlukumezana ngokwasemphefumlweni okanye ushiya indoda ephethe gadalala, kufuneke u angabuyeli ekhaya.
Kumjikelo oqhelekileyo wokuxhatshazwa, umenzi wobubi uya kuzama ukukukhohlisa ukuze ubuyele ekhayeni / kubudlelwane. Sukuyithenga!
Isigaba sasemva komtshato sobudlelwane obuhlukumezayo sihlala sibuyela kumzekelo ofanayo wokuxhatshazwa. Shiya iqabane elihlukumezayo, kwaye musa ukuqhwanyaza iliso.
Nantsi inyani yobundlobongela basekhaya; ngaphandle kongenelelo lwengqondo, iya kunyuka. Kutheni uzibeka ngaphezulu?
Iingcinga zokugqibela
Akukho mntu ungena kubudlelwane kunye nokucinga ukuba ubudlelwane buya kuphela kakubi. Ngelishwa, zimbalwa iziphelo ezimnandi xa ubundlobongela basekhaya buthatha ubudlelwane.
Awunakho ukulungisa iqabane lakho! Awunakho ukubuthintela ngokwakho ubundlobongela. Ke ngoko, zingqonge ngenkxaso, kwaye ulungiselele isicwangciso sokushiya umntu okuphatha gadalala ngokweemvakalelo kwaye uye ebomini obuzinzileyo nobomeleleyo.
Ukuba uziva ngathi awungekhe uphuncuke kumjikelo wempatho gadalala, funa uninzi loncedo kubafazi abahlukumezekileyo njengoko unokukwazi. Ngokukhawuleza uza kufumanisa ukuba abo bakwazi ngcono sele besazi ukuba ujongene nolwalamano lwesihogo.
Zithembe iimvakalelo zakho, qokelela amandla akho, kwaye ulungiselele ukufumana kwakhona ulawulo lobomi bakho, kwaye kungekudala ungazifumana sele ulufumana ulwalamano oluhlukumezayo.