Umxholo
- Izinto ziyatshintsha kwizibini ezitshatileyo xa kuzalwa umntwana
- Ukuthatha ixesha omnye nomnye
- Gcina ukuthandana kuphila
- Konwabela ukusondelelana
- Amakhefu amancinci amaxesha ngamaxesha
- Yonwabela ubomi obudlamkileyo ekuhlaleni
- Bukela iimovie ezininzi
- Khathalelana
- Ukuchitha ixesha kunye nesini esifanayo
- Musa ukutyhola
- Ndithethile konke oko
Umtshato konke malunga nokuqala usapho kwaye kubandakanya abantwana. Ngaphandle kokuthetha ukuba zonke izibini ezitshatileyo ziceba abantwana kwingqondo yabo engacacanga kuyo yonke indlela.
Abantu bayadibana, bathandana kwaye batshata. Imbalwa iminyaka yokuqala kwesiqhelo ibonisa ukuba lelona xesha lomlingo kuzo zonke izibini ezitshatileyo. Banoxanduva olumbalwa, ixesha elininzi lasimahla kwaye akukho sidingo salo naluphi na uhlobo loqeqesho. Indoda nomfazi bahlala kuphela omnye komnye bade babe ngabazali.
Izinto ziyatshintsha kwizibini ezitshatileyo xa kuzalwa umntwana
Umama kufuneka anikele ngexesha lakhe elininzi kunye namandla kukhathalelo lomntwana.
Imele ichithe usuku lwayo ngokwesiqhelo kunye neemfuno zomntwana. Ukuvuka nokulala nomntwana, ukondla umntwana, ukhathalela ucoceko nokunye okuninzi. Uluhlu luyaqhubeka. Ngokunyuka kweendleko, uxanduva lwezezimali luye lube lubi kakhulu.
Bobabini indoda nomfazi kufuneka basebenze kuzo zonke iinkalo ngokuzinikela okupheleleyo ukunika umntwana ubomi obuzinzileyo nobusempilweni.
Phakathi kwazo zonke ezi zinto, ngamanye amaxesha, uthando, ulonwabo kunye nothando phakathi kwesibini esitshatileyo siphelile. Yindalo kwaye ayiqhelekanga. Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni abantu abatshatileyo nabantwana benokufumana umgama phakathi kwabo.
Ngaba nasiphi na isibini sifuna ukuba yenzeke? Akunjalongo noko.
Ke senza ntoni ukuvuselela idangatye kwaye sibuyise ubushushu kulwalamano? Ewe, zininzi iindlela zokonwabela ukuthandana okungapheliyo nasemva kokuba nabantwana ukuba sibeka izinto eziphambili kuthi kuqala.
Ukuthatha ixesha omnye nomnye
Ukuba nomntwana kunokuguqula yonke into. Ingakumbi ukufumaneka kwexesha. Kuya kubakho ixesha elincinci kakhulu elifumanekayo, ngakumbi umama. Kungumsebenzi osisigxina ukuba ngumama ngaphandle kwekhefu. Ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuyakubonakalisa kwisibini esitshatileyoulationship.
Ukulwa le ngxaki, isibini esitshatileyo sinokucwangcisa usuku okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa okanye nayiphi na into abayithandayo ukwenza kunye.
Kuyacaciswa apha nangona, ukuba lo msebenzi, nokuba ungayintoni, kufuneka ucwangciswe ngaphandle komntwana. Ukucwangciswa kwangaphambili kunye namalungiselelo afanelekileyo enza yonke into ibe mpuluswa kwaye ingabinangxaki.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba le nkqubo igcinwa rhoqo, ukulungisa umhla othile okanye imihla ngenyanga nganye kunokunceda kakhulu. Lindela nje ubusuku bomhla kwaye uve umlingo kwakhona.
Gcina ukuthandana kuphila
Bonke abantu abatshatileyo, nokuba baphile ubomi obunjani emva kweminyaka emihlanu ukuya kwesisixhenxe betshatile, bayavumelana ngento enye. Elona candelo lonwabisayo emtshatweni wabo yayisesibini sokuqala sonyaka emva komtshato wabo. Kwakukho uthando, uthando, inkathalo, ukusondelelana kwaye uninzi lwazo zonke kwakungekho kungavisisani.
Iintyatyambo, izidlo zekhandlela, izipho ngoku kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye kunye kunceda kakhulu ukugcina ukukhanya kukhanya. Ke kutheni uzophula isiko ngoku. Khumbula iintsuku zakho zobugqi kwaye uphinde izinto ozithandayo kakhulu. Ukuthandana kude.
Konwabela ukusondelelana
Ukusondelelana ngokwasemzimbeni kudlala indima enkulu kubomi obonwabisayo emtshatweni.
Yonwabela inkampani yomnye nomnye kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Inceda kakhulu ekomelezeni ubudlelwane ekuhambeni ixesha elide.
Kuyanceda ukwenza unxibelelwano lomlingo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Yiva umlingo kwaye uphile ngoloyiko olupheleleyo. Zama izinto.
Amakhefu amancinci amaxesha ngamaxesha
Iholide zosapho ziyimfuneko.
Zama ukucwangcisa iholide ubuncinci kabini ngonyaka. Kuyanceda ukukhululeka kwaye kunika ikhefu kwindlela yesiqhelo yemihla ngemihla. Iholide inokuba lelona xesha lilungileyo lokususa ukungqubana okungasonjululwanga nako.
Abantu abonwabileyo kwaye bekhululekile kulula ukufikelela kubo kunye nokuqinisekisa. Ihamba zombini iindlela.
Yonwabela ubomi obudlamkileyo ekuhlaleni
Zulazula kwisangqa somhlobo wakho kakhulu. Okungakumbi kukudityaniswa. Abahlobo banokukunika amandla amaninzi aqinisekileyo. Ndiyazi ukuba ayivakali ilungile kodwa ukutshata, ukuba nomntwana kunye nokucinga ngekamva lezemali elikhuselekileyo, kunokuba nzima.
Abahlobo abonwabileyo abakungqongileyo baya kukunika amandla okuqhubeka.
Bukela iimovie ezininzi
Isenokungavakali ikrelekrele kangako kodwa ukubukela imovie kunye sisixhobo esiluncedo kakhulu ekuqiniseni ubunzulu bolwalamano lwakho.
Ukuhlala ebumnyameni, ubambe isandla somnye nomnye, wonwabele iimvakalelo ezinyikimisa ngaphakathi kwakho kakubi amazinyo akho ancokola. Uyaphola kwaye uyabamba. Yenze kangangoko unako.
Khathalelana
Ukunyamekelana kwenza yonke into ibengcono. Yindlela elungileyo yokubonisa ukuba ibaluleke kangakanani iqabane lakho kuwe. Ukunceda ngoku nezinto ezincinci, ukuthetha ngento engekhoyo kunye nokugcina impilo kwimpilo yomnye nomnye kubaluleke.
Ukudumisa kufuneka siqhwabe izandla zozibini. Intsingiselo, ubomi bubonisa imiceli mngeni efanayo ngokulinganayo kubo bobabini abantu nakuluphi na ulwalamano, ubuncinci umntu akufuneki athathe nantoni na.
Ukuchitha ixesha kunye nesini esifanayo
Ukunika indawo omnye nomnye kulungile. Eyona ndlela yokuyenza kukukhuthaza iqabane lakho ukuba lichithe ixesha kunye nabahlobo besini esifanayo.
Umfazi onentombi zakhe kunye nomyeni onomfana athandana naye. La mava anika imvakalelo eyonelisayo kakhulu yokungaphulukani nobomi bakho bakhululekile nobudala ngaxeshanye wonwabele ubomi bosapho obonwabisayo.
Musa ukutyhola
Izinto zinokungahambi kakuhle ngoku. Iphantsi kolawulo lomntu.
Ke, thatha umzuzwana kwaye ucinge ngaphambi kokuthetha into omnye komnye evakala ngathi sisityholo. Inokwenza izinto zibe nzima kancinci.
Ndithethile konke oko
Ngamanye amaxesha sicwangcisa into eyahlukileyo kwaye sijongane nenye into ngokupheleleyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha yonke into ihamba kanye ngendlela esiceba ngayo. Indlela yokwenza okungcono kuyo yonke imeko yeyona nto iphambili apha. Nje ukuba uchukumise loo chord ngamandla afanelekileyo, ubomi buya kuba ngumculo.
Ubudlelwane budinga ixesha kunye nomonde, akunamsebenzi nokuba mtsha okanye mdala kangakanani. Banike ixesha lokuphefumla kwaye baya kuba zizityebi kwaye banomdla njengobuncinci kunye neyona wayini indala eyenziwe ngeediliya ezigqwesileyo zase-Italiya.