Umxholo
- Ukuqala, qaphela ukuba oku kuqhelekile
- Ezinye izinto ezilula ukuzama
- Yenzani imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye
- Beka amagama kule nto ubuyithatha kancinci
- Yandisa iintlantsi kwigumbi lokulala
- Isipho sendawo
Ngaba uye waba "sisibini esidala esitshatileyo"?
Uyazi, lowo unesiqhelo esiqingqiweyo kangangokuba akukho zero isimanga esishiyekileyo sokufumanisa? Uyasebenza, ufika ekhaya, ulungisa isidlo sangokuhlwa kwaye utye kunye, emva koko uthathe umhlala-phantsi kwimisebenzi yakho eyahlukeneyo yangokuhlwa, kodwa uye kulala, uvuke uphinde wenze njalo?
Sukuvumela isithukuthezi nokuphindaphindeka kuchaphazele umtshato wakho.
Cinga emva kwiminyaka yakho yokuthandana. Kwakukho into entsha ukuzama, indawo yokutyela entsha okanye iklabhu ukuyifumana. Umlingane wakho wayenamahlaya ahlekisayo kwaye yayiyimpilo yepati. Nanihleka ngokulula kwaye amaxesha amaninzi kunye.
Ngaba ufuna ukufumana ezinye zokuzonwabisa kunye nokuhleka kwakhona? Qhubeka ufunda!
Ukuqala, qaphela ukuba oku kuqhelekile
Lonke ubudlelwane bexesha elide bunokuwela kumgaqo.
Kuqhelekile ukuba namaxesha apho yonke into ibonakala ifana. Akuthethi ukuba umtshato wakho uphelile. Ukongeza ezinye iziqholo kunye nolonwabo akunzima, kodwa kufuna ukuba nobabini nikwiphepha elinye. Ke thetha ngale meko.
Qinisekisa ukuba nobabini nityalomali ekunyuseni inqanaba lovuyo kunye nolonwabo kubudlelwane benu.
Ukuba kuphela omnye kuni uzimisele ukwenza lo msebenzi, loo mntu uya kuziva enomsindo. Oku kuyayohlula injongo yomthambo, ke thetha ngaphandle kwaye uziqinisekise ukuba nobabini nizimisele ukwenza uphuculo olufunekayo ukuze niphume kwimilo yenu yemihla ngemihla.
Ezinye izinto ezilula ukuzama
Ngaba uhlala usiya kwindawo yokutyela enye, kuba ilungile kwaye ikulungele?
Khupha ngaphandle kancinci. Thetha nesangqa sakho sentlalo okanye ufunde ezinye izimvo ezikwi-Intanethi uchonge indawo yokutyela engaqhelekanga. Yenza ubusuku bosuku ngalo, ngomgudu ongena kwilokhwe yakho, iinwele kunye nokwenza (umfazi) kunye nesuti, i-cologne kunye nezihlangu ezintle (zomyeni).
Khumbula ukuba unxibe ngononophelo kangakanani kumhla wakho wokuqala? Yenza okufanayo ngoku, nokuba lo ngumhla wakho wama-200.
Olunye utshintsho olulula yimpelaveki yokubaleka ngokuzenzekelayo ukuya kwindawo ongazange ube kuyo ngaphambili. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe yiyo nantoni na eyakwaphula ibhanki. Jonga iseti yexabiso eliphantsi kwaye ubambe. Nokuba loo ndawo ibingekho kuluhlu lwakho lwamabhakethi, yiya phaya.
Konke malunga nokufumanisa into engaziwayo.
Oku kuya kuphefumla ioksijini emtshatweni wakho.
Yenzani imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye
Ukuba ufana nezinye izibini ezitshatileyo, uyahlulahlula imisebenzi ucinga ukuba iya kuwenza umsebenzi ukhawuleze. Kutheni ungakwenzi oku njengeqela?
Ngenxa yokuba amandla akho ephindwe kabini, umsebenzi uya kuwenziwa ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukwenza oku kunye kuya kuba ngamava amatsha. Yongeza kumxube ezinye ii-anecdotes ezihlekisayo ezivela emsebenzini kwaye ukhuphele into eqhelekileyo-yesiqhelo kwigolide yamahlaya.
Beka amagama kule nto ubuyithatha kancinci
Kudala nikunye kwaye unokuziva ukuba akukho sidingo sokubonisa uthando lwakho olunzulu, ukuncoma okanye ukubulela iqabane lakho. Ewe bayazi, akunjalo? Qikelela kwakhona.
Kuluvakalelo olwanelisayo ukumva iqabane lakho likuxelela kungekuphela ukuba liyakuthanda, kodwa kutheni likuthanda.
Uyazikhumbula ezo ncoko zithandanayo, xa udwelise yonke into oyithandayo malunga neqabane lakho, ukuya kwindlela abazityhala ngayo iiglasi zabo empumlweni xa besenza into ebalulekileyo? Yenza kwakhona.
Veza uthando lwakho ngokuthe ngqo. "Ndiyakuthanda" kusenokwenzeka ukuba uphulukene nenqindi, kodwa xa kulandelwa "kuba uyathandeka kwezi slippers zebunny" kuya kuzisa ukuhleka egumbini.
Yandisa iintlantsi kwigumbi lokulala
Izibini zexesha elide zinokufumana imeko yesiqhelo phakathi kwamashiti. Emva kwakho konke, uyazi kakuhle iqabane lakho. Uyazi ukuba yintoni ebajika kwaye bayayithanda kunye nendlela yokufumana ukuba bafikelele kuvuthondaba ngokukhawuleza. Oku kunokuba yingxaki, nangona kunjalo, kuba icandelo lokonwaba ngesondo elungileyo kukungaqiniseki kwayo.
Phinda ucinge ngothando lwakho.
Ngokwesiqhelo ulandela ipateni, uyixube okanye uyilahle ngefestile. Faka izinto ezintsha, ezinjengokudlala indima, iithoyi, iingcinga, kunye nayo nayiphi na into enokwabelana ngesondo evumayo kwaye yamkelwe ngokuzithandela. Unokuphela ubona icala elahlukileyo kwiqabane lakho, elinye elitsha nelinomdla.
Isipho sendawo
Indlela eqinisekileyo yomlilo yokunceda ukuphuma kulwalamano lokusila kukubonelelana indawo. Kuyinto ehambelana nayo, kodwa ukuthatha ixesha kude komnye nomnye kunokunceda ekunyuseni ukuziva usondele.
Ke nika omnye nomnye ithuba lokuphosana ngokulandela into oyithandayo okanye ulonwabo. Asicebisi ikhefu elahlukileyo nyaka ngamnye, kodwa mhlawumbi impelaveki eyahlukileyo amaxesha ngamaxesha kunye nobunye ubusuku apho nobabini niyenza into yenu.
Xa ubuya kunye, qiniseka ukuba wabelana ngento oyibonileyo kwaye uyifumene ukuze iqabane lakho livuyiswe ngamava akho, nawo. Lo ngumsebenzi owanelisa ngakumbi ukuba usebenzisa ixesha lakho wedwa ukujongana nento enzima kakhulu, njengokuqeqesha umdyarho weembaleki okanye ukuthatha umdlalo ogqithileyo.
Umlingane wakho uya kukujonga ngokumncoma xa ebona oko ukufezekisayo.